Hello readers, a 20-year-old girl writes to you. Let's start like this. I have a friend of 20 years. We have been together for 1 year, we live for rent and we manage on our own. The problem is that recently she has been behaving very harshly and nastyly with me, she constantly calls me immature, that I behave like a child ... Before the judges I want to say something. I am currently in the years of maturation and awareness, I am making mistakes, I have learned my lesson and at the moment I am thinking really maturely. And let me emphasize that in a few months I saw mentally and spiritually and there really is a change that I see for myself. So our problem is that he no longer wants me, we have sex once a month, he constantly avoids me by going out. So ... The perverse thing I noticed was that I went into the history of Google Chrome to see an old car ad page. However, I came across the most unexpected thing for me personally .... PORNO VIDEOS WITH GRANDMOTHERS OR DOLLS ... I was disgusted .. People, is this normal for a 20-year-old man. How do I define this? Is it a fetish? Is it on a mental basis? At the beginning of our relationship, he told me about his friends, how they slept with their teachers, could these stories have been not his friends, but his experiences? We once talked about this topic and he denied looking at them, his words were "are you normal?
Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I open sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts, because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. People, is this normal for a 20-year-old man. How do I define this? Is it a fetish? Is it on a mental basis? At the beginning of our relationship, he told me about his friends, how they slept with their teachers, could these stories have been not his friends, but his experiences? We once talked about this topic and he denied looking at them, his words were "are you normal? Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I opened sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts, because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. People, is this normal for a 20-year-old man. How do I define this? Is it a fetish? Is it on a mental basis? At the beginning of our relationship, he told me about his friends, how they slept with their teachers, could these stories have been not his friends, but his experiences? We once talked about this topic and he denied looking at them, his words were "are you normal? Do you have me for such a pervert?
These are viruses when I open sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts, because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. How do I define this? Is it a fetish? Is it on a mental basis? At the beginning of our relationship, he told me about his friends, how they slept with their teachers, could these stories have been not his friends, but his experiences? We once talked about this topic and he denied looking at them, his words were "are you normal? Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I open sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me.
I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts, because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. How do I define this? Is it a fetish? Is it on a mental basis? At the beginning of our relationship, he told me about his friends, how they slept with their teachers, could these stories have been not his friends, but his experiences? We once talked about this topic and he denied looking at them, his words were "are you normal? Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I open sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts, because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. that he was looking at them, his words were "are you normal?
Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I opened sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google, it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature. that he was looking at them, his words were "are you normal? Do you have me for such a pervert? These are viruses when I opened sites" But I still see such sites. Even in google, it is written to find. Give me advice please. It's very strange to me. I do not know what to do. It's hard for me, it hurts because I do my best to make him happy with me. I even changed because of him, I think more sensibly, the so-called mature.
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This is a fetish. Desire for more mature women. I am a man of 40 and I also have such inclinations. It's not just us. There are many such men. I don't know how I would explain it to you and to what extent you would understand me. For example, "I" is locked in a room with a bed. And they bring in an 18-20 year old girl with whom we have to have sex. I'll do the job, but it would be hard to turn me on. No matter body proportions or skills. If a 35-40 year old woman came in, I would get aroused almost as soon as I touched her body. However, if a 45 year old woman enters just imagining what awaits me and I am ready. I'm not attracted to younger people. I have had over 20 girls, but all my life I will remember a poop 15 years older than me. And your friend can't admit it to you. For me, such a story led to passwords on laptops and phones. He tried to keep track of who I was texting. Why is this my friend in the surat-notebook. My personal correspondence with my sister was read and it boiled over. If you're trying to stay in touch, don't push your boyfriend. It is very difficult to deny a person his interests.
I am also a gerontophile, and I am attracted to such videos and I also do it with them. Do you have a problem?
Okay, but why is he with me when he falls in love with older and more mature women? I have nothing to tell him. I'm not so bad at following it or changing it. But I hate it because it means he doesn't want me. I certainly don't satisfy him, I don't know. But the first time I asked him he denied me, so he lied to me. At least to admit it. I cook for him, I clean for him, I wash for him. I take care of him ... Probably that's why he's with me, I know.? Do I have to worry that he may not love and like me? He has claimed many times that he loves and respects me, but he does not show it.
