I am a 26 year old woman, my friend is as big as me. Fiancé already, because on my birthday in the spring he offered me. The summer of 2020 will be the wedding. I never gave him reasons to be jealous, nor is he obsessively jealous of me. That is, it gives me all the freedom in the world. And I appreciate the fact. He doesn't stop me from going out with girlfriends, he doesn't care about me, I don't care about him, he isn't jealous even of male friends. He is also a very good host, we share everything at home. He is not a lazy, very intelligent and curious person, has a special and refined sense of humor and is one of the most attractive men I have ever met. It's the best for me. We have literally given ourselves a lot of freedom, but we are monogamous and have no eyes for others. And here comes this "but". In rare cases where another man has had or has feelings for me and hasn't given up or we've had a story, unlocks some devil in him literally and wants to crush this man. He hates my exes, especially one of them. The first one lives abroad, in England, and that saves him, mine from being jealous of him, by just telling me "how a beautiful woman can let such a crooked man go" and that she is a "male muffin". We do not keep in touch, as our relationship ended in infidelity on his part. However, my other ex and I were together for a long time, but we were on very different waves, and I just told him, and later he tried to contact me several times. I removed it from the networks after all, precisely because of such a situation, when and if I have a new partner.
So my current friend knows my two exes only by face and from social networks, because he insisted that I show him and tell him about my past. Don't judge me, it doesn't matter but at the same time he has, because he has a strong hatred for the second ex. He spits at him with various names, follows his profiles and recognizes me in every second post of the man, he had written threats to him several times, such as "if you plan to return to her, I will crush you, she loves me and you are dead. for her". He told me that he would forgive my infidelity with everyone else and leave him for everyone else, but if I went back to my ex, he would beat him. I emphasize that he has never shown me any form of violence, has a lot of love and respect for women and is not a hot-tempered person. However, if a man hates a man, he will drive him crazy. It's not a mutra at all, so I don't understand this mutra behavior. I tell him to stop, he just repeats that it is a man's question and that I should not mow, it was not just for me, but a matter of honor. It dramatizes simply. You will tell me to leave it, but I love him and repeat that he has never been rude to me! But that doesn't mean I like treating others like that. I have no feelings for my ex, but I wish him all the best, we have long since forgotten and I do not know why my fiancé digs so much. The past is the past. There were uglier scenes. In the middle we met the ex and my friend shouted "hey garbage" and waved his middle finger.
We gathered our eyes. Another time we ran into Vitoshka in the evening, we were drunk, and my ex was just walking and mine started targeting him with papers from his pocket, which was extremely rude and immature. Yes, we were teenagers, I understand, but big people in their mid-20s who are planning a family soon. I warned him not to do that. It is a shame for a man about 2 meters to be exposed in this way. And unfortunately, my story is 100% true. He has not had such manifestations recently, but he does not stop monitoring the profiles and pouring fire and brimstone on the former. I'm not jealous of exes who don't interfere in life. The past is the past. What is this behavior? If it matters, I am from Veliko Tarnovo, my ex-boyfriend is from Sofia and my current one is from Pleven. He didn't know me at all before, nor did they know each other to be at war. Everything is inexplicable.
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Your fiancé is not a tincho, but he is dumber than that. It's obviously a complex, you better not commit to one, it will make your life miserable!
"she loves me and you are" ... He was not jealous. He is jealous and how. Until the wedding came, you see, I thought as I watched. I don't know what freedom he gave you, but if he sees you with someone else, it will become a circus. She pretends to be very strong, and you are naive as a student.
Your fiancé is not a flower to smell at all, as you describe him, you are a little blinded by love. This inadequate and arrogant attitude towards your ex suggests me to deep complexes. It is not known in time whether he will not be angry with you, why you were with this and that, they are what you are, and look at me, my mother's unearthly ... I hope I don't turn out to be right. J. 25g.
You are dealing with an emotionally unstable infantile and complex. Save yourself until you turn out to be headline news in the main news programs!
Very immature behavior. It seems to me that your fiancé is a complex person.
It is not inexplicable at all! A country defender who is clearly jealous of your ex. But not for you, but something in it makes him complex. How long you are together? Because to me, it smells like holes in his fake persona. People like you scream the most in a few years ... Bro.
Fill the capital with peasants ... Live in his native hole Pleven, at least you will not meet exes.
He sucks that you've been together for a long time and he feels like a threat.
Oh, don't worry at all, baby. As you live a little longer together, as the period of flowers and roses passes, and as you enter under the wreath, the two-meter-tall prince on a white horse will turn this behavior on you as well. Peasantry is peasantry, and it kills sooner or later. To the lovers a little later, but on the other hand - invariably. Judging by the description, there is a powerful mother involved here, so expect big problems with your future mother-in-law. Of course, it is quite possible that the problems with it look like white kahari, compared to what the two-meter selandur has prepared for you. When the child appears - life and health - it will become hell. You will curse the day you decide that he is "the best for me". I will not advise you anything. You know and you decide best for yourself. Success!
Your friend is crazy, save yourself in time!
Discard this joker, because he will end up beaten in front of your eyes on the street. Let me tell you about myself, I'm a man and I was in the role of this ex of yours. A former friend of mine had caught such a jealous, funny clown who thinks that getting angry and jumping is a big deal. He joined me on Facebook, called me light, etc. and I passed this, he offered me to meet as men :))), I ignored this, mostly out of respect for my ex with whom we had a friendly relationship. I stopped contacting her not out of fear of this gentleman, but because I wanted to give them space for the relationship since I was obviously an obstacle. We meet once in the park, they follow me, I have a new boyfriend. It is clear that in front of a woman, and mine, it will be difficult to swallow again. And that soil grinds - look at his gait, pe * al, how could he with such a mold .... and mine heareth, and crieth, that he speaketh unto thee. I told her yes, the man is not quite right, there are problems ... and the next moment I get a kick in the ankles, as if they hinder me as in school years .... This crossed the border, I turned around and with a few here I sent him to the ground and then I kicked him quite contentedly, a lot of fighting took this one, unfortunately in the park, a lot of people, there were also police and they arrested me, finally I came out guilty. But my idea is that this guy of yours is waiting for a terribly big fight somewhere, they will just dare his style many people, there were also police and they arrested me, and in the end I came out guilty. But my idea is that this guy of yours is waiting for a terribly big fight somewhere, they will just dare his style many people, there were also police and they arrested me, and in the end I came out guilty. But my idea is that this guy of yours is waiting for a terribly big fight somewhere, they will just dare his style
I bet your ex is visibly weaker than him and pretends to be a man. People who behave with others according to their situation and abilities are the most unpleasant and disgusting for me. This explains the good behavior with you, when he decides that there is nowhere to go, it will be clear if I'm right. This is a guess and I hope I'm wrong, but time will tell. Good luck.
You just didn't have to tell him and show your ex. I don't think he showed his ones. If she had invented something, Author. For example, that you have blocked them or they do not have accounts. So that you don't mind lying, you could really block them. He has clung to your past.
Explain to him in a calm conversation that this behavior is NOT normal, given that you no longer communicate with your ex. Tell him in plain text that he obviously has a problem and needs specialized psychological / psychiatric help. Notice to him that he and you are exposed to the witnesses of his outbursts. And that there is a culture of behavior that is normal, and any deviation is a sign of some mental problem. However, you discreetly ask about mentally ill relatives in his family. Seriously, these are signs of a mental disorder, this mania he has developed on the subject of the former.
It doesn't sound good from what you're saying. Do you want to have such a man by your side?