I am a boy of 13 almost 14 years old. This morning I had a little quarrel with my father ... the reason is that I don't do exercises. So I have a disease. k. and diabetes. I don't like to do exercises often. In general, I go out every day and go at least 3-4 times to distant places and then come back and so on. The problem is that he gets annoyed and angry when I'm on the computer a lot. Yes, I spend a lot of time on the computer, but that doesn't mean that I don't go out and walk during the day. There have been cases when he gets very angry and starts shouting at me 'I will disappear, etc.' but every time he and his mother quarrel, he tells me everything will be fine, no one will go anywhere. I still love him as a father, but he doesn't talk to me anymore. I'll see if we can fix it tomorrow.
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Talk seriously with your parents and if this continues, consult a social worker or psychologist! They will tell you what to do. Do you have brothers or sisters? Let them do the same. Go together! Don't minimize the problem, because it will get worse. I have a worse family than yours. Good luck and don't give up!
Exercises!!
He's a real father from sitting at the computer, you don't have time to learn to write! Exercises are written with Y, not with o!
Hello, I am a medical person and as such I will tell you that in your disease Exercises guarantee you a longer time without complications. This is about health, and I don't think it's right to underestimate that. Now as a parent of two children I will tell you that every parent wants the best for their child! This is unconditional - it's just an innate instinct. Another question is whether, what the parent considers the best is the best and in your opinion .... but as I said, when it comes to health .... there is no room for comment. Sometimes .... in my efforts to protect my children, I don't always find the right path .... I mean, your dad is probably very worried about you, but maybe sometimes he loses patience and calm .... It's like It's not good at all, but I don't see anything disturbing from what you've written ... or any violence against you, just a worried parent, who for some reason missed the calm tone. It's good to know that we adults have a lot of things on our heads sometimes ... My advice is to try to talk ... I know it sounds cliché, but if you show him that you are aware of the situation, that you accept serious commitment to health, maybe he will calm down and things will return to normal. Greetings
He may be nervous and tired and make fun of you. No. Well, where. If you can when he's home, do exercises in front of him. When he is not there, stand in front of the computer.
Thanks for your comments. We recovered on the second day. The problem was because we had solved 1 hour on the computer and 15 minutes of exercises. I don't need a psychologist or my father, he's fine. He doesn't shout much and I love him.
If his parents are alive, talk to them and tell them that his behavior is stressful. They, as his parents and at the same time your grandparents, will be able to influence him. Just tell them the same thing you wrote to us. You must do these exercises if you have a health problem. And even if he was healthy, it would still be good to play sports - after all, after a few years, if you like a girl, it will be a big plus for you to have a nice body to get her attention more easily. . But it's not right to be deprived of time in front of the computer! There is time for sports and the Internet. It is also really good to sit down to correct your spelling, not even because of grades and yours to be satisfied, but because in 5-10 years people will make fun of you with such bad spelling and will not take you seriously - they will think you are a fool or a simple salesman. or both.
You fight because he worries about you!
Number 1 - you go to social care! I hope you learn Gypsy faster!