Hello. I'm a girl of 20 and my boyfriend is 21. I'm more sociable and generally had no relationship problems, but I was alone (my choice) before I met him. I am medium beautiful, I do not wear makeup and I have curves. (I'm not very thin and I don't follow diets, I try to always look well dressed and stylish.) My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years and he is not very "beautiful" and every time we talk about a possible separation. , insults himself. He is everything I ever wanted in a man really. Smart, funny, diplomatic, helps his mother a lot and gets along with everyone, I always learn something new from him, he is not tight-lipped, he surprises me, he always takes care of me and sometimes he is a little lazy, but he is serious about me and education your (we are both students at the same university). He is always by my side and I am by his side. I pamper him as much as I can, because it really means a lot to me. I am a Virgo, and he is an Aquarius, if that matters. I can't complain about our relationship, but I don't like his self-flagellation that he's not handsome. I have never looked at his appearance and I like him as he is. On the other hand - most of my acquaintances can not imagine how I walk with him, because I am more beautiful in appearance. I love him very much and I have never been more in love with another. He is wonderful, although women have treated him badly, I try to be the perfect friend and make him happy. He is my best friend and I would not have imagined my life without him. Help me regain his self-confidence. When we met, he wasn't like that. but I don't like his whipping that he's not handsome. I have never looked at his appearance and I like him as he is. On the other hand - most of my acquaintances can not imagine how I walk with him, because I am more beautiful in appearance. I love him very much and I have never been more in love with another. He is wonderful, although women have treated him badly, I try to be the perfect friend and make him happy. He is my best friend and I would not have imagined my life without him. Help me regain his self-confidence. When we met, he wasn't like that. but I don't like his self-flagellation that he's not handsome. I have never looked at his appearance and I like him as he is. On the other hand - most of my acquaintances can not imagine how I walk with him, because I am more beautiful in appearance. I love him very much and I have never been more in love with another. He is wonderful, although women have treated him badly, I try to be the perfect friend and make him happy. He is my best friend and I would not have imagined my life without him. Help me regain his self-confidence. When we met, he wasn't like that. I love him very much and I have never been more in love with another. He is wonderful, although women have treated him badly, I try to be the perfect friend and make him happy. He is my best friend and I would not have imagined my life without him. Help me regain his self-confidence. When we met, he wasn't like that. I love him very much and I have never been more in love with another. He is wonderful, although women have treated him badly, I try to be the perfect friend and make him happy. He is my best friend and I would not have imagined my life without him. Help me regain his self-confidence. When we met, he wasn't like that.
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Get lost until now, you will SUFFER! In the end I will blame you for all my complexes, I have enough experience with such women to say it !!! Your separation will be due to his complex!
Yes, I'm making you a girl, I don't know what to tell you to do, but I was very moved by what you wrote.
talk to him to inspire him
Well, inspire him with your self-confidence :) It's normal when all your life you are finally forced to accept something and believe it. You know - A lie told 100 times becomes true. Fuck most of your acquaintances, to live for their money and their beauty. Don't try to be "perfect", he certainly liked you because of you, not because you pampered him. I don't understand exactly what the problem is. You are happy, he is happy, you love each other, you support each other, why do you have to change something in him? Can't you accept him as he is? Talk to him about this, not us.
I am a boy of 18 and I am an Aquarius and I, as your friend, have low self-esteem, but I do not have a girlfriend. Instead of leaving him, understand him, help him get rid of this complex of his. Make him see that there is a beautiful girl next to him who likes him and is proud of him. I completely understand your friend, and I do not consider myself handsome and low self-esteem is not good, believe me.
So guys, no matter how "ugly" you think you are, don't feel sorry for your girlfriends or the girl you're taking down. You just kill your chances by trampling on your own self. Even if you have confidence without coverage, it is better than not having any.
This is his problem that he has to overcome on his own. You sound like a rarely mature person against the background of the endless sea of muffins nowadays. In the end, he has to appreciate it, because men with a lot more money, beauty and prestige, have far worse luck with women ... But it's a psychological problem that he has to work on, and it won't work out all of a sudden. Virgo and Aquarius generally work, but in this case you play the more practical, and he the more sensitive, which means that the roles are slightly interchanged. At some point he will start to make you nervous if he doesn't overcome his problems and doesn't start acting like a man ... At the moment you tolerate him because you are still young and idealistic, I hope he takes advantage of this while he can ... But no, no you can do someone else's job ...
* The author * # 1: Different types of men have taken me down and this is the most decent of all. In general, there are no complexes, but appearance is another topic that affects him, I do not know why, although he saw what kind of men I repulsed to be together. # 2 Thanks. # 3 We talked about this problem and he supposedly "heard" what I was saying to him, but I'm thinking of stopping talking about it so as not to hurt him. # 6 I have told him many times why I am with him and that I really like his character and I continue in the same spirit. He told me yesterday that when we got together he didn't think it was real. In other words, it's too good to be true. # 7 Actually - he changed a lot because of me. Really a lot to be together. He had no experience with women before, he didn't know how to treat them, what to do, he took everything for granted. But I helped him get better and now the man is every woman's dream. I am not perfect and he tells me the mistakes and patiently shows me how to fix them. We have had many problems and he has always made compromises, for which I am very grateful and he has endured more than he should. If it weren't for this "problem", everything would be perfect, but we can patiently fix it.