My friend doesn't stop fighting and it just gets on my nerves. It's about fighting at school or, more accurately, beating others. He is constantly looking for a reason for this, and he plays sports and is quite big and together with 2-3 of his class, who are like him, they regularly get involved in such things. I don't know, I'm going crazy, he's with the director every month, because they beat someone up with his friends, at times he's super aggressive. What have I not tried, I have talked to him, I have cried, I have begged him, I have called him and no and no. I'm tired of the breaks coming to call me because I beat someone and I'm going to tear them apart. Only I succeed, because if someone else intervenes, it's hard for him. I hate the fact that he does it ... but I just love him, but I can't watch him hurt others. In addition to harassing others, he will ruin his future. I don't know what to do to stop it anymore,
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Did he hit younger children or just his class. I don't know what advice I would give you, but if it starts to affect you, the best way is separation
Your friend now thinks he's cool, dangerous and liked, but the thing is, he's self-destructing. Because (with few exceptions) no one likes him, most may be afraid and friendly with him, but they hate him and do not want him around them. This friend of yours is not something exceptional, almost every class has at least one such copy, and practice shows that life beats them hard. Just by finishing school and going out in real life, these people fail to adjust. I don't know what to say to them, you can't change it, you can break away from it or get stuck with it, you choose.
Don't worry, it'll be over soon, it'll just start beating you. Apparently man has quite severe complexes, which may come from the family environment or from elsewhere, God knows.
Tell her again ... what do you like about this brainless cattle that I found interesting?
Your friend will soon find his master and then hard on him. Safe from thugs
Buahaha, make sure you don't get hit. Otherwise, love it. I sincerely hope that several people will gather and beat him up
N. 1- well mainly encroaches (as far as I have witnessed) or as much as he is (almost 18) or 1-2 years younger. N. 4 - he was not like that before, he was more hot-tempered and fought, but less often and I thought it was temporary. And he holds my ass well and has never touched me in any way. But lately, I've been under constant pressure for what he's doing. And I want to stop it somehow, but I don't know how. I don't defend him about it and I'm horrified at the thought of what he's doing, but I feel helpless in this case.
Hey ... you immediately bristled at the girl ... she's not on your head, it's easy to talk. And on the subject - I would like to ask you, do you know why he beats them? For no reason or do they provoke him? There are people who "burn a quarter" ... if you say you love him, he must be behaving well with you, but still ask him and then tell him why he beats them? Gray
The typical inspired fitness oligophrenic! Congratulations, your friend is a future disco security guard (for life).
Pickles like your friend, how many mothers have turned black, I hope to find a master soon. Individuals like him have no place in society, they are people without morals and conscience, and if you are smart you will abandon him, because you will start beating. Reb
Practice has shown that everyone finds a master. There was one of them in my school - a big, fitness maniac, nasty and out of nowhere, he was fine. A new boy came, it was obvious that he was healthy, but by no means a cattle, just a vein. In one of the breaks she started to annoy him and this new boy literally ran over him from a fight, fists, kicks, teachers came to save the big aggressor :). In the end, the old woman hit a kickboxing champion and ended up with 5 broken teeth, a broken nose and a cracked jaw. So soon you will complain to your friend when he fights with someone tougher, sooner or later this moment will come and prepare mentally.
Whatever you do - love it. He still has brainless cattle. Well, you girls, why do you always go with them? And I see this one in 1 year in Pirogov, safe from thugs. Venus
Kickboxing trains. N. 8, but that it burns easily. It is enough for someone to look at him askance or say something and immediately jump. Sometimes alone, sometimes with his friends. He promised me that it would stop, but after 2-3 days max, things repeat themselves.
I'm number one. I want to ask number 7 this man if your friend has assaulted girls who are 10 or 11 years old because it can happen. Did you protect the children from him when I was in the last class last year I defended 40 children 35 of whom girls took one to the nurse
No, he didn't touch girls or little ones just boys around his age. And there is no sense in high school children. The last time he had attacked, so to speak, a boy from the ninth or tenth, and also when companies like theirs were coming together, they jumped into battle again, but I did not witness that, but I saw him with a cleft lip after such a collision. . He told me he would never hit a woman or a child, but I can't understand why he beats other boys. And he, as I said, is obviously physically superior to them. They imposed a lot of penalties on him, offered him expulsion and not without reason. Now that he's 18, I don't just think, because as an adult and an adult, the consequences for him will be much worse if he continues to do so, and I know he won't stop. Just understand this part of him I do not know her well and he does not allow me, never gives me precise and clear reasons when I ask him why he does it. It seems normal to him. And after such incidents, when I see each other, I wait for answers, and he behaves as if nothing has happened, he even asks me why I look at him like that. I don't know ... And when I intervened in such situations between him and the other, I just can't recognize him, it seems somehow I don't know scary. And then he seems to forget that. But I just love it and I can't leave it, even if some people think I'm crazy. I had scandals with our people because of him, with my friends. It is very difficult in general. The author and he acts as if nothing has happened, he even asks me why I look at him like that. I don't know ... And when I intervened in such situations between him and the other, I just can't recognize him, it seems somehow I don't know scary. And then he seems to forget that. But I just love it and I can't leave it, even if some people think I'm crazy. I had scandals with our people because of him, with my friends. It is very difficult in general. The author and he acts as if nothing has happened, he even asks me why I look at him like that. I don't know ... And when I intervened in such situations between him and the other, I just can't recognize him, it seems somehow I don't know scary. And then he seems to forget that. But I just love it and I can't leave it, even if some people think I'm crazy. I had scandals with our people because of him, with my friends. It is very difficult in general. The author
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I don't know how old you are but I'm 13 and my boyfriend is also fighting, he thinks he's great because he and a few others are on the football team and he attacks everyone (except me) and he fights with the teachers and the older was. THE SAME JOB IS LIKE YOU. And you're fine, he was going to slap me once, but he stopped.
From the author I accidentally came across this topic, I had even forgotten. To number 16, but we broke up almost 3 months ago. I just couldn't take it anymore.
See what I will tell you: rely on your mind, not on your feelings! There is not always a happy ending in real life. I will give you an example: you go swimming, everything is perfect and you feel like in heaven. However, the story is spoiled and it turns out that this pool is no longer full of clean water, but disgusting, like a swamp. You can barely dive and walk reluctantly ... is that the case with your boyfriend? do you like it do you live in the past? do you believe another lie? Life is too short to waste it with the wrong people. And if he starts threatening you as the separation seeks any help - teacher, friend, father, police. Don't live in the past, because that's how you lose your future
It was the same for me. I just went crazy. One day I couldn't stand it anymore and I told him that if he wanted to be with me he would stop. And now he promised me that while we were together he would not fight. For now he keeps his promise :)
Get him drunk and give him a healthy fight !!! If that doesn't help, I'm a tractor.
He will beat and beat and beat him :) people are not alone to know it