Hello! This year I will be in 11th grade and for 2 years now my classmates have been working in the summer. Everyone repeats only "The Sun" and this is probably the only thing that interests them. It can be said that I am almost the only one in the class who has never worked in the summer before, simply because I spend time preparing for next year (reading the recommended literature). In addition, my parents are of the opinion that my education is most important at the moment, I am also of this opinion. The problem is that when the school year starts, my classmates will start bragging again that they have earned their money and will almost start hinting to me that when I don't work, I don't do anything that is not true. They didn't stop making fun of me last year, and I do not understand what their job is to interfere in my personal choice. I decided to write this because today I met a girl I know from the next class and the first thing he asked me was: "Why aren't you at a resort working something like me, making money, but sitting at home? "which annoyed me. I just want to know from the others, is it bad that I'm not working yet? Is it so bad that everyone but ours is bothering me about it? Do you think education or work at sea is more important? Me or others wrong and why? In my place, what would you do? Accept criticism. Don't think that I find work bad for myself, on the contrary, but I think I will work after I finish high school. It irritates me that others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. because today I met a girl I know from the next class and the first thing he asked me was: "Why aren't you at a resort to work something like me, to make money, but you're sitting at home?" irritable. I just want to know from the others, is it bad that I'm not working yet? Is it so bad that everyone but ours is bothering me about it? Do you think education or work at sea is more important? Me or others wrong and why? In my place, what would you do? Accept criticism. Don't think that I find work bad for myself, on the contrary, but I think I will work after I finish high school. It irritates me that others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. because today I met a girl I know from the next class and the first thing he asked me was: "Why aren't you at a resort to work something like me, to make money, but you're sitting at home?" irritable. I just want to know from the others, is it bad that I'm not working yet? Is it so bad that everyone but ours is bothering me about it? Do you think education or work at sea is more important? Me or others wrong and why? In my place, what would you do? Accept criticism. Don't think that I find work bad for myself, on the contrary, but I think I will work after I finish high school. It irritates me that others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. Why aren't you at a resort to work something like me, to make money, but you're sitting at home? "which annoyed me. I just want to know from the others is it bad that I'm not working yet? Is it so bad that everyone except ours is bothering me about it? In your opinion, education or work at sea is more important? Me or others are wrong and why? In my place how would you act? I accept criticism. others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. Why aren't you at a resort to work something like me, to make money, but you're sitting at home? "which annoyed me. I just want to know from the others, is it bad that I'm not working yet? Is it so bad that everyone except ours is picking on me because of it? In your opinion, education or work at sea is more important? Me or others are wrong and why? In my place how would you act? I accept criticism. others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. besides ours pick on me about it? Do you think education or work at sea is more important? Me or others wrong and why? In my place, what would you do? Accept criticism. Don't think that I find work bad for myself, on the contrary, but I think I will work after I finish high school. It irritates me that others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned. besides ours pick on me about it? Do you think education or work at sea is more important? Me or others wrong and why? In my place, what would you do? Accept criticism. Don't think that I find work bad for myself, on the contrary, but I think I will work after I finish high school. It irritates me that others interfere in my personal life and flaunt what I have earned.
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And I was a bit like your classmates - I spent the weekends of the school year in something like a call center, where I earned some decent money to use for my pocket money or to buy shoes / jackets, etc. I understand your classmates very well. : most of the restrictions imposed by the parents are dropped (do you have a math pair? a week without pockets. do you want a new phone? it is very expensive, you can't! etc.). Now you just freak out, take what you earn in the summer and you don't have to consider mom and dad at all. It gives great freedom and pride that you have taken your life in your hands. I'm already old and it's funny to hear how the work of the Sun is a great miracle, which it is not. I understand that it's annoying how they make adults and poke their noses, but be a little more lenient and don't be impressed by their silly bragging. Glad you really don't have to work. In a few years, that's all you'll do anyway, and when they have to work really hard, not just in the summer, they'll sing a completely different song. Enjoy your relative carelessness, study and miss such innuendos.
Your classmates, if there was anyone to give them money, would not go to the "Sun" to work illegally as waiters and bartenders. You say that your mother and father cover all your needs. You will work for 40 years, and even more, to be alive and healthy. You place the right emphasis on education. In 5 years you will go to the "Sun" (although I do not recommend this place) on vacation, and they will bring you salads and drinks. And their tips will depend on you, not your work on them. Success!
Strangely, I'm 31 and in my time, there were no such things in school. Or at least, in my class, no one worked. I don't know, it could be some new fashion. Keep your opinion, it is important that your parents support them. This is the most important. And calmly - then a lifetime, you will work. There is time for everything.
Tell them your decision is yours. Your parents provide for your needs and you don't need extra money. The truth is that when you finish school and (I guess) enroll in university and you will be LUCKY parents will cover your expenses, and you just follow. And when you finish your education completely, all you have left is a job. (Unless you stay a housewife or something else happens). Enjoy the fact that you will not work while you can. Don't let them tell you nonsense about how they are better than you, because they work. Let them tremble at these resorts, that's what awaits them in the future - work, work and work again.
I had classmates who worked at the age of 16-17 and I just sat at home and tried to look for a job to get on my feet, but even then no one took me. I waited until graduation and went to look for a job - and again no one approved of me because then I had filled out SV that I wanted to start as a bartender, but they would hardly agree
It's not bad to combine them both, and I studied and worked until a year ago, and a half now I'm still studying part-time and working is not the problem with money, but it's nice to have yours to do something useful and not to stand in front of the TV, it still remains time for lessons as long as you can and you want and they are inflated!