Hello, I have wanted to share my story for a long time, but I have been hesitant until today! I'm 15, I'm not the typical muffin, I get good grades and I'm not like most girls today! In short, I like a boy of 2 years. We have known him since we were little, we sometimes go out in the same company, we talk to each other, we learn a lot in common at the same school. I forgot to mention that we are a class. Soon during the vacation this boy had a birthday and I decided to write to him and in the wish I inserted a hint that I want to tell him something, but I don't have the courage. When he had a birthday, I was on vacation. When I got home I realized that he had started going out in another company and there were very rare cases where I saw him, but I still saw him. But I'm a shy person and I didn't tell him I liked him even though all our mutual friends know and everyone asks me what I'm going to do with him if I intend to admit it in his eyes or go with him. My boys, who are closer to me all the time, tell me that he likes me, but he is afraid of cutting it off, so he doesn't tell me anything. They all repeat a life you live tell him tell him. But I'm still hesitant. What would you advise me? Thanks in advance!
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After you were told that he was interested in you, take the initiative. You can invite him first in a common company, to talk and so on - word for word, as they say ...
Well, make friends on Facebook, for example, comment on common topics and gradually get closer.
Tell him directly that you enjoy communicating and you like him. I don't know why you need to treat such things with the seriousness of falling in love. If you're afraid of what to do if I don't share your feelings, think about whether it's really worth liking in that case. If he is really conscious but does not share them - there is no drama, it happens to everyone to be cut. If your feelings are shared - you both win. Weigh the good and the bad option and you will understand that you have much more to gain than to lose. Moreover, since your friends already know that you like him, I don't see what the problem is.
When a person tries something new, he takes the risk that he may fail, but when he does not try at all, he is even less likely to reap success. Of course, sometimes in life everything happens as if with a magic wand, as if it was written in advance, but in most situations you have to change something to get a different result than usual. It has happened to me that everyone tells me that a person likes me, but in fact it was not so, it has happened to me that no one assumes about certain feelings, and they are a real fact. While you are standing and wondering you are wasting time, he may like you, but he will hardly wait for you forever. Tell him that you like him a lot, invite him to go out together, create opportunities to get to know each other and relax in front of each other. You have nothing to lose, at worst he will not respond to your feelings, but at least you will understand what you are talking about and you will not wait for rain in the desert, pretending that the drought will end. You know, you didn't write this topic to get advice, you knew that everyone would advise you to share your feelings, and that's exactly what you wanted ... someone to give you courage.
From the author thank you all for the comments and support! We sometimes go out to number 1 together, but lately it's a rarity to number 2 when we write to each other, it's to give him some homework or something like number 3, I really haven't thought about the good and bad options until now and now until number 4 comments that I've read so many times you're right I needed just that push and yet one life I live and I will act! Thanks to everyone for the comments!
Your friends are right. Tell him before it's too late.