Hi! I'm 18. I have a friend for 3 years who I don't love but I just can't get rid of him. I work in two places because my parents can't support me. I enrolled in my final year of self-study school to work. My problem is that I can't stand living like this, I want to study, I can do it, but money is a big problem. My friend won't let me out when, of course, I get the chance. He gets angry that I'm still sleepy and tells me I'm lying to him that I'm tired. I want to live normally, but I have no idea how to do that. This job of 17 hours a day kills me. My friend is harassing me what to do
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Drop it, he obviously doesn't understand you, but he should! I am very sorry that you live like this, but nowadays it is really very difficult. I wish you success in the future.
Dear girl, life is hard, dump this friend of yours and look ahead, there are many other boys, you will meet some who will understand you and support you as if he loves you.
I ended such a relationship exactly 1 week ago ... You are only 18 years old, you need personal freedom, which he does not give you ... at least he gave you money, and even that is not. Drop it, I will say it too!
Leave it. It will not change. You are so young that you will find another person who will respect you without harassing you.
Dear girl, you are still young to be bullied, this friend of yours does not deserve you, if he does so, dump him and you will see how good you will be :) You are strong, you will cope :) Good luck :)
I don't know, on the one hand I feel sorry for you, on the 2nd I admire you, and on the 3rd I would even reproach you. So I feel sorry for the fact that you have to put up with such a person for 3 years now, given that you are obviously really tearing your ass off from work in order to be able to support yourself, which is commendable! Not to get into your situation, and not to let you go, in the few cases you have given yourself to go out, first talk about a jealous, second about a limited person. You say you don't love him, so let me get to it?!? For what ... you haven't lost it yet!?! Apparently you're used to it or you're a little limited in your head, but a smart girl would have kicked him out a long time ago! I wish you success and I hope you make the right decision and get rid of this urge sooner! M26
Leave him he does not deserve you you will find better than him.
She says she can't get rid of him ... then how to dump him? You are very smart, nothing.
Stay with him and let him crush and command you when you are powerless to do anything. I wonder when you get married what will it be then .....
Find a way and leave it .... X-12
Yours can't stand you, but at least they can protect you from it. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. If that doesn't help, move to live with a grandmother to hide from his attacks. Good luck and all the best.