Hello. I am a 16 year old girl. I have a friend of 8 months who I love very much. He is 18. Everything was going well until he told me that he would leave for 3 months to work at sea. He will leave on Monday, which means we have exactly 2 days together. Believe me, my heart is breaking. I feel a kind of emptiness when I remember that I will not see him for 3 months. I'm very sad, I cry every night. Even when we sleep next to each other I cry again, imagining that in a few days my bed will be empty ... I write here because I have nowhere else to pour my grief, at night I cry alone, and during the day I smile as if nothing It was ... I don't show him that it's so hard for me, I guess it's not easy for him either, it's obvious that he is sick ... Please, give me some advice, no matter what ... Thanks in advance.
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Well, one option is to go with him .. If your parents know about him, they will probably let you go .. The other option is to go with friends ... And I don't know if they will let you go there .. True, you won't be able to sit for 3 months. like him, but for example when you get sick you can go. Once you present the facts, I understand that you are not from here. I am from Burgas and that is why I give you such advice, they would let me go personally, etc. And there is another option, if you have girlfriends at the sea, why not visit them? I think then your parents would let you go. And from there you can go to the place where he works :)
If you can go with him, if you can't .. wait and that's it! I hope your friend is aware that an 18-year-old boy at sea in the summer ... you remember where I fight. I hope he truly loves you.
In fact, 3 months are not so much better - do not go with him, do something else, write your time will pass very quickly. :)