Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl. and for a year now I have been going (secretly) with a boy who is a gypsy. We know each other from kindergarten, I know his whole family, they are very polite and hearty. His parents live in Germany, and he is in Bulgaria with his grandparents. The boy is very smart, kind and responsible. Since I have known him, I have not seen anything bad from him and his family, I would say that they are better people than my family, although we are Bulgarians. I have been dating this boy all year and this is the happiest year for me. We love each other a lot, but there is one problem - my parents do not approve of him and would never allow me to be with him. Please help me. I don't want to lose a man like him ...
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If you make mistakes in your youth, that is, now, you will suffer through wisdom, that is, as you grow up. Your parents, your future child (will be most affected) will suffer from this connection from ridicule, whispers, disapproval from his relatives and many, many more annoyances and problems. there are also decent Bulgarians
At 19, you are not a girl at all, but an adult woman with all the rights and obligations. "Parents don't give it to me" obviously means you're the only child and they looked at you like a pot. Under these conditions, it is normal to "rebel" in this way. It's not a problem that he's a gypsy. The problem is that the whole story looks like child's play. Unfortunately, you are NO longer a CHILD and the "game" can have unpleasant consequences.
If you're sure he's really decent, I don't see what confuses your parents. But think why they don't like it, is that the only reason?
You are 19, already an adult, and you have the right to make your own decisions in life. I wouldn't start a family with a gypsy, but I don't judge you by your choice. Make it clear to your parents that they no longer have the word and cannot interfere with you.
Hello chick, I am 20 years old and also my friend is a gypsy, I have the same problems as you, only I am expecting a child from him, I am already in the 3rd month. If the person is worth the risk, do not listen to anyone then you may feel sorry. Most importantly, do not rush.
Aren't you ashamed Bulgarians, gypsies fertilize your wives. Aren't you ashamed?
They will agree if you make two or three chats.
There is nothing wrong with this.
It's one thing to walk, it's another to live. In my opinion, the biggest problem is cultural differences. My cousin complains the most about the lack of fidelity. Live a year with him and judge for yourself. As for your parents, only you can decide how long to let them interfere in your life.
In the future ... In Bulgaria the gypsies are not loved by us Bulgarians at all and there is a reason. One day your children will be half gypsies and will face ridicule and bad treatment from others and you can't stop it, you will probably want them to be among Bulgarians and not in a gypsy ghetto. Here comes the big problem.
Wait to marry him and then you will see where the sun rises. He himself will be your least problem.
Up to 9 And some women ... If we have to be honest and correct, there is NO big difference between Bulgarians and gypsies. Let's face it, unfortunately. Right?
Come on, enough moderators, you can't publish a Bulgarian opinion. What is this censorship. Only a total officer would have anything to do with this crap of stupid thieving and parasitic origin.
Live together and you will write. Thus, when the thrill disappears and everyday life takes over, you will judge whether He is the man. And the Bulgarian is a racist prepare for this.
All over Europe, people realized that most Bulgarian women could only communicate with Gypsies, Negroes and Arabs. That's why they laugh at them and make fun of them.
Surely yours know that you have a boyfriend when you go all year. It is strange that they did not want to meet him. I wonder why you are only now writing, what made you think you would lose it?
Fools are crazy, some trolls are trying to brainwash you because they want to destroy you as a people, and that's why these fictional stories are being written to them. They are targeting Bulgarian women because they are stupid, and this gypsy number does not work with Bulgarian men. Go and marry gypsies, Arabs, Negroes and all sorts of other geeks, no matter that people all over Europe will make fun of them and treat them like third-hand people - that name that will pop out of your vaginas.
Once you've caught up with a gypsy, it means that your culture and mentality are at his level. Remember that his soul is gypsy and sooner or later, his gypsy will come to the surface and this will inevitably be passed on to your children genetically. If you have any, have you thought about how people will treat them? Narda said it - The pear does not fall far from the tree.
The important thing is not to breathe glue .. he may be conscious, so what.
Your biggest mistake will be just because of people's opinion to reject the person you love. We live in the 21st century and it is high time that all these prejudices were broken and did not affect people so much. If you are confident in the person, if you understand each other, appreciate, respect and love, fuck people and their opinion. Your parents will not live with him, so that they choose your life partner, you can just listen to them, hear their opinion why they do not approve of him and if there is no adequate reason - there is nothing to think about him. Success! :)
Don't rush to take it, life is in front of you. 19 is not like 30.
It is a mistake to ignore your parents because tomorrow the dark friend will fill you up and fuck you, I'm not saying that if he is Bulgarian he will not do it, but then the consequences for the child will be severe. There are also literate gypsies, but they cannot escape their mentality.
I know a lot of such "families", only one thing is normal, thanks to the parents of the gypsy who support the young with their two children. Others en masse force their wives into prostitution in Bulgaria, in Chuddbina. I know a girl who got involved with a gypsy, from the beginning everything was flowers and roses until she gave birth to a child (so she couldn't run away), now he takes her to the highway to make him money, last year he broke her jaw in another beating. Another has almost the same story - a very beautiful girl, when she was 18 she was taken to France and the same thing - she gave birth to a child and she was taken out on the street. Last time I knew that she had run away with the child and covered herself since then, I haven't heard from her ....
Author, the problem is not with your parents. If they haven't done anything so far, they won't. They will reconcile with your friend. It is bad if what the commenters have written has happened. Indeed, there are many cases of abandoned Bulgarian women, because gypsies do not look at Bulgarians with a good eye and, for example, if you have children, they will be considered by the gypsy community to be of inferior quality. And abroad they are right - white girls earn better incomes as prostitutes. They are no longer offered on the street, but on the Internet. Such girls sometimes do not even leave an apartment. They meet a dozen clients a day and smear them with "work". I do not wish you such a fate. I wish you all the best and happy moments with your loved one. But remember - it is still too early for you to get married and have children, and this ethnic group is always fast.
The gypsy is a gypsy, and he will remain a gypsy, because his gypsy is in his blood. Remember that blood, water does not work.
Why don't you ask your mother about your family tree? You may turn out to have a grandfather or great-grandfather Mango or Yashar!
The people from the gypsy neighborhood do not take a cat, and this lover took it from there. As soon as the gypsies crawl in and start stealing and begging. Even aliens lock the doors of their flying saucers when they fly over gypsy neighborhoods. The author obviously finds this exciting and completely normal.