My friend gives me an awful lot. You would probably say that this is great, but I constantly feel that I owe him something. I want to do something for him, but I don't know what. Suggest something pls. This feeling kills me.
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Don't worry, one day we will all die.
THE VERY KNOWN HISTORY, I PERSONALLY RECONCILED AFTER A BUILD OF CONVERSATIONS ABOUT HOW MUCH IT GIVES ME, I JUST GOT THE OPINION THAT IF I WANT TO GIVE MYSELF, I WILL GIVE IT TO 101%.
You feel obligated because you don't care about him.
On the contrary, I love him terribly. I think about him all the time. Only he is in my head. When I'm with him, I'm in seventh heaven. I just want to do something for him, but I don't know what.
Don't be the goldfish. Ask him. Usually a man presses on a woman when he takes her down. Abe quo actually gave you.
Just keep proving to him that you love him too. You don't have to feel obligated to someone who loves you. Relax. If you think so much that you're not doing anything, but make him some little surprises. Buy him small gifts often. Organize an excursion for him in a small and quiet town. Go just the two of you and enjoy the beautiful moments. Just add variety to the relationship all the time. In this way you give not only to him and to yourself, but in general you strengthen the connection. Good luck, sweetie!
Be yourself. Enjoy his attention, but do not overdo it and know that everything is up to date.
I also felt that I was indebted to my halves, but a very close and true friend of mine told me that boys really don't want gifts from girls and sometimes even take offense .. they feel better when they give .. think about this
You are wanted and loved. Just respond with the same and enjoy your love!