Hello! Before I start with the story, I want to ask the site moderators to publish my story, because I don't know what to do anymore. Thus, my father never behaved like a normal parent with me. He always insulted and punished me, especially after they divorced my mother. Sometimes he doesn't even talk to me for months. And that's exactly what's happening right now. He hasn't spoken to me for a month now, and that's only because I came home a little later after a disco. He wants me to ask him if I can go out and he wants me to go home very early, on the order of 8. Today (although he doesn't talk to me) he told me not to go home at that time (I came home literally at 8:40) because I would not sleep in us anymore. This is not normal for me, especially now that I am 18. Sam said that at my age he went out non-stop and partyed. To say I'm a bad student, who just wanders the streets, no, I'm not, I'm a rascal. I just hate to have to go home so early, but I can swallow it too. The problem is his attitude towards me. The fact that he didn't talk to me for months, because of one thing, or that he kept telling me how nothing would happen to me, he even told me that I wasn't his daughter, that I should never look for him. This hurts me a lot, and he is my father, he has to protect and protect me, we are one family, not to push me away from myself, because when I graduate, I will move out and if it continues like that, no matter how sick I am. , I will stop looking for him.
Thank you for your attention and for reading my story. If you have something to say on this subject, I will be happy to hear it. The problem is his attitude towards me. The fact that he didn't talk to me for months, because of one thing, or that he kept telling me how nothing would happen to me, he even told me that I wasn't his daughter, that I should never look for him. This hurts me a lot, and he is my father, he has to protect and protect me, we are one family, not to push me away from myself, because when I graduate, I will move out and if it continues like that, no matter how sick I am. , I will stop looking for him. Thank you for your attention and for reading my story. If you have something to say on this subject, I will be happy to hear it. The problem is his attitude towards me. The fact that he didn't talk to me for months, because of one thing, or that he kept telling me how nothing would happen to me, he even told me that I wasn't his daughter, that I should never look for him. This hurts me a lot, and he is my father, he has to protect and protect me, we are one family, not to push me away from myself, because when I graduate, I will move out and if it continues like that, no matter how sick I am. , I will stop looking for him. Thank you for your attention and for reading my story.
If you have something to say on this subject, I will be happy to hear it. we are one family, not to push me away from myself, because when I graduate, I will move out and if it continues like this, no matter how sick I am, I will stop looking for it. Thank you for your attention and for reading my story. If you have something to say on this subject, I will be happy to hear it. we are one family, not to push me away from myself, because when I graduate, I will move out and if it continues like this, no matter how sick I am, I will stop looking for it. Thank you for your attention and for reading my story. If you have something to say on this subject, I will be happy to hear it.
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And where is your mother? Can't you go to her? If he doesn't talk to you now, there will be no quarrels. I was on the same bed as you, and when my father didn't talk to me, there were no quarrels. However, when I turned 18, I left us. It was then that not only my father but also my mother began to be interested in where I was, what was happening to me. Now he calls me again sometimes and asks me why I can't think of him. You can separate, it is true that in the beginning it will be difficult for you, but there will be no such harassment. Get out while it's time, because my quarrel with ours started at 14 years old. 4 years I had to endure a terrible life, tension, nerves and I got epilepsy from all this, and from nerves and tension, diabetes can occur, major depression and other diseases. Get out while it's time.
The sad truth is that you don't have a real father but a person who is just technically like that. He is a toxic parent and you can't expect anything from him. You are well versed in how to proceed and then do not look back at all. Yes, it is sad that you have never received sincere paternal love, but life is not fair. Don't let it blackmail you emotionally over time, because that's exactly what it will try to do. Eventually, his behavior will now make you look better at the men you date and look for one who is the complete opposite, who treats your own children properly.
I really hate when someone publishes such a story and the author probably lives with only one parent and all these "counselors" start asking where the other parent is! Abe, it is written that the parents are divorced, what is wrong with the other, where is his problem, is the parent he lives with? There are so many reasons not to see each other! Are you so stupid that you think he won't think of going to his other parent if they keep in touch and see each other? How many simple people there are here is not true! And the most annoying thing is how they start asking "Where is your mother / father, to take you ... we have what"! Complete simpletons! He is in his mature years and understands things and writes about you here! Ask him where his mother or father is! Give him other advice instead of asking him where his other parent is! Come on, a little more serious comments. Half the people that more than this site is 30 years old, and their comments are like 15 years old. Where was the mother, where was the father? Will you give them tomatoes from the village if you ask him?
From the author: She has been behaving like this since my mother left, they quarreled and separated a lot, she lives not very close to us, my school is in a big city and if I go to her, I will have to change it. I've tried to talk to him many times, but it's like I'm talking on the wall, literally, he's just silent and doesn't answer. The decision is to move out and that will happen after I graduate. Then he will regret that he lost me, because I personally love him very much, but obviously he does not love me. Some people do not become parents.