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My Family Standard Fell Apart

By thecreaturehub September 17, 2020 20 answers Last updated September 17, 2020

It may sound strange, but I suffer terribly because of the divorce of a friendly family. They were just an example for me of young people who love each other, pursue their dreams and are great parents. Their young child is 1 year old. From the side they look like from a magazine, beautiful, smiling, full of life. The man has a business in another country and travels often, and she has a successful business here. Somehow they managed to live without almost separating, she went with him, the children spent time with their relatives there. Abe, they looked like they had found the golden mean. I was very happy and admired them. The other day they invited us to see each other and told us that they had decided to separate. They said they had no common vision for the future, imagining life in different directions in the future. He returns to his homeland, she stays here with the children. I cried. They calmed me down, that they are happy with their decision to remain close friends. I asked them if a third person had interfered in their marriage, they even found it funny, and he hugged her and said that he loved her with all his soul, she answered the same - just life ... They said nothing more. I have the feeling that I am experiencing it harder than them. Is it because I project myself on them, my husband also has a business in another country, but he is a Bulgarian citizen and has no desire to live elsewhere. We don't do half as well as they do. We have domestic quarrels, fatigue from work, I often go out alone with the children, they on the other hand were everywhere together. I just don't understand how they can love each other, be close friends, have children and make such a decision. I'm sad. It's as if the thought "If they failed, where are we going" echoes in my head. Even my husband is sad, although he believes this may be temporary. I try to be a support to my girlfriend, she says that their decision is final, but everything is fine. She is not talked about at all and I do not open it anymore. I try to respect that. Just like that, I selfishly suffer for my shattered illusion of the perfect family.

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tinymama32 answered · September 17, 2020

   Two sharp stones do not grind flour. Apparently they have different views on how their lives should go and no one wants to give up. Well, they obviously don't care that they're going to break up. A man with a successful business knows that he can always catch a young woman. She already has a child from this one. She doesn't care because she is financially independent. She will also be released for insemination by other men. It is a pity only for the child that he will have to live with a mix of parents and half-brothers, whom he hardly knows. And when the time comes to share the inheritance, it will become murky and bloody.

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dogma8080 answered · September 17, 2020

   They're obviously OK with that, but I'm not sure it will work well for the kids. Which is unfortunate in this case.

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yuyacst answered · September 17, 2020

   People today are quickly separated, with coexistence people see a different person.

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green2828 answered · September 17, 2020

   Not to describe the famous blogger Antoinette Pepe: D That things are quite the same, not to mention 1: 1. If so, what you look at from the side in most cases is just a fake. The more a link is posted, the more "photos of the perfect family" are uploaded to Facebook and Instagram, the more rotten these relationships are. The bad thing is that you make a completely wrong impression, which subsequently interferes with your life. You're probably just a fan who's dumb, because if you question "your relationship" just because some people outside of you have split up ... it borders on the absurd.

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fucktoy5677 answered · September 17, 2020

   4, you know, there is a couple in our neighborhood who advertise their love a lot. In the face they are always kissing, demonstrating, they got to the point that they pasted a poster with their photo and some inscriptions on their names, how they loved each other, some hearts, abe full of kitsch on the rear window of their car. As soon as I saw this poster, I was kind of disgusted and felt that something was wrong to advertise so much. Just today, while I'm going to work, I look at them the same, their car right in front of me in the center of the intersection and stopped, I can't get out at the intersection, all the traffic is blocked, I call myself what the hell is going on. Cars are playing, traffic jams, it's the mother's ball, just in rush hour. At one point I look inside the car, the two of them are arguing, but smoke is rising. At some point the woman goes out furious, but furious, straight fire and brimstone, curses him, screams, slamming the door demonstratively. At some point, she dumped a man, a car, everything, and ran furiously in some direction. And all this in front of their children in the back seat. I call to myself, aha, it will be out of love.

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onyxluna answered · September 17, 2020

   That's enough for you. Your family has nothing to do with theirs. Their decision should in no way affect your confidence that your family will survive. Everyone loves in a different way. Apart from differences in views about the place of residence, they may not be sexually okay, they may just be very good friends and kindred spirits, but they may not be passionate lovers, and so on. The fact that you are not always together and fight violently does not mean that you do not love each other, but that you do not always have time to do things together and you are temperamental. Make love to your husband, surprise yourself, fight, make love, but don't project their story on your family. Once they themselves are happy and satisfied with their decision, it is clear that not everything was perfect in the ideal family. And there are no perfect families anywhere.

