3See, I'm worried about my brother. He has not had a girlfriend for 6 years and he has nothing. He looks good, he dresses well, he's funny. Only he's a little worried. He doesn't have a girlfriend, he doesn't have a car, a book, he still doesn't have money, but he works. He reads history books all day, and as if that's all he cares about, women stay in the background, and I'm sure he masturbates often. It's like living in another world. He is 25 years old, what advice should I give him?
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Why push the lack of a car and a book to the lack of a girlfriend? And how do you know there is no money?
To go to a bar with friends :) or to go out to train a bit.
He's either destiny or he's gay.
Well, invite him to go out together, in a company where there will be girls ... Some more educated and smart ... I know ... Introduce him to one of your smart and funny friends if you have one. Look for a more closed girl and meet them ... Talk to him ... Write what happens to your brother ... I hope he finds a girl and is happy. :)
It's not just that you're a brainwashed fool who thinks what others are doing is right. Do not give advice, but better learn to write.
Oh, and so is my brother with women! It's like describing it, the difference is that he has a book and a car, and in addition to reading games on the commutator. However, he is 33. He was disappointed and now he seems to have gone with the flow and is living in his own world. I know he wants someone, but he was fine. I don't know how to help him, I hope he can break the wall he built.
He took it out of the "shell" and the beaten path he had chosen. Your brother is not the only one in this situation, it is important to start going out, you say that there is no money, but the best thing you can do is to communicate more, to go out and especially if you can afford to travel. Many of the trips I've been on, there are a lot of people who are even alone. There are great options for cheap destinations for 1-2 days in Bulgaria, to Greece. Just a desire to have, energized, meet interesting people.
For a moment I thought you were my sister, but when she said she was 25, I was relieved ... Take him out with your company, make sure there are single girls among you to meet someone.
He may have been a companion ... I guess only, but that could be the reason for the lack of money.
We live in an interesting world! Who really needs help - you or your brother?
I will give you advice! ;) Leave the man alone. Everyone has plans for life. It is not 100000% necessary to have a girlfriend, to get married, children ... Maybe he thinks it's too early for him. Maybe he wants to be financially secure first, and then the other. Take care of your problems, and leave your brother's friends to him. ;)
Hello, I am the Author. No, he doesn't give his money to prostitutes, he's too moral, how can I explain it to you, he thinks sex is a bad thing. When we start talking about sex and he gets sick, he considers it obscene. I once called him the most beautiful prostitute in town and we both fixed her. He seemed to like it, but it hadn't changed much. He hadn't shaved that job, but otherwise I was shocked. His member was huge, about 22 cm. I do not understand this man. Handsome, the girls keep telling him he's very handsome and he .. I don't know what to do anymore to get a little fucked up ..
Okay ... Well ... Have you thought about a psychologist? Why don't you talk to him about sex, not about sex. Either he was traumatized as a child, or you are an overly conservative family (but I would rule that out because you don't have this problem), or either you and I don't know! Did he fail with the girls at school? Has anyone complained of harassment? How old is he actually? From number 7 :)
He went to a psychologist for 2-3 years. I think that's where his money goes ... But I'm against it. In my opinion, sport is the best psychologist. And as I see it, it doesn't help him. What is the point of delving into some problems instead of looking ahead and starting to build your life?
As a child, he had some problems with his classmates. They seem to have harassed him. Otherwise he is a completely normal person. He is even quite disciplined. I see that he has set goals and achieved many of them, but having a girlfriend is not among them. If you have any other questions ask, I'll tell you.
For failure with girls .. Some time ago he went out with many girls .. And each time he roared for two days after that. He is sensitive. The last time (6 years ago) he went out with a very beautiful and intelligent girl, but something happened and again 2 days of tears. He started taking drugs then ... He wanted to jump off the balcony. It's good that I was the one to reason with him ... He is 25 years old!
Well, he could be gay! Ask him! Be tolerant!
My God !! I have a problem nurse, and she goes to a psychologist, suffers from depression, but I had never met such a thing as your brother ... Have you tried to take him with you to run, play sports ...? Do you go out somewhere in bars together, so fraternally? He may indeed be a homosexual. And I didn't guess about my sister and she turned out to be a lesbian! I accepted it normally, I supported her ... Ask him directly, reassure him that it is not something abnormal and so you will predispose him ... And if it is not ... Then ... Was there any rivalry between you and your brother you? Were you better than him at school? In social relations? Was he neglected in the family? Did your parents have a pet, like you? Think about it. It may have been suppressed for years and that may be the result. How old are you? It may feel like a geek next to you. If you're older, the more successful, etc. Otherwise your thinking is very correct! We have the same philosophy. Namely - it makes no sense to delve much into a problem. Anyway, they have no end ...
