Hello, everyone! I am a young girl, 19 years old and I am a student. For some of you this topic is stupid, for others interesting, but for me it is difficult. Yeah, I'm starting from the beginning. 3 years ago I met my current friend, who is 10 years older than me. Of course, my family doesn't like him, because he is quite a dominant person, he always wants to be his, and lately he has started behaving repulsively, insulting and commanding me. But in the beginning he was not like that, just the complete opposite - kind, gallant, caring .... Our relationship is remote, but we still see each other quite often. But for 2 years, almost 3 is not the same person right now. I don't know what to do with his grumpy behavior ... I have the feeling that he doesn't really love me. It is as if he is with me, because of other things in life / the material side of things /, and not because of myself. Please give me advice on how to proceed and what to do. I feel super confused and I don't know which way to go! Thanks in advance!
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Drop this one and choose the family. Even if you didn't have to choose, get rid of that type of narcissistic complex. Jen
Well, you don't understand. Dominant, commander, 10 years older, repulsion, he's with you for the money, yours doesn't like him ...... you wrote that. It is clear what you need to do. Tomorrow you will write how unhappy you are with a child in your arms and beating you. The problem is that you can't get rid of this person and you think it's love.
No wonder he loves you, not you. A man who loves does not offend or pick on his beloved. You are very young, dump this snot and watch your life! People like him don't deserve a woman to look at them, how ashamed of him! J. 25g
Everyone says "choose my husband, your parents will not be alive forever" but what should I choose was his mother was old. They didn't like my ex at all, but God forbid we broke up, it just kind of happened. Then I caught another boy, we have been together for 4 years, we have been engaged for 1 month and everything is great, I don't choose between anything. In 2-3 days we see each other for dinner with my or his parents, on Saturday or Sunday we go to grandparents, in fact we all live in the same neighborhood: D my mother-in-law is in 2-3 houses of ours too, my grandmother too anything more than a swoon. Also, if you feel that he doesn't really love you, run away from him, I would have run away a long time ago because I hate being commanded, I'm not a small child. Now mine has told me, but not like "you won't go there"; "Not with this / that"; I'm not happy about what hurts me, we generally communicate, talk, and get to know each other. But there is no way for him to lock me in us, I do not order him to me either. Better invest in another relationship .. g 22
he is a psychopath, they are very charismatic but when they get nervous or not, they go crazy, insult and then apologize and muddy in love, mentally damaged to death freaks ... there is no way to deal with them, they are often bullies, criminals and killers
If he treats you rudely and doesn't respect you, run faster than him, with 200. A 40-year-old man writes to you who is divorcing because of constant insults and repulsive behavior of his ex-wife. She wanted to isolate me from all living things, including parents, brother, relatives, friends. We also have a child and now it hurts me the most for him, but I also do it for him. ie I get divorced so as not to listen to the constant quarrels. And I was advised to leave her my wife in time and I did not listen to anyone and myself even now I suffer. Think if it's easy on your soul, stay with him, if you feel constant weight when you're with him, leave him immediately. It will hurt a lot now, believe me. I hope I helped you with something.