health my story is the following i have a boyfriend of nine almost ten months things are going between us i am 22 he is 30.he is the first man I had sex with because I decided I wanted him very much so the problem is the following in the beginning when we started having sex four or five times a day and now he tells me that he is tired or that he has no desire I start to think that I do not he wants or maybe he's cheating on me or he doesn't want me anymore I don't know I can't explain it makes me feel unwanted and it makes me think badly like infidelity and I know if infidelity means the end of our relationship by telling him something he just he calls me and yells at me, he is like that when he does something he avoids the topic, I have the feeling that only I compromise about our relationship at the beginning he told me that if there is something we will discuss it if there is a problem we will talk but of course tell me what to do what to do But I warn you I can't leave it I lost a lottime to get here and give up I don't want to choose the easy way and leave I want a solution thanks in advance
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The whole topic is one sentence :) And yet - show more patience with the person, if you love him. JJ
The man is tired! It does NOT mean that he does not want you, but that stress prevails .. Do not press him ..
Can not every day 4-5 times. Don't be a robot. In the beginning there was maybe more passion, but now everything is calmer. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
What can I tell you? !! Find another one, a lot of fish in the sea. You can wait for it to start beating you first. The choice is yours. If you're not happy with him, what are you waiting for? To change?
do you feel wanted by him just by having sex? Doesn't he pay attention to you at other times?
Do you want 4-5 times a day for the rest of your life? No man can satisfy you, believe me. This is the case in any relationship, the first few months 4-5 times a day, then the fire settles and finally reaches once a week.
I feel for you! I'm in the same situation. It's the same with my husband. In the beginning we did it every day, then once every 2-3 days, and now ... now I have 2 vibrators and I'm going to buy a 3rd one! This is not life! He was tired, he was stressed ... until when? One month, two months, three ... and finally you like it. For now, I'm holding the front and driving with the vibrator, but I'm tired of that too, and will I find a "sex friend" in a car? It is unlikely to be after a long time. And from there to the separation the step is small. I'm sorry! When you don't appreciate what you have, you obviously don't deserve it!
He must be disgusted with your spelling, so he doesn't want you.
It hurt my head to read you an illiterate story and I dropped it. Have you heard of punctuation ??? Dot, comma, beginning and end of a sentence? !? ! ??? How do you expect someone to pay attention to what you wrote as it is unreadable !!!!
Do you realize how to read this? On the third line, I was confused, what is it all about? How can a person help you when he can barely read it, if he doesn't lose interest at all by the end of the text?
What will happen to you and your friend, time will tell, but you work on your spelling because it's horrible.
Abe, I don't know who this nasty hater goes through and I've already noticed on several topics, he votes for every comment with 1 star, but let's stop now, teenagers, teenagers, but that's it ... Aren't you going to play with your genitals? Author, I'm sorry to jam your topic like that, but it didn't stop! USA
Until 17 If no one pays attention to him, he will stop. He does it because he lacks attention in his life and everyone ignores him, so he decided to at least ask for attention here, albeit negatively. Man thinks that instead of looking away and realizing what is wrong with him, it is better to artificially satisfy his desperate need for attention. Don't be angry with him, he is unfortunately, even he does not accept himself and denies himself. The time will come and he will find himself.
looking at some women, their only goal is sex, to give them pleasure every day, almost as an obligation to them!
4-5 times a day .... 0_o ... people, don't you work?
I'm in the same situation ... the same story, the same time. And it can't be from fatigue, I had 3 more serious relationships, and this problem didn't exist. And I'm looking for a solution, but so far there is none!