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My Friend Is Harassing Me!

By otaviano August 14, 2020 4 answers Last updated August 14, 2020

Hello! I am a girl, 17 years old. I have a friend for a year and a half. We had a lot of problems, but we forgave each other and everything went well for the last 6 months. The problems came this new year. We don't see each other often / once a week /, so I appreciate and look forward to every moment with him. He has been telling me for 2 months how we will be together in the new year and I will stay with them for the first time. I woke up every morning and celebrated the days until then. There was 1 week left and then he told me that his friend was inviting us to an event with 20 other people. I did not like this idea at all, because I wanted to be just the two of us, and I did not know any of the people who will be at this celebration. He kept convincing me, but I didn't want to and told him to go alone. He promised me he wouldn't go without me. There were 2 days left until the new year, and he didn't even touch on the topic with my visit to them. I was very angry and stopped looking for him, I thought he would do it himself.

But not! I waited for 2 days and nothing. A new year came ... on which I received a CHN per message. He had gone there. With your friends. He chose them in front of me once again. Break your promise. From then on, I called him and explained to him what had hurt me and that he was a man and should keep his word. He didn't hear me ... blame me for everything and protect your friends. He said he didn't regret it and just said it was because I didn't like him. He keeps behaving like that with me every day, and it's already stressing me out. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship. I waited for 2 days and nothing.

A new year came ... on which I received a CHN per message. He had gone there. With your friends. He chose them in front of me once again. Break your promise. Since then, I called him and explained what had hurt me and that he was a man and should keep his word. He didn't hear me ... blame me for everything and protect your friends. He said he didn't regret it and just said it was because I didn't like him. He keeps behaving like that with me every day, and it's already stressing me out. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship. I waited for 2 days and nothing. A new year came ... on which I received a CNG per message. He had gone there. With your friends. He chose them in front of me once again. Break your promise. From then on, I called him and explained what had hurt me and that he was a man and should keep his word. He didn't hear me ... blame me for everything and protect your friends. He said he didn't regret it and just said it was because I didn't like him. He keeps behaving like that with me every day, and it's already stressing me out. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship. Break your promise. From then on, I called him and explained to him what had hurt me and that he was a man and should keep his word. He didn't hear me ... blame me for everything and protect your friends. He said he didn't regret it and just said it was because I didn't like him. He keeps behaving like that with me every day, and it's already stressing me out. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know.

I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship. Break your promise. From then on, I called him and explained what had hurt me and that he was a man and should keep his word. He didn't hear me ... blame me for everything and protect your friends. He said he didn't regret it and just said it was because I didn't like him. He keeps behaving like that with me every day, and it's already stressing me out. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship.

Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship. Recently, I also found that when I'm not around I feel better. I do not know. I love him but if I talk to him we start arguing and I'm already wondering if it's time to end or there is a way to save our relationship.

Answers 4

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repsmucker answered · August 14, 2020

   Beat the joke of this unfortunate man and don't waste any more time with him at all. To stay with his friends as he wants, who will also leave him. Ž

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smiletwo answered · August 14, 2020

   Drop it and it must be a decent person not such a mold!

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ecuador_today answered · August 14, 2020

   This one just doesn't deserve you! "Well, ok dude, you prefer your friends to me, but stay with them and don't waste my time!" Personally, I would say something like that and send it to hell. The other option is to return it to him with the same coin. You agree on something, and at the last moment you cut it to go see a friend. Let's see how much fun it is! But you're really looking to dump him at the last minute so he doesn't have time to come up with a new program for the evening. And then, as he mumbles, you explain to him that one of your girlfriends had a problem and you urgently had to go to comfort her, because you are like him and you care about your friends. However, I do not know if it is worth it. For this, in your place, I will simply beat his jester and find a man who holds on to me and complies with me and my desires, if not constantly,

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xmystymayx answered · August 14, 2020

   I thought for a while if there was a problem and if he didn't want to take you to them, every family knows its problems ... And even if she had gone with him to the party as the saying goes "It doesn't matter where and with whom" can you be angry with him just because he didn't take you to them ...