Hello. I am a 15 year old boy. My father is 48. He used to come home from work, pour himself some food and about 250 milliliters of wine or beer in a glass and sit in front of the TV. He always told me that beer was poison and I had to be very careful not to become addicted. But now it's different. He goes home and pours a pint of beer into a mug and pours it like a German bar. A week ago he drank a bottle of two and a half liters, and now he drinks two and a half. A week ago, my mother and I found a bottle of Guzu Paralia, half the exam. He says they gave it to him at work. It was not the bending Greek filth, but an even greater abomination. I'm afraid of becoming a drunk. We live in a Plovdiv neighborhood where it is full of drunks and everyone is sick of something and every month someone dies. When we tell my father, that he has gone their way, he starts to drive, to be picky, he tells us that it is not our job and that they will not drink, but he slowly starts to drink more. Soon he was going to bed and I went to his room and under one chair I found two empty two-and-a-half-liter bottles of Astika and told him that he would become a drunkard, he would become like those downstairs who spend their wages on alcohol, and he he calls me to disappear, that I am a scumbag and garbage, etc.
My mother told me that he had gone that way years ago and she fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do you any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. that it is not our business and that they will not drink, however, slowly begins to drink more. Soon he was going to bed and I went to his room and under a chair I found two empty two-and-a-half-liter bottles of Astika and told him that he would become a drunkard, he would become like those downstairs who spend their wages on alcohol, and he he calls me to disappear, that I am a scumbag and garbage, etc.
My mother told me that he had gone that way years ago and she fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. that it is not our business and that they will not drink, however, slowly begins to drink more. Soon he was going to bed and I went to his room and under a chair I found two empty two-and-a-half-liter bottles of Astika and told him that he would become a drunkard, he would become like those downstairs who spend their wages on alcohol, and he he calls me to disappear, that I am a scumbag and garbage, etc. My mother told me that he had gone that way years ago and she fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do you any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. Soon he was going to bed and I went to his room and under a chair I found two empty two-and-a-half-liter bottles of Astika and told him that he would become a drunkard, he would become like those downstairs who spend their wages on alcohol, and he he calls me to disappear, that I am a scumbag and garbage, etc.
My mother told me that he had gone that way years ago and she fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. Soon he was going to bed and I went to his room and under a chair I found two empty two-and-a-half-liter bottles of Astika and I told him that he would become a drunkard, he would become like those downstairs who spend their wages on alcohol, and he he calls me to disappear, that I am a scumbag and garbage, etc. My mother told me that he had gone that way years ago and she fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. that he had gone that way years ago and she had fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home. that he had gone that way years ago and she had fixed it. He shouts that there would be a big scandal and she would catch the bitters in the fountain and not give him money. I hope she doesn't get drunk, because it won't do any good. Any tips on how to save it? We don't want to turn off the tap completely, just so we don't have an alcoholic at home.
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Ehhhh, if it was done by pouring it into the sink and taking the money, now my father would not have visited any clinics in Bulgaria: D The truth is that he has to realize the problem himself, the rest is hard work. If he does not realize it - there is no salvation. When he admits that he has a problem with alcohol, then comes the big battle, and the key word is WILL and SUPPORT on your part. Talk to him normally, not how he will become such and such. Help him realize that there is a problem, and he already has. The options are - Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and a psychologist. At the clinic, they can only help him get rid of alcohol and normalize his liver. If he has no will, there is no way to help him. This is the truth. Success!
What I may have learned as a lesson is that people can become addicted to absolutely everything, be it alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, computers. games, Facebook, etc. The reason is that they have a problem that they themselves do not know how to solve and try to escape from the reality that scares them for a while, but then it catches up with them again and even more a force that makes them head to their "safe place," whether with alcohol or otherwise. With drugs, people start small, but over time their unresolved problems get bigger and bigger, and they resort to stronger opiates until they die. This is why we say that sputum is forbidden and alcohol is not. Although alcohol also kills you, but more slowly. What I'm trying to say is, that the genesis of all man's addictions are his life's difficulties, which he himself cannot solve. This is where the role of the family and relatives comes in, who should try not badly, but on the contrary to listen to it, understand, advise and support it. A person who is in such a situation needs to understand that in the face of his loved ones there are allies who will support him, not enemies. Therefore, my personal opinion is that if you try to scandalize him or pour the drink into the sink, it will have a counterproductive effect, because the only thing you will achieve is that he will start avoiding you and hiding. Try to find out when he started drinking again and what happened then. You know him, so start a conversation with him about common things, but purposefully ask him indirect questions about what interests you. I think it would be good not to make him feel like he's on the crossroads of the police, but just to create an atmosphere in which he feels comfortable to start sharing on his own. When you think you are aware, try to convince him step by step that this is not the end of the world and that every problem is solvable, even though he does not see the solution. We live in confused times in which people are always in a hurry for somewhere in the name of the family, and unfortunately the family sees him only in a photo and loses touch with him day after day, year after year. This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! that it would be good not to make him feel like he's on the crossroads of the police, but just to create an atmosphere in which he feels comfortable to start sharing on his own. When you think you are aware, try to convince him step by step that this is not the end of the world and that every problem is solvable, even though he does not see the solution. We live in confused times in which people are always in a hurry for somewhere in the name of the family, and unfortunately the family sees him only in a photo and loses touch with him day after day, year after year. This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! that it would be good not to make him feel like he's on the crossroads of the police, but just to create an atmosphere in which he feels comfortable to start sharing on his own. When you think you are aware, try to convince him step by step that this is not the end of the world and that every problem is solvable, even though he does not see the solution. We live in confused times in which people are always in a hurry for somewhere in the name of the family, and unfortunately the family sees him only in a photo and loses touch with him day after day, year after year. This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! that you are aware, try to convince him step by step that this is not the end of the world and that every problem is solvable, even though he does not see the solution. We live in confused times in which people are always in a hurry for somewhere in the name of the family, and unfortunately the family sees him only in a photo and loses touch with him day after day, year after year. This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! that you are aware, try to convince him step by step that this is not the end of the world and that every problem is solvable, even though he does not see the solution. We live in confused times in which people are always in a hurry for somewhere in the name of the family, and unfortunately the family sees him only in a photo and loses touch with him day after day, year after year. This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck! This is my advice, I hope I have been helpful. Please note that I am not an expert and my opinion should be considered as such. I wish you good luck!
The same story and the years are the same, the only thing you can do is make him heal, which is very difficult.