I don't feel human. I don't feel anything for anyone, only the pain my mother caused me. Not for anything else, but because it reminded me of what kind of life I will live from now on. I don't want it to sound like hatred. She is a caring mother. I help her learn when I ask her. This is mainly expressed in the accumulation of some information. Cook for me. It helps me when I don't have enough pocket money. Sometimes he takes me on trips abroad. A wonderful mother, isn't she And now you wonder why there will be pain? If you were more observant, you would realize that I was actually saving you information. No one is just Yin or just Yang, for example. I felt pain (ah, the only feeling that won't leave me until my last class) until a while ago. Strong. Piercing. She managed to penetrate deep into the depths of my soul, where even I do not set foot as a mistress. I'm asexual. I fall in love with girls. A double sin, isn't it? It's amazing how in two simple sentences I change your whole attitude towards my person. Well, it would be the same with my mother, with whom we are not really close. She lies, she constantly lies on my part so as not to upset her, so as not to hurt herself. Because only one offspring can say two sentences about her and my father. Inhuman. Sick. Abnormal. And for most of you, right? ;)
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In my opinion, the problem is that you obviously did not accept yourself as a normal person. Now you can say I'm wrong, but it's clear from your last sentences. First change your attitude and then it will be easier to share with your mother and father. You are their child and falling in love with girls may be the least that can happen to them. You could shake, get drunk almost every day, be in bad company, etc. In the beginning it is always difficult, but the question is to take the first step :)
No, I accept all people. Regardless of their sexuality. And you're actually either - homosexual (you say they're attracted to women) or asexual (you don't want to have sex with either men or women). But anyway. And most importantly: You don't have to say how sexual you are to yours (your mother and father). You don't have to explain yourself to anyone like that at all. This is not your sin. This is part of your nature and is something super normal. But a lot of people live with some super limited notion that everyone should be straight, and whoever isn't is crazy or sinful or sick. Get those thoughts out of your head. You're okay. Study your lessons now and when you finish school go to study in Sofia or another regional city, or abroad ... where you succeed, where you choose. Or if you're not going to graduate, after 12th grade just find a job again in a big city and live in a dormitory there. And be yourself !!
You get into hell movies, first learn the meaning of the dune "Asexual" ....
Hi, The problem is in your environment (conservative parents), otherwise you are a normal girl. First you don't know if you are asexual, you can be sexually attracted to girls, and even if it is not a crime, the important thing is to be a good person. Second time will show if you are a lesbian, you are probably still in high school, your sexual orientation can change, if not, it is still not a crime. My advice is to try with a woman, to decide if you like it ...
Abe, what are these dramas, girl? You are not asexual. You like women. And what? There are millions like you around the world. Look, your mother's attitude is another matter. It always hurts. But anonymity has not helped you either, because you are still silent about what exactly happened. What hurt you so much? At least I didn't get it. Give some details. I don't know about the others, but it's hard for me to find my way.
I still didn't understand what happened to your mother ... On the issue of your asexuality - most people don't like different people, and I'm one of them. I don't have asexual friends (at least I think so) and I don't want to have any, but I don't mind them living and doing whatever they want. Everyone is free to do what he wants. I hope you are 13-17 years old / - 1-2 years old. At this age, every teenager is very confused. It is quite possible that this attraction to the same sex will soon pass. You are not an offspring. Don't be in a hurry to tell yours. Success!
Why did you decide you were asexual? Maybe you just didn't meet the boy for you? Mistakes rarely happen in nature;) And if you hadn't heard the word, it would not have occurred to you that you are like that at all. Don't you confuse friendly feelings with love. Everyone loves their friends and wants to be with them, but falling in love implies a person of the opposite sex. Guys as much as you want and at least 1-2 like you and think about you the moment you read this.
"I'm asexual. I fall in love with girls." - something I did not understand. Maybe he meant homosexual?