Wait now, I can't write with 1000 people at a time, I understand that you want to help, but at the moment I'm writing with number 7. For the last time I will add. He 's not gay. After all, I am his brother and I know him. On the computer I see what sites it enters. She watches porn with women, mostly milfs and some erotic massages.
Wait a minute. Why did you decide that he was sick and was looking for a girlfriend? I'm 27 and I don't have a girlfriend / wife either. I'm fine alone and I don't want anyone to interfere more deeply in my life. I don't feel lonely, I have friends I go out with often. Separately, I do not believe in marriage, for me it is completely useless for the man. I don't like children either. About sex. It is too much for me. I've done my chicks, who have been at times better than one sex. Prostitutes, on the other hand, are a waste of money for me. If he wants it so much, he can go to a disco. 100% someone will tie him. Nowadays, women are hellishly easy, maybe that's exactly what pushes me away from them, I don't know. I hope I was useful to you and leave your brother alone, he is not 15 so you try to help him.
When he was puberty he missed the moment to open up. So you have to act like a teenager - a friend to tell him that his girlfriend told him that her friend liked him. It only remains to find out which girl likes him.
Abe, how can you put a comment (15) that he was too moral and you fixed a prostitute, huh? !! Your worldview needs a major overhaul! And after sharing about the size of his penis, it became clear where his problem comes from - his girlfriends see the dawn and therefore dump him. Accordingly, he feels guilty and prefers not to hurt others, and indulges in spiritual activities. :) And you, like women - you get into movies instead of asking him personally why he doesn't deal with women, why he doesn't have a book, a car, money, even though he works. No. 3
25, I don't want to dispute your comment, but the Author's brother is obviously mentally ill. He also visits a psychologist. It's not all about not hurting the girls. I do not agree with 24. Yes, it's true that he missed the moment to open up, but I don't think this "tactic" will work at all. We did this in the third grade ... And he is already 25. Regarding the psychologist, Author, I suggest that you take your brother to another or advise him to look for another, because it is clear that this does not help. It is not always useless. Sometimes it has an effect, at least in 60% of cases. I recommend Dr. Todor Parvanov, he is a psychotherapist. I have consulted with him and he gives valuable advice. Maybe it will help. If you want, you can contact him in a personal message and explain the situation. Here is the site - it's a bit religious, even too much, but don't pay attention. Just write to him. http: // www.
It's not your job to interfere in his personal life, let him find it.
Does not throwing yourself at every meeting mean that there is a problem?
Author: I will probably shock you now, but I will still tell you everything. I'm a \ "brother loser \" at least according to my brother. If you are mistaken I will explain. My brother is a maniac-psychopath who has been poisoning my life for years. He breaks my passwords with various programs and keeps track of who I write to, what sites I watch, etc. He always thought I was a fool. And he always underestimated me. He wants to change me, to be someone else, according to his ideas. I was fed up with his eternal disapproval, and that was the reason I ended any relationship with him. What I have written above are the words of my brother 1 to 1. The truth is that I have wonderful friends who appreciate and respect me as I am. I am the only one in the family who studies at university and does sports. True .. I have a problem with girls .. So far, I've come across the wrong ones and I've lost a bit of desire. I still don't have money because I travel and make my dream of traveling the world come true. I believe that one day I will meet my princess on my way. I wrote the story this way because I wanted to see things from the sidelines. The answers are 50 \\ 50, which may mean that the truth is somewhere in the middle.
So you're the troubled brother, right? You wrote the story about yourself by your brother?
Author: In fact, I forgot to add that my brother did his best to abhor sex. This prostitute was beautiful, but to watch my brother naked with her. It was shocking for me to be on one side and he on the other. Another incident after the last girl. I met another beautiful girl. We got along and it was time to invite her in and my brother called to tell me that she was very unhygienic and that he forbade me to take her in so as not to soil the bed. Full of nonsense, the girl was clean and beautiful, but then I decided to listen to her. I was paranoid and every time we went out I stared at her skin. Was it really dirty? Finally we broke up. Some will probably say that it's my fault, maybe so. Another problem is that because of the big cock, it's hard to get in and the girls I've been with have been in pain and the sex has been unpleasant.
Don't fool us, there is no brother, you had to say from the very beginning that it was about you. If I am in the place of the moderators, I will remove the topic for you to learn that you should not hide like a mouse under someone else's identity.
H34 By that logic, everyone is a mouse here. Has anyone shown their face here? No..! Everyone can write whatever they want, and that was my way of looking at things from the sidelines. The author