Ours are divorced and I go to my father every vacation. He doesn't pay attention to me when I'm with him. This year I did not go to him because my mother was on vacation and as a mother is on vacation I have no right to be with him. At the beginning of the year, I told him that my mother would be on vacation during the spring break and August so that there would be no problems, but he still made a problem by taking his August vacation. I quarreled and was very rude to my mom on the phone. My mother told him that I didn't want to do that before, but he said that he didn't care what I wanted and that according to the protocol I should go to him. A few days ago he asked me if I would go to him for Christmas and I did not answer. A few days later he wrote to me that everything was more important to me but not him. Even if I don't want to, I will go and tell my mother that I want so that I don't worry her. When I go there, they will tell me how much I don't care about them and they won't pay attention to me. I'm sick and tired of this. Obviously I will wait until I am 18. I ask the editors to approve the story. If there are spelling mistakes sorry.
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You are not guilty, you are the victim of two immature people.
Quite an unpleasant situation. Talk to your mother. Whatever your relatives tell you, don't pay attention to them. You may have to go for Christmas or New Year's Eve. It's good to balance and be nice until you're 18, because it can occur to your father to sue your mother for parental rights because of the events he described.
There are authorities such as child protection where you can tell them about your case to help you. Or persuade your parents to go to the whole family psychologist. After all, he is your father and he loves you, tell him how you feel, I can't believe he doesn't understand. Good luck
Only one thing I do not understand. Why do you all regret your spelling mistakes and not make a gram of effort to learn to write correctly?
From the author to 1: Rather one. Mom helps me with what she can and always pays attention and loves me. To 2: I talked to mom and we are trying to solve the problem. A friend of hers found herself in a similar situation and said that I didn't have to go to him if I didn't want to. To 3: We went to the social services and they told me to put up with my father because that's the protocol. To 4: Well, I was in a hurry to write this and I didn't add commas and there are mistakes here and there. In principle, I write competently, but here I was in a hurry to pour out my grief because my father took too much.