Hello! , I am a woman of 25 years. My story is as follows - almost a year ago I went to work abroad, for financial reasons, loans and deadlock. About three months before I left, I met my current boyfriend. I spent three months abroad, after which I returned to Bulgaria because of my friend. He was insanely insistent and told me to go back and not worry about money. I came back, we lived together, and I started working. The moment came when he couldn't even pay the bills for the house. In time, I began to sink with money again. I talked to him several times about the situation, but I did not see an answer or solution. My question is this - should I throw it away and seek my happiness abroad again?
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yes, look at your own life, what kind of family will be built with this one, and BGN 5 will not be given for diapers
Try telling him that you have to leave again, asking him why he said you can't handle the money alone. It should be felt. If you don't feel it, leave it. I was with my ex one summer after I finished 12th grade, in order to work where he was. In the beginning there was a job, but then he started to leave and finally for more than 1 month and something was not at work and instead of collecting money, I supported him. Bearing in mind that I was giving him cigarettes and going out, I was paying my bills and taking food for both of us. In the end, there was no thanks. My current friend is not like that, with three hundred dawns he wants some money from me and then he returns them to me at the first opportunity, even if it is not something urgent. Although he knows I would always help him with anything. Not to mention that if we live together he won't hang on my back.
Yes, drop it and go.
Leave them cramped to sit alone.
You leave, you leave.
If you have talked to him several times, if you sink and no common solution can be found, then the solution is to go to work abroad. My question is - since he is your friend, you live together, why do you have to go to work abroad alone, can't you both go and be together? I don't understand that.
No, stay with him and sink even deeper .... Did you expect to hear anything different?