My father insults me and shouts all my life, as they say. My mother continues to justify the humiliation. I came across the same man, we have a son. Our child learned to insult me from his father and to beat me from his grandfather, he is not yet 14 years old. He beats me so much that I had blue legs and or an eye, a swollen hand. He insults me in the park in front of strangers. His father, grandparents continue to justify it. They taught him to be without order, discipline and rules. He will kill me in years to come. I don't want to live, I want to die. I contracted endocrine disease from stress.
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Everyone deserves their fate if they do not have a brain in their head and do not know how to react to unpleasant things in life. They learned it without order, discipline and rules, and where was your upbringing of your child in order, discipline and rules. After all, you raised him from an early age, you couldn't teach him anything. I think you really need order and rules. Your intellectual level seems very low to me.
Talk to a psychologist, things repeat themselves, your son becomes the same. Read the question on the net. I hope you find a solution.
How so. Why don't you let them both get better. You don't owe them if they don't respect you for getting in the way.
You should have reacted earlier. Mine is 5, we broke up with my father. And she had learned from him to insult me, and from her paternal grandmother, she had learned to beat me, she had instructed. I started punishing her for sitting in a chair until she realized what she was doing and apologized to me - without a tablet and toys - until she stopped and apologized. At first he didn't want to, he was screaming, pushing, throwing objects, but he got used to it and now it's better. You missed it. Immediately divorce and the child to a psychologist. It's too big and you can't handle it alone. After the divorce - you start to raise him. If he hits or insults you - no pocket money (you will only give him food). If he continues, you take his computer and phone until he apologizes. He must understand that his actions have consequences. But first consult a psychologist. If the court awards your child - better for him, there is some chance of becoming human. And if the child decides that he wants his father, at least you will not live in this stress. And why do you tolerate this man your husband at all? You're late with the divorce.
Why did you marry a man who insulted you?
He fucks them all, there's no other way
Divorce and if your son lives with you must be according to your rules, if not at least you will be calm and you can move on. Just don't go back to living with yours, because then they will harass you even more.
Divorce while it's time and re-educate the child! And why do you allow your father to beat you, not to be 5? Great woman with a child!