I'm not even good at both subjects, I just don't like them, I'm not interested in that. I hate just imagining that human life can depend on me, being a doctor is a big responsibility, I can't bear it on my back. I don't think my psyche would last. I recently had a serious conversation with our people because of that, they didn't even want to hear me. For them, only medicine brings income and is a normal profession. My father made it clear that if I did not comply with their wish, he would expel me or he would deny me and such talk that hurt me terribly. How do I explain to them that "not every tree blows a whistle"? I love them both very much, they did everything for me, but their mania to be a doctor has brainwashed them, it has become a fixed idea. They hurt me terribly, they don't even consider it necessary to hear what I want. I don't want to learn this in time, just because they want to. I don't want to make the mistake one of my cousins made. He was eager to become a doctor, and when he realized it wasn't for him, it was too late. Since then, he hasn't even kept in touch with theirs. :( I'm sorry if I bored you. Please give me advice, now I'm only 15, and when I turn 18 what kind of AD will it be ... I don't want to spoil my relationship with ours, but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!! but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!! but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!!
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Don't worry, let a teacher or relative SERIOUSLY praise you. Explain this to your parents. If they don't understand you again, just keep quiet ... And sooner or later they will understand that. Another option is to write something like this in your diary: Dear diary, My parents want me to draw, I've won awards, but they just can't hear me. This is my dream! I'm sad ... I put myself in their shoes, but I still want to paint. I need advice :( One girl
Well, paint, it can remain a hobby, you don't have to make a living from it. Choose a profession, do not rush, you have time. Once you choose, do your best, become one of the best and you will have success and self-confidence. Few people know exactly what they want, in their youth, when they have to invest in themselves, you catch something that seems good to you and you act! Success!
You will need biology for drawing - anatomy of the human body and (other :)) animals. You have time, keep painting - look at the direction in which you will use this painting professionally - whether as a freelancer or a company dealing with computer graphics and related things. When you turn 18 and it's time to apply, even if you're fired, you'll have the ability to make a living.
From the author: Thanks for the good advice :)
There is a lot of time until you write down and what if they want medicine you choose not so that the choice is yours and until then you can want 101 more things leave them not it and think even from now on and they are your least problem
I will not give you advice on what to do, I will just ask her this: if you become a doctor or a dentist and you are the pride of your family, will you be proud of yourself. And one day when your parents die and there is no one to be proud of how you will feel - happy or having lost your time to satisfy other people's opinions and dreams. The truth is that as one said, if you become what your parents want you to be, everything can go wrong and you are unhappy, and everything can be arranged properly. If you start painting, you can be happy or you can be unhappy. The idea is that you do not know what will happen tomorrow and there is no right solution. But if you do nothing and are afraid to fail, then your life will be stagnant ...
Start studying computer programs, you already have everything on YouTube - wonderful lessons. As a beginner, you can find out which programs are required to apply to certain professions related to painting by entering job sites. He studies the programs, at your age a person learns very quickly, there are programs that are used for drawing, for illustrations (illustrations of books, manga, Christmas cards, for packaging design ...), for animation - two-dimensional and three-dimensional , modeling, you have two whole years to your 18th birthday to find out what profession you would like the most, I think there is and will be a lot of bread in the computer games sector, as you were told above, human anatomy will you need it. And don't worry, in two years you even have time, studying, to compile a good portfolio, with which to surprise them. Dare!