I don't think you are aware of the word "asexual". Let me explain. I do not want to have sexual intercourse with both sexes. Falling in love is something else entirely. Because most of you are superficial and limited idiots, you can't imagine love without sex. As for "you didn't find the right boy," I can tell you that most of my friends are boys. Believe me, quite "correct" were explained to me, but I just… no. The author
There is nothing wrong with falling in love and liking girls, living so that you are goth, and do not blame yourself for that, you do not care at all about the opinion of others and your parents. CUPIDON
To the author: First read again what you have written and consider how clear it is. You are driven by aggression, and behind it there is always fear. Your problems are with yourself and are serious. I can imagine love without sex, but usually one goes with the other and it is natural to be so. History also knows platonic love, but I have reservations about it and I will not delve into the issue here.
Author, with this hostile attitude, do not wait for advice from anyone, but shake your head yourself! The man who doesn't understand the word is you.
Author, with comment 9 proved that you are not only a vicious, pathetic creature, but also quite simple ... Will you explain to US the meaning of the word, where you cannot write a connected sentence without a mistake ??? And yes, you can't be asexual and in love, nature didn't invent it that way !!!
As far as I am aware of the rules on the site, haters are not tolerated, Number 13. For "unrelated sentences" I have high marks in the literature. Again, you manifest as evil beings. Desperate, really.
For asexuals who are romantically attracted, it could be aimed at both sexes. In most cases, these asexuals have a desire for a romantic relationship (ranging from a non-binding relationship to marriage), but often do not want this relationship to involve sexual activity. Regarding the orientation of their romantic relationships, some asexuals describe themselves as gay, bisexual or heterosexual asexual - this is related to the theory of emotional sexuality. Asexuals who want a romantic relationship are in a difficult position because most people are not asexual. Asexuals who are able to tolerate sex could form a couple with a non-asexual personality, but even with them, a lack of attraction or desire could become stressful for their partner and make it difficult to build a stable relationship. Asexuals who are unable to tolerate sex must compromise with their partner and still allow a certain amount of sex, allow their partner to seek sex outside the relationship, build a non-sexual relationship with the few who would agree. of going out alone with other asexuals or being left alone From Wikipedia
The author vulgarly spits at the entire audience of the site. She is the one who will remain with her ignorance. And I'm glad that there are people here who are ready to help anyone, whatever their problem. Their advice may not always be accurate and competent, but most are heartfelt and benevolent. Unfortunately, this author slammed the door of everyone who wanted to help her. She is still competent, she knows, and it does not cross her mind that she writes absolutely wrong and untrue things. Drive ... people of all kinds.
It didn't impress me. I don't think you're a freak. Just a man. I really like the yellow color. If I could, all my things would be yellow. Am I crazy?
Abe tightened up, what are these dramas? God, are you 15 by chance? A person who has survived and come out of puberty cannot write with such melodramatics simply. What kind of people are going through, our hormone hit her and she decided that she was the most unhappy. Take it easy, people give you advice, try to help you, and you, as каза 16 said, spit on everything that offends her! You are silent and poison yourself as soon as you have enough sense. People fall, stand up and live, and enjoy life. Your problem is that you grumble and consider yourself a martyr. It's not ours. Aren't we "idiots"? Idiots, but happy. And you will only stay with the grumbling. At least until you realize yourself. But when I look, we can't help you. Wow, how he made me angry. I hope I haven't said something that won't stop my comment. But you need a big slap, be it verbal. Salivary puberty. Whatever your mother's attitude when I look at you is small. Although who knows, she may be to blame for what she created.
You're not asexual, you just think that lesbians are the only ones who intrude on the gay community, in addition to the heterosexuals, who look very much like them. It is a cult to mess with a man - the shorter the hair the better, the worse this hair looks on you the sexier, attracting exactly those who think they are lesbians, and I don't know how this number works because precisely because I like a woman as a woman I am homo. If I liked something that can't be determined just because there is a female ortan in my pants, I would easily commit suicide. It is a very long topic and I write from bodies and I stop. My idea was that if you fall in love with such people, you can't be attracted to them: there are many beautiful lesbians who you would never assume are such and attract the eyes of both sexes like a magnet. if you are from sf there are at least 5 gay clubs go and see the situation, if you are from varna-bacio and little angels are gay clubs. first get to know the types of lesbians and decide whether you are attracted to one type or another or not. Good luck