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sweet_kitty_hot answered · September 18, 2020

   And an even bigger mistake is to be together because of the children, so some confused children grow up, accepting as normal for two parents to be in scandals and quarrels all the time. The problem is you and why you accept things that way. You don't care about them, but their life situation has hurt you, because ... you have to say. As far as I understand, you go out alone with your children and your husband and she is abroad. If I understood correctly, that's where the pain comes from. Just be together. Multifamily division and I wonder why? It is difficult to survive in Bulgaria, but why should one have to strap somewhere and the other stay in Bulgaria. Why are they a family then? And then it starts basically do not know the language, the children will separate them from their friends, ..... and what not. Leave them, but solve your problems that you may not fully realize.

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dom_milfy answered · September 18, 2020

   What do you care about some moneybacks? Don't others have happy families? If only they were happy, please ... another flat topic ... remove your eyelids and look around.

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benjilamaliceparis answered · September 18, 2020

   Antoinette Pepe, exactly. 1 to 1.

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vinnymarchegiano answered · September 19, 2020

   9 And I thought about it, but I didn't want to write it.

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wordjourneys answered · September 19, 2020

   They are obviously good hypocrites. Baked. They manage to keep a face in front of people. Remember that there are no perfect couples. If some are too perfect on the outside, then the opposite is true on the inside.

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saralatin21 answered · September 19, 2020

   I didn't know what this Antoinette Pepe was like, but only when I saw her smiling in front of the camera and I realized that her whole life was vanity and falsehood. These are artificial people, author. Don't look at artificial people.

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chiellini answered · September 21, 2020

   Author, the essence of the relations in a given family cannot be seen from the side. And for a good relationship in a family, it does not matter whether the man and woman in it are beautiful, and whether they fit together from an aesthetic point of view as a couple. And much more important are the spiritual things, the most important of which I think are the following: - to be spiritually close - to perceive and appreciate the important things in life in the same or at least similar way - to have common goals and priorities to love each other very much and the love between them to be real - long-suffering, dedicated and self-sacrificing. Last but not least, they must be able to compromise and endure their weaknesses. Only when these (or similar) conditions are present can it be said that this is a standard for a family.

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dabongqueenkong answered · September 21, 2020

   I am convinced that this is Antoinette Pepe! There can be no such coincidence as this! I've watched the videos and it seems a bit artificial all my life! There are no perfect people with perfect connections! In my opinion, this was not their love, but just a friendly relationship, which grew into something bigger - Sofia and Sienna / Antoinette's two girls / such a relationship is clear where it will end. She loves Bulgaria, and Philip / her husband / loves Denmark. If their love was real, they would make a compromise and stay together, they would remain friends, but because of the wonderful children, I think they have always been friends and nothing more. My personal opinion.

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lucy_montgomery answered · September 21, 2020

   You think a lot of strangers. The two sat together at the table, discussed their relationship, views and dreams, and then made a decision. They may have had problems that no one suspected. From the side, things seem distorted, it's never certain what happens when a couple is alone. And it is important for the family that the man and the woman look in the same direction. In their situation, everything is very distorted. The woman has a job in Bulgaria and her husband has a company abroad. It makes sense that she should spend most of her time here and he there. We are talking about thousands of kilometers, a one-year-old child and another whose years you did not mention. It is not easy for them to travel often with two children, and they and plane tickets are not cheap. Imagine how these people kept in touch from a distance? It is normal for them to become alienated and think about different things. They sat down to discuss this problem, that there are still many kilometers between them and it turned out that everyone is happy in a different place. Well, that's ... Someone could have backed down, but no one wanted to. They cannot be your standard for a family. Your family should be your benchmark. You and your husband may quarrel, have misunderstandings and sometimes get annoyed at nonsense, but you are together and looking in the same direction. You have decided where you will live, raise your children, deal with life as a team. Just because your friends have split up doesn't mean you'll split up. You and your husband may quarrel, have misunderstandings and sometimes get annoyed at nonsense, but you are together and looking in the same direction. You have decided where you will live, raise your children, deal with life as a team. Just because your friends have split up doesn't mean you'll split up. You and your husband may quarrel, have misunderstandings and sometimes get annoyed at nonsense, but you are together and looking in the same direction. You have decided where you will live, raise your children, deal with life as a team. Just because your friends have split up doesn't mean you'll split up.

