My friend is a criminal. In his apartment I found weapons, various objects, once I found a bunch of pictures of different people - all on a blue background, and behind their names and addresses! I didn't have the strength to ask him what this could be for him !!! I love him and I know he loves me. He has grumpy friends, corrupt cops and murderers, I don't know how he gets along with them - he tells me that he owes them and that they were "brothers" - complete nonsense! And he is nice to me and treats me perfectly.
He is an orphan, there is no family to help him. I lie to my parents about what he has been doing for 3 years now - and they are such good kind people, if my father finds out, he will feel bad ... he stopped at the university and now he is gone for days. Once he came home pale as a stain and two hours later he told me that they had shot at his car - what if I was with him ?? He lives in luxury with dirty money and I with him. I love him and he tells me that it can't change even for me, that I didn't understand the environment in which he grew up and that what he did for him was not wrong, etc ... my girlfriends are afraid to tell them about him, and the boys are friends I think of him as some "dude" !!!
I can't leave him, I know I can hardly change him. Who should I contact ??? God, when I think I could go to bed with a killer or a dealer, I feel sick ....
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When you love, it always hurts, there is always something that hurts, as in your case ... I think you have several options: 1. To live in constant fear while you are with him ... both for his life and and for yours. 2. To leave him, but since his psyche may be more unstable, because he is a criminal, he may try to do something to you if you leave him ... 3. To accept him as he is ... and try to be happy with him. But you still have to think about yours. It is best not to disappoint them. You will meet many more men in your life ... and certainly better!
Wow, this is an egati story, I just don't know what to tell you
Darling, you both hurt and itch. If you step on something wrong you will take it hard. Marry him. Our politicians are the biggest criminals.
Darling, gather strength and leave him! He will sink deeper and deeper into these "dirty" cases. I don't want to scare you, but in general, the escape from the underworld, in most cases, is only one way - death. Your friend will be fine until he becomes uncomfortable for some people, and with him he will drag you, and maybe even your loved ones. If you don't think about yourself, at least think about them! Sooner or later, your friend will get in trouble, or at best, he will be appeased.
In order not to vomit every time, you better leave him. It won't change anyway, it's your job, if he really loves you, as you claim, he will do everything possible to stop his "work" for his and for his good, because in this way you are also endangered. And the fact that you love him and you can't be excuses, you will find another one - the old love is forgotten with a new one !!!
Run far away and make sure this one doesn't get revenge on you! Horror! How did you get so soaked?
Horror! I don't know what to tell you, but I also think you should either accept him as such or leave him !!! :(
I do not agree! You love him, she said. I find it strange how you love him and the next moment you drift at the thought of going to bed with him ... I personally would be happy if I had such an individual next to me: D
Hey, if you really love him and trust him, accept him as he is. If he is your Love, don't let him lose you, even if he is a criminal.
You can live his way or you can't be with him, you have millions of options, you choose one and you continue, it's a part of life, nothing scary, he survives in one way and another in another. if you really love him you won't even think about leaving him in your mind it won't pass if you pass leave him
I will analyze everything you have written. I will do it because I can and because you decided to write your story on this site yourself. And since everyone can read it, I will analyze it. Or you may come to your senses by reading the analysis.
1.) "I love him and I know he loves me." So. You are sure you love him. But how on earth did you decide that he loves you too ??? If I tell you "I love you" now, will you be attached to me? Do you seriously expect a criminal to have the honor of telling you how he feels (if he feels anything at all, he may be a murderer)? Can you think about these things ???
2.) "He has grumpy friends ... murderers, I don't know how he gets along with them - he tells me they were" brothers ". Well ... you know what environment he lives in. WHAT the hell do you expect this to happen ??? Where did you grow up? Which planet do you come from to have the courage to find yourself with such a freak ?? Don't you have parents ???
3.) "I'm lying to my parents about what he's been doing for 3 years" You lie to them because you know how they will react. You're a hell of a dumb piece, author. How could you choose a criminal over your own parents !!! Well, they raised you !!
They gave you life and everything !! WHY do you trample and pee on their work, gathering with such mold from the street and LYING to them !!! Tomorrow, when you go to bed sick or God forbid you to get pregnant by the one who you think will look after you ?? HE??? He will dump you like a dog, so then go to your parents to fix the nonsense you did !!!
4.) "He lives in the luxury of dirty money and I with him." That explains things. When there is money - you can have it too. You were pretty cheap! But I'm not surprised, there are many like you. Dear mother, these were....
5.) "I love him, and he tells me that he can't change even for me" Of course, he won't change. But I'm sure you don't want him to change either. Because if it changes, there will be no money. And I'm sure this "dude" won't finish and start messing around. I don't have to be Vanga to know. 6.) "My girlfriends are afraid to tell them about him, and my boyfriends think he's some kind of" dude "!!!" So your girlfriends have a LOT of intelligence in their heads. Greet them from me, because at least they are with everyone. They understand what we are talking about and stay away from this "exhibit", your "husband".
And the boyfriends are as dumb as you are. Stay with them, you're obviously fine.
7.) " Who should I contact ??? "To the police. They will be happy to visit him and talk to each other. You can also turn to criminals and uses them for media appearances. Maybe the capture operation will be named after you," operation silly. , stupid, so even the word "!
8.)" God, when I think that I can go to bed with a killer or a dealer, I feel sick ... "And God can't help you. Vomit calmly - there's nothing wrong with that Go to bed with him, but Lord, don't let her get pregnant! UNDERSTAND, UNHAPPY CHILDREN, born of "parents" like you two, are enough ... people are done with a mind in their heads. I am one of the few fools left in Bulgaria who are now wondering how to deal with the simplicity here.