I've been dating a boy for years! Our story is even about a soap opera, but that's not what I'm writing about here! I am writing because almost 3 months ago I found out that he slept with my best friend ... Yes, I just went crazy! I didn't know what to do and who I went with for these 3 years ... The feeling is awful ... My friend showed that he was sorry and proved it to me, but my girlfriend didn't even show that she was sick! I know they are sorry, but maybe I was wrong to forgive them ... I still go with him, although he is not here at the moment, and I talk to her too! I'm sick of what I'm going to do when my boyfriend comes back, because I know that they will be in front of my eyes again ... sex ... They were drunk, but that doesn't justify them! This is my story in a nutshell! This boy is everything to me, but how can I act ...
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I don't think this boy is everything to you anymore, but you will gradually realize it as time goes on. Just separate when you feel sick, tell him, don't hide because you suffer so much because of other people's mistakes. He made the mistake, let him carry it, you have already tried to forget, you couldn't, past, move on! :) Once he cheated on you, he will do it again !!! Keep that in mind!
Hi, I have witnessed a similar story. My girlfriend did the same with a friend of her friend's. She told me that she was in an intimate relationship with this man, not because she was attracted to her, but because this friend of hers told her many superlatives about him. Almost out of curiosity. I was very sick because this girl found out about this joke too late. She had very real friendly feelings, she shared things about her with this so-called girlfriend, and it turned out that she was the subject of discussion and ridicule by two people whom she trusted terribly. Something broke in me. Since then, I have ended my friendship with this friend. This is a way of life. This is an attitude towards people that would not change. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. I just don't like that kind of relationship. I think that one must have principles to adhere to. Otherwise you will cheat on yourself. I personally would not compromise in your situation. For me, such an attitude has nothing to do with true friendship. I would not forgive that in any way. The choice is yours. You decide what to do.
How is everything for you !? What if the next time he beats you, kills you, or does something like that? Will you forgive him again! You have to look the other way, remember that he is not the only one! Success! Nikolay-Burgas
Come on, what is life ?! Love and pink dreams! Everyone makes mistakes, I'm sure they are really sorry! It is an art to forgive! I did that and I think it's the most sensible thing to do. Life is short, simple and forgetful. I wish a lot of love from the heart!
In my opinion, such a thing cannot be forgiven. If it happened once, what prevents it from happening again ?!
My girl, your story is not about here. It's funny to read things like that. Ask your mother and father what kind of man you should marry and look for him. He cheated on you, he cheated on you, of course. Of the twenty types of olives in the store, you have to try them before you like a variety. I am a man. I have a boy and a girl students, but I say the same thing to both of them. To make love, but when the time comes to get married to think. And enough with this thrill. Well, get married and sit on your ass. God, you're not 16 years old.
Well, what's stopping you from doing the same, but with his ugliest and closest friend?
I would leave it but it's not as easy to do as you say! Think about whether I really loved him or it's just a fixed idea to get revenge on your girlfriend!
See if you loved him well before, but admit you don't love him like that anymore, do you?