Hello, I am a 15-year-old girl who wants to tell her story and ask for advice ... I have had a serious friend for 5 months, with whom everything is going perfectly. I myself am modest, but, yes, I can say that judging by his appearance, character, mind and hobbies - it can be said that he is much smarter. Here's my story ... he had initially told me he liked me, but I wasn't sure how he felt .. But, half a year ago, this guy became nice to me ... after I told him I was feeling something, we quarreled about very big nonsense, but every time I saw him something was turning in my stomach ... I apologized to him, telling him I missed him and we've been together ever since. If you ask me if he loves me - yes. He himself told and proved it to me ... He drove sleepless nights because of me, he cleaned my tears, telling me that he loves me ... He was always by my side and honestly I didn't think I could fall in love until I was 15, but here it is. Anyway, I spent 4 hours a day with him, everything was perfect (and still is, for which I thank him), this guy changed my whole life for the better. My grades improved, the relationship with my parents strengthened, I even introduced him to them and they said that he was really nice ... However, for some time (1-2 months), he started to become more intimate ... he did not allow to touch his penis, but he did his best on my "kitten", even if it meant half an hour of moaning and gasping. a few weeks ago, however, I insisted on thanking him for absolutely everything by offering him a whistle. He, of course, as a 15-year-old boy, accepted. All the time I was just thinking about it, I wanted him to come sooner to see what it is .. but the day came, he asked me if I would start and I agreed, I took off his pants without him even worrying (obviously a matter of trust), I went downstairs, kissed his belly and put it in my mouth ... 5 seconds then, he pulled me up, told me he couldn't do it and that he didn't want to make me sick, hugged me and told me that he loved me ... Anyway, I didn't feel sick, but Apparently something really happened to him ... Well, for 2-3 months, so, 1-2-3 times a week we talk about sex ... He knew I wasn't ready, he told me he was ready, that he he wants not because he will "sting", but because he will be with me and he said that we will do it only when I want ...
The question is there - do I want him enough? Literally, I want him all the time, I imagine sometimes how we do it, how nice it will be and how the boy actually is, what I love is on top and I really want it very much ... also, this will be just the first time, there will be many others, more special, but I also feel that I want it to be because I really love it .. ( yes, judge me, I'm 15 and I love the boy of my dreams ..) .. But, comes No-to. I'm kind of scared ... not of the pain, and I don't know, I take it for something pretty big, like, not that I'm not ready and I'm not sure what it will be, I don't know what I'm afraid of (most girls will understand). I just want you to clarify ... have you felt something like this and has it gone from fear to complete desire? not from the pain, and I don't know, I take it for something quite big, as if I'm not ready and I'm not sure what it will be, I don't know what I'm afraid of (most girls will understand). I just want you to clarify ... have you felt something like this and has it gone from fear to complete desire? not from the pain, and I don't know, I take it for something quite big, as if I'm not ready and I'm not sure what it will be, I don't know what I'm afraid of (most girls will understand). I just want you to clarify ... have you felt something like this and has it gone from fear to complete desire?
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It is true that you are still young, but I think you need to feel what you are going to do. Think about the pros and cons, some will probably say that it makes no sense, but I say my opinion.
