Hello! I'm 7th grade and my brother is 8th. The problem is that he beats me every day, he goes to fight, drinks creatine, trains, so I can't jump into his fight. When we are alone at home, he shouts "come for one grip" "only one" and slams me on the bed. It hurts, although it is soft, but he is one of those "healthy". I once tried to oppose him, but it got worse. I can't call him ours, because he shouts "just tell him, think of him ..." and the like. The good thing is that we are from different schools, because if we were in the same school, he would expose me ... He also makes me enroll in wrestling, but I don't want to, because he will beat me in front of people. He is a medalist, he has a silver and a gold medal, there is nothing I can do for him. Does anyone have any advice
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Join a fight, but not with him, but somewhere else. If nowhere else, study when he walks and walks on different days. At least enough to learn maneuvers to avoid his grips and pain. You can also sign up for boxing - a uniquely useful sport, it will not only train your whole body but also build reflexes that will be able to protect you even in front of much stronger and bigger opponents. The fact that he had gold and silver medals means nothing. In wrestling competitions there are judges and specific rules are observed, while at home there are none.
On the contrary, you can tell yours. The correct sentence is - If I tell our thoughts. Tell yours and explicitly warn them that he has threatened you, and it is best to do so in his presence so that he understands that you are not afraid of him. Otherwise, the person is most likely jealous if you receive more attention from your parents than him.
And don't you think the problem is that you're weak? You just have to learn to fight, and not just for your brother. And you have to be more confident, for example, I've never trained anything but I fight with 4-5 guys without a problem. They say that when you are strong you are mentally strong and physically strong. Good luck
I am 7th grade, my brother is 11, I always fight, like training, I used to be in pain, but I am already grateful to him, I can defend myself because of him :)
I have 2 younger brothers, they rather beat me :) my advice is not to leave him and tell your parents they will do something before your brother finds out but try not to be left alone, go out so that he can't to catch you :) sign up for aikido (the art of using the power of the enemy against him) very good martial art: 0
Take your eye sprays when you jump, spray it in a box and see if it will beat you, I did this and I photographed my brother writhing, he is a karate medalist named 4 gold medals and he won a cup for the team, but it still turned out that he is not invincible :)