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mimichakraborty answered · September 21, 2020

   Antoinette Pepe is super artificial. Everything there is ostentation and falsehood. For in front of people. It's a pity, if anyone, this is the standard for a family. It is even more unfortunate if, in pursuit of a seemingly shiny foreign example, he devalues ​​and belittles his own, probably much more real and valuable relationship with his partner.

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funbator87 answered · September 22, 2020

   Are you talking about the vlogger? I couldn't sleep one night. People are married, life is drawn straight and suddenly hop. I imagine what a shock it is to you. Crazy thing. Don't ruin your family for anything in the world.

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shutterfly answered · September 22, 2020

   The life and family of this vlogger, who managed to enchant so many people, is just a media product, a media image of a supposedly ideal family ... This is not real life. Served in a perfect way by Antoinette Pepe, many people really believed, which is a pity. From the beginning, it was clear that there was nothing to strengthen their relationship with except the children already available. That is, their relationship seemed hollow. It was only a matter of time before that pink bubble burst and the truth was seen. It's not just a matter of catching up with a foreigner and getting pregnant in a hurry, thinking that you will tie him up with it ... And to keep him, to keep your relationship stable over the years. She will now stand here as a single mother with two children because she failed to judge things from the beginning. They have too many disagreements with Philip (that's what his partner from Denmark was called). She can't live in his country because everything is there, she depresses her terribly and wants to be here with family and friends, etc. However, the same goes for him in BG ... Without a job, environment and language here he feels out of place obviously ... and I hear that life is still pulling him and he's tired of playing him as a family. In addition, I find it very different with him as interests, understandings of life, educational qualifications and ambitions. They do not look in one direction. They do not have the same understanding of development, etc., which was obviously suppressed and hidden from the public. But these things can not be hidden indefinitely - it will still kill one day. Pity only for the children ... Another broken family, in which the children will grow up without a father. However, the same goes for him in BG ... Without a job, environment and language here he feels out of place obviously ... and I hear that life still pulls him and he is tired of playing it as a family. In addition, I find it very different with him as interests, understandings of life, educational qualifications and ambitions. They do not look in one direction. They do not have the same understanding of development, etc., which was obviously suppressed and hidden from the public. But these things can not be hidden indefinitely - it will still kill one day. Pity only for the children ... Another broken family, in which the children will grow up without a father. However, the same goes for him in BG ... Without a job, environment and language here he feels out of place obviously ... and I hear that life still pulls him and he is tired of playing it as a family. In addition, I find it very different with him as interests, understandings of life, educational qualifications and ambitions. They do not look in one direction. They do not have the same understanding of development, etc., which was obviously suppressed and hidden from the public. But these things can not be hidden indefinitely - it will still kill one day. Pity only for the children ... Another broken family, in which the children will grow up without a father. educational qualifications and ambitions. They do not look in one direction. They do not have the same understanding of development, etc., which was obviously suppressed and hidden from the public. But these things can not be hidden indefinitely - it will still kill one day. Pity only for the children ... Another broken family, in which the children will grow up without a father. educational qualifications and ambitions. They do not look in one direction. They do not have the same understanding of development, etc., which was obviously suppressed and hidden from the public. But these things can not be hidden indefinitely - it will still kill one day. Pity only for the children ... Another broken family, in which the children will grow up without a father.

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foxxxy_kate answered · September 22, 2020

   The most interesting thing about Antoinette Pepeldzhiyska and Philip of Denmark is their lack of any culture. None of them read, do not develop, if you will have no interests. If a person's only interest is to be a consumer - to show what he eats, buys, wears as a garment, then it is a pity. Philip is an individual who does not know how to work and support a family. You hang a lot of time on the back of your wife and her family here in Bulgaria, don't even look for a job. Antoinette can play it gullible, but she turns things around so much that she makes money from the air - how she managed to do it - Bulgarians are a gossip people. She released her viewers into every corner of her life and they watched it like a Turkish TV series. From there, there is viewership and one photo on Instagram of an advertising product is at least a thousand. As she does well over one a month.

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wetsandtv answered · September 22, 2020

   Along with this story, I wrote the name in this Pepe's tube that I found interesting ... Welcome to fake, influencing, coaching sasaiti, etc. simplicity. I wonder who watches such things. I watch and read things that will benefit me and enrich me. What do I care if she baptizes her children, what curtains she buys or if she goes to yoga ... What is the point of people, tell me ... She even shows her children because of some stupid fame. What are you famous for - that you are famous. It's all a big fake and a sham. Author, you must be a 13-year-old filmed girl wondering what to do. Instead of watching these influencers, you better tighten up and start learning and developing.