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My Ex-boyfriend Is Obsessed With Me

By thiana_leen July 16, 2020 7 answers Last updated July 16, 2020

Is it normal for my ex to follow me? Wherever I go, he somehow finds himself there. Make at least 6 fake profiles a day to contact me. He calls me at any time of the day from hidden numbers, he has sent me people before to see if I see other guys (this happened about a year ago when we had just broken up). It hung in front of my door for hours.

On top of that, he came to work at my workplace to be closer to me. He had jumped on my current friend and reached the police, even though he was the one who ate his paint. I talked to him to leave me alone, but it just didn't work out. And I shouted at him and insulted him, I told him everything and I tried well - it didn't work. I don't want to interfere with my friend anymore, because last time, as I said, we intervened with the police and I don't want to bother him anymore. I don't know how far we'll get with this boy, he's crazy, he even threatened to kidnap me. In principle, he is a good boy, he has friends, he behaves normally, I just can't understand why he is so obsessed with me. He had created many problems for me and continues to do so. I'm afraid my friend won't know that there will be movies again, and I don't want to experience this nightmare again. Please advise me on what to do.

P. s. I am 20 years old

Answers 7

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marcianita_ answered · July 16, 2020
Restraining order! And do you live in a small town, somehow you can't move? Tell your friend, don't hide. To yours too! I wonder how they didn't give you a restraining order?
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real4211 answered · July 16, 2020
This one is not normal. He is obsessed because you have continued your life and you are not alone. If she was sad, unhappy, she wouldn't look at you. But your happiness irritates and irritates him, precisely because he wants you not to be, to writhe and beg him to return. Contact the police.
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clementine_bby answered · July 16, 2020
he is a psychopath, he has nothing to do with these freaks with deeply damaged psyche and behavior
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sexual_devils answered · July 16, 2020
Ask a lawyer what steps are needed to get a restraining order not to approach you at a certain distance. You can also print out all threatening messages and file a complaint with the prosecutor's office if the police do not do their job. Take action immediately, the situation is serious and do not go anywhere alone, at least take yours or a friend when you go out somewhere.
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salsalita answered · July 16, 2020
Rural nonsense. And you're partly to blame for going with such a freak. When you don't think with your head, but with other parts and you get caught with such, these are the consequences. Get up with the new one and disappear, preferably abroad, both to earn some money and to harden yourself in the difficulties until there is more oil. You will just understand how much the new one cares about you.
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wildlondontiger answered · July 16, 2020
Adjust your title. It's complete nonsense. As for your ex-boyfriend, it's a kind of love, hence jealousy. In time it will pass.
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bbycherryxx answered · July 17, 2020
I know exactly how you feel - and I had a relationship with a girl who was extremely toxic and I quickly broke up with him. However, after our separation, he totally freaked out - he also made fake profiles from which he threatened me that he would commit suicide if I did not return to him, he got a tattoo with my name and when he saw that I was not impressed, he wrote my name on his arm, having carved it, I suppose, with a razor blade. He was waiting for me at work every day and I had to constantly wonder where to go, just not to see me. He rang my doorbell all night, trying not to go out alone because he was watching me and tried to kidnap me once. After this case, I immediately went to a lawyer, then to the police and there is already a restraining order, and I went abroad and my saga is over. So, immediately to the lawyer, you carry all the threats, you find witnesses and his restraining order is tied in a towel. F, 26 years old