My children beat me together last night. They are 12 and 19. One is a student with great pretensions. I raised freaks. I will leave them to watch themselves. I just hated them. I am their mother, their father abandoned them a long time ago, he must have seen that five money is not worth it.
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Maybe it all depends on their upbringing ...
One day they will regret it, but it will be too late. Call the police when it's hot.
If you're so tired - throw it away! It is very sad for a mother to hate her children, but you will not change anything on your own. They are big so you can change them. Act, don't wait to be beaten again. I'm a man
Number one, their father told them not to listen to me because I was crazy, and so on. I'm sorry I didn't get divorced when they were little. I got divorced 7 years ago. Today is my birthday and no one called to congratulate me, I'm at work. And I'm so, so unhappy. Apparently they have no upbringing. I'm so sorry, I'm to blame for everything.
Happy birthday dear ! You are not guilty of absolutely anything! It's just that today's children are not what we used to be. They have no shame, no remorse, absolutely no feelings. Too bad for the current generation, but a fact. As number 4 says, dump them. Then they will come to you on their own. Don't bother, okay?
It's sad what happened to you /
A lot depends on you ....... and many times I wanted to hit my mother but I stopped because this is the woman who created me. You parents make the mistake of thinking that you are the only center in the world! not so understand us a little! :)
And why did you let him? This speaks of improper upbringing, the shortcomings are with you!
Indeed, it is largely your fault, because this, as your mother, was the greatest and most responsible task. BUT no one knows from above how to raise children. What matters right now is what is happening! So, beware! And if you have to, really call the police. What is happening to you is not right at all! And life will still beat them.
Call the police, darling. And don't give them any money as punishment. The little one has a cutie for school and a plate of beans for dinner, and the big one doesn't have a penny. He will work and study ... He is a man and can work hard. Or drive them to their father, to see what they are now, for not taking on the role of parent of the time. Write how you are and what you have decided. And to those who criticize you, I will say that it is not easy to raise two sons alone. Courage, darling ....
How are you. Call me.
Bad situation, I don't know what advice to give you, but remember that once they have reached out once, nothing will stop them from reaching out to you again. Be careful, darling, and don't even let them hit you, even though they are your children and you don't hate them, because you know how much pain you gave birth to and raised. If they read the bible it says .......... respect your mother and father ............ good luck dear.
Sounds pretty fictional to me ....
Why were they both together? You don't say anything about the reason. Some may tell me that the mother is not affected - but I will tell you that it depends a lot on the mother. There are some that don't even deserve to be looked at. They harass you all your life and in the end you get so rotten that you can go before them.
I am 100% sure that you are guilty, you are obviously a disgusting person and they are not freaks ...
Whatever happens - the mother is not affected ... I am shocked by some comments. If some people are so disgusted with their mothers - to leave home and not watch them every day. But very few are bothered - most insult their parents on the forums, and do not look for and do not see the guilt in themselves. I think that the author should send the little one to the father, and the big one - to be saved only outside. At 19, many young people work, study and manage on their own. Their mother hurts you - but it's unforgivable. They will become better people if they realize that they have sinned cruelly. Do it for them.
I saw that the topic is from four years ago and the author may have forgotten the site even but comment №16 provoked me to think. Why would a human being, without mental disorders, attack his parent with physical violence? In order to take this step, this individual is not brought up (he cannot separate good from evil), who if not the mother should have taught him this from an early age. There are distortions in the way of thinking and a problem with free expression of feelings and thoughts / since he could not express them in words /. When a child is born, no evil is born, the upbringing and the society around him do it in rare cases. And who was with them for 19 years? So №16 what do you suggest to the lady to throw them into the society of her uneducated children and to look after her life. To let them hurt other people (maybe her wives) and not care about the consequences of her inaction for 19 years. You are one hundred percent a woman, and maybe a mother, I hope you do not make the mistake of the author.
Maybe a long time ago the topic, but I will express an opinion. We should not blame the children here, but those who made them. So you say they're 12 and 19 and that their father left them a long time ago because "it didn't cost five bucks." So the older one must have been under 18 when their father "abandoned" them. According to even if there were difficult periods for your children, this was not the way. And the problem is only in you as a mother and as a family. I'm sorry, but what mother would call her 12-year-old son a "freak," even if the kids were wrong, I don't think that's the way to go. The problem is entirely in you, the children are raised by you, not by the neighbors. And another question - HOW WILL YOU SORRY that you didn't get divorced when they were little? This is not clear to me. That the generation today is not a wrist to smell - it is not. But it is your parents' fault that you have no responsibility for them, that you accuse teachers of not raising their children properly, but the fact is that these children do not have the basis of home to be brought up in school. And what exactly would they beat the children for? What is the reason ? I am not waiting for an answer, but I would ask these questions.
I will congratulate you, to be alive and healthy, if I'm in a hurry, but I don't know your date of birth. When I read that they were calling the police, I am now 19, one of your children is already 24, the other 17, so if this continues, run.