Hi, I'm a girl of 15 and I'm very worried about my best friend. Last year he was the soul of the company, he sang great, he was always the noisiest company. We finished school and he went to the village, but now he has changed a lot since this school year. The whole first term I try to talk to him, but in vain. Now a gloomy man is walking, not talking to anyone, not even to me. When I ask him if he is okay, he answers that everything is fine and leaves. I went to them and talked to his mother, who also told me that she didn't know what was wrong with him. Most of the time, we don't even know where he is, he doesn't go in most hours anymore, and in those he enters they chase him. Please give advice on how to help him!
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If you are so close you have every right to worry! If he doesn't go to class, then he goes somewhere. If you follow him you can see where he goes, what he does .... yes, you will be absent from one or two school hours, but if he is a friend you can afford it. :)
Very bad. Talk to him and ask him what caused his change. I hope he tells you.
Check that it has nothing to do with drugs, that there are problems with someone, that a loved one has lost, that a friend has abandoned him ...
The same thing happened to me ...! : ((Last year I was the 'soul of the company', and now it's just ...; xx I don't like classes, I prefer to sit behind the school alone. Many times we quarreled with my boyfriend because of this, but ... I'm like that :( I want to change: (-Don't leave him alone. Follow him and when he stops somewhere (probably in a lonely place), just hug him and show him that he is not alone! :)