Follow your heart :)
The way you describe things, he looks like a decent boy. I don't know what you're afraid of, but once he's ready to make such a long foreplay, you won't have a pain problem the first time. It comes from the fact that the boys are ready and in a hurry, while the girls need time to relax and get wet. Otherwise, sex is a responsibility. You need to know how to protect yourself and your partner from illness and pregnancy. CONDOMS - ALWAYS! Never agree to have sex without a condom! This means risking your health and your future. If you make a good foreplay and (ALWAYS) use condoms, you have nothing to fear. Sex may disappoint you at first, but over time (I guess) you'll understand why people do it;). In the beginning, I was afraid too, but now these fears are gone. If the things between you are really as you describe them, ask yourself the questions: 1) Does this boy appreciate me? 2) Do I value him enough to give myself to him? 3) Do I want to do it or am I being pushed by others (girlfriends or him)? At this age, hormones often prevail over reason. I would advise you to wait at least until your 16th birthday. And if you really want to do it, just use condoms! I apologize for repeating it so many times, but I have to! P. s: And to the question - "do you want it enough", only you can answer, but be honest! Smart and good luck! F18 1) Does this boy appreciate me? 2) Do I value him enough to give myself to him? 3) Do I want to do it or am I being pushed by others (girlfriends or him)? At this age, hormones often prevail over reason. I would advise you to wait at least until your 16th birthday. And if you really want to do it, just use condoms! I apologize for repeating it so many times, but I have to! P. s: And to the question - "do you want it enough", only you can answer, but be honest! Smart and good luck! F18 1) Does this boy appreciate me? 2) Do I value him enough to give myself to him? 3) Do I want to do it or am I being pushed by others (girlfriends or him)? At this age, hormones often prevail over reason. I would advise you to wait at least until your 16th birthday. And if you really want to do it, just use condoms! I apologize for repeating it so many times, but I have to! P. s: And to the question - "do you want it enough", only you can answer, but be honest! Smart and good luck! F18
Follow your heart! Thoughts from the heart !!! In truth, as it says above, the boy looks conscious and loves you very much. He doesn't want you to feel bad and hurt yourself. Look, you're terribly small for intimate affairs, sex, sex, etc. I advise you not to play with your future. Don't make this huge mistake of losing your virginity !!! You are still young, you have a lot of time. Listen to my advice, be smart ... because the boy is conscious, he is not spoiled like the other boys his age and in general ... very rare are normal and decent teenagers !!! Most are spoiled and think about how to do it, how they will do it, whether they will like it, what it feels like, etc. Woe to your parents and especially to your poor mother - such a perverted child (do not accept it personally, just realize what you are doing them early). Don't lose your virginity girl! You will regret it sooner or later. The boy is very good and very conscious ... he doesn't want to do intimate things with you because he is smart and realizes, he knows that it is still early for him, even though he is a boy and his friends have already done it 100%. yes but he is smart and thinks ... he doesn't think how to score a goal and then END. He loves you. I understand you, and you want and love him a lot, but realize while you have time, because after that there is no going back. You're just becoming another whore. Sooner or later, whether you like it or not, you will separate and he will tell his friends what his rules are, what sex, etc. and they all already have you for a light woman, a light girl, another blood. . Don't be offended by my words, be aware and don't do it so early ... don't force him to do it too, if he doesn't want to, then he's not ready. Your life is yours, you decide, you know ... but you better listen to my advice - don't be the blood of the teacher, don't force the boy. NO S ** RKI, NO S * KS. YOU ARE STILL EARLY, YOU ARE VERY SMALL. PS - listen to my words and realize in time where you are going !!! Good luck! ;)
Don't just rush this, I'll tell you!
From the author: Number 5 ... I know I may be small, but ... Somehow I feel it, I want it more and more, and when I asked him if he really wants it, he said he wants it a lot, but just waiting ... I don't think I'm perverted because I want to do something nice for my friend (plus I did it exactly once and it seemed rude to him), and I don't think the years make much sense. Well, it's not about the set at 15, but rather about when you will feel ready ...
For a boy and a 15-year-old girl, five months is not a small amount, considering that this is the age at which hormones almost win. Apparently you really love each other, and from what I read, the boy is really grateful to you. Look, hey, we've all been through this for the first time, and boys of this sort are very rare, so think about whether it would be better to do it with the "boy of your dreams" or the next one, ready to. you stick only because he wants sex. That's what we're looking for - someone who will love us as much as we do now that we do. Still, once the boy loves you, I'm sure he'll keep you from hurting, so I hope I've helped, from now on it's you! :)
I was 16 when I was 14 I fell in love with a boy. (He was as big as me) I was too young to fall in love and things like that, but just when I saw him, something inside me turned upside down, everything was wonderful and still is, because we're still together. Your story resembles mine, it's almost the same. And I can give you some other advice. So: 1. Think very well whether you want it or not. 2. Read a lot about sex. 3. He must be very careful at first and protect you. He must be very familiar with things (my friend, for example, talks to his father), if you think that this will not happen to him, then ask him a lot. 4. ONLY WITH A CONDOM. Don't let him do without, I made this mistake and then only unnecessary nerves and worries about whether I might be pregnant. 5. Beware of someone accidentally seeing you getting a little awkward lol:
Hey, I had the same problem as yours, it's practical and I was 15 2 weeks ago; the boy of my dreams was waiting for me for 10 months to be ready, for me it was something bigger than just the first time. Don't worry, if you love him, just give yourself to him. Then your relationship will become even stronger and more fun;)