Hello! I am a 17 year old boy. in 11th grade, and almost every day I am bullied (most often verbally) by my brother. He keeps telling me: "poor thing, garbage, freak, crazy, if you die, I'll bury you, I don't want you" and a lot of insults, but the ones I listed are not small. The worst thing is that this has been going on for more than a year, and even worse, I am afraid that I am literally depressed, because I am constantly thinking about these things literally and they do not come out of my head. Of course, I try to forget them, but it doesn't work. It is really quite difficult and difficult for me, I think I have experienced a traumatic shock. I would like to ask if anyone has been in a similar situation and if they have reached the state I feel in at the moment. I will ask the moderators to publish my story.
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And I see such a trend that loved ones have become my biggest enemies. They are also my strongest enemies, because they know everything about me (we grew up together under one roof). My father calls the bosses from my phone at 3 o'clock at night and hangs up !!! I also found out he was talking slander about me in front of the boss! The worst thing is that when I had just graduated I lost my job for about 2 years and lived with my brother. He kept telling me - "If you're going to kill yourself, do it in the bathroom so you don't get dirty", "If you're going to scurry from the block, the right window is without a net", "Look at your homeless friends" and others. Now I work in a managerial position - I have savings for about 10 years without working, BUT I work! Right now my brother is calling and instead of telling me a WELL DONE that he's my brother, IT spits out snakes and lizards on the phone, how I was going to drink the money (and I don't drink anything but coffee), how I live my life at work (and I go with 2 unsuccessful operations by doctors with 2 left hands) ... There is no logic - he is my brother, NO !!! ...
And don't your parents do anything about it?
Talk to your family immediately or even contact the police and social services. If he threatens you with words like "I'll bury you and die" then he may touch you. If I were you, I would have either run away from home a long time ago or just talked to my family. If your family is being mean to you, ask friends or the police for help. Can I ask you something ... Well, does your brother have mental disorders? If he tells you "I don't want you" then there must be some reason. Did you do something to him? In the sense of whether you insulted him or treated him badly ... If the answer is no, IMMEDIATELY either do not let the house go or call for help. Threats to your life are not a joke. And that's what a 16-year-old girl tells you.
So what is this crazy brother ?! Aren't your parents doing something about it? When it comes to systematic behavior, things are very serious and some measures must be taken immediately. I personally would not let things get to that point. Be sure to talk to yours, if things do not improve you can turn to an institution, although they do not know how they would help you. Another option is to become an adult and finish moving out, but in my opinion the one who has to do it is your brother, who has become a rapist.
Well, insult him and you're done!
Until number 3-Spokoynooo will not do anything to him, nor will he try to kill him, just talk about pretending to be very interesting!
Well tell your do something about the issue ...
I hope your people kick him out of the house and adopt a girl - what is this brother of yours - is he crazy? If you have a younger sister, share with her, she will understand you.