Look now. There are several aspects. First, for yourself - yes, you are mature, but in a few months this does not happen. You are already mature, in your opinion, from your bell tower, but you really have no idea how many more things there are in this world. So you have just started to grow. This is not a criticism in any case, and at 20 I was super green, I didn't even have a girlfriend. I say this just to make you look more realistically at yourself. Secondly, for your friend - as the first commenter says, this is a fetish. I don't know what% of men have it. I don't have it, but it's a matter of taste. You can't do much about it, take it for granted - like if your friend has big ears. This does not mean that you have to accept his fetish in your relationship, on the contrary. Assess things, incl. whether his behavior towards you suits you, talk to him, give him a chance and if there is no change to what makes you feel good - goodbye. You have already changed for him (actually becoming more mature is a necessity in life, not especially because of your boyfriend), if he wants to be with you, he must also take the necessary steps. On the one hand, it doesn't work. If only you try to do a little, then a little more and a little more, then a little more, you will not feel yourself how you will become mentally dependent on him, and he will literally command you. You do not need such an option. See if you can fix things and if not - move out on your own. Success! On the one hand, it doesn't work. If only you try to do a little, then a little more and a little more, then a little more, you will not feel yourself how you will become mentally dependent on him, and he will literally command you. You do not need such an option. See if you can fix things and if not - move out on your own. Success! On the one hand, it doesn't work. If only you try to do a little, then a little more and a little more, then a little more, you will not feel yourself how you will become mentally dependent on him, and he will literally command you. You do not need such an option. See if you can fix things and if not - move out on your own. Success!
Mass phenomenon. And not only do they watch porn with milfs and grandmas, but they also fuck with them. And everyone has at least one that she learned at the games, she can't forget it, because she flirted much better than the young chicks. Because the older ones are more experienced, they don't care, they give everything and everywhere. No wonder yours has a teacher, but he's ashamed to tell you. Men may have an Oedipus complex. If you don't know what the Oedipus complex is, ask Google. If you are very disgusted, dump him because he is lying to you, but there is a high probability that you will come across one again.
Why do you wonder that your boyfriend has a desire for older aunts. These aunts are without complexes and indulge completely in sex. And who knows what kind of complex you are, or maybe you have some genital defects that probably repel him, but he doesn't want to tell you. As for the age difference - well, I've watched on porn sites young girls 18, 19 years old have sex with 50 to 60 year old men. You tell me if this is normal. A young girl opens her legs to 50-60 year old men, they even give them blowjobs and even take it in the anus. These examples show who is more perverted, the boys or the girls. I think today's girls are more perverted than boys. Today's girls for money are ready to do anything with men no matter what age the man is. You too can become like these girls. As for grandmothers on porn sites, I have not seen, unless you consider grandmothers 35, 40 years old, rarely well-preserved women. Are you sure your genitals are OK? Look at yourself first before criticizing your friend.
Your boyfriend has a fetish for more mature women. You have sex once a month because you don't arouse him the way a woman of many years arouses him. I think it's best to drop it. You have no way to satisfy his fetish and he avoids you because he is only looking for women to satisfy his fetish.
Up to 3 people use you to cook, clean and wash. What matters is what he shows, not what he claims. If he doesn't show that he loves you, it means he doesn't love you. There is no way to satisfy him, no matter how much you want, because you are young and he does not like younger people. The sooner you leave it, the better for you.
To number 5. Perfect comment, it's great to see intelligent people who present their thoughts in the right way, with few words and a lot of meaning.
To the author: Number 1 is ahead of me - everything he wrote, I like it too! I'm 36 years old, I don't have a boyfriend, but I'll try to be at least 35, it won't be like the 20-year-olds! However, it is assumed that this is already a mature woman who will be played - I have not slept with a woman, but it will happen! And looking for what's in someone else's computer is disrespecting someone else's personal space! I wonder why he hasn't shown you the door yet? Because that leads there! It's like stealing! Don't you know that? It's just that we men are set up to keep silent about what we love, because society will avoid us and intrigue behind our backs - acquaintances, acquaintances, friends, colleagues, relatives! It's just that not everyone accepts what a man can like! And what's left for you! And this is shared only with a trusted person! And you definitely do not fall into this category! And he told you those words to deceive you! But don't forget - he still tolerates you because you walk him! Otherwise he kicked you a long time ago! Be grateful for that! But if he decides, he can always point the door at you and you can pack up right away!
It's normal for men, mine is an idiot and I've found him in history looking for things like Eskimo porn and how spiders end up and these are the most normal things, so don't worry even if a hentai is watching
He falls for old bags. Even if you stand on the front stand, it will not stop. And I understood that a boyfriend before me was 50 years old, and we are both 22. Well, I was disgusted. Our sex is regular, but just imagining it with such a woman, I feel any intimacy. Preferring a childbirth and a sagging body to your set is an insult to the person next to you. And these women sleeping with sets of their children do not fit my mind. Disgusting work.
Yeah, number 14 So it's the girl's fault that she understood, not the guy who has such inclinations? I don't have to serve him if he's going to be so secretive about everything. Just to rub his history like normal people, so as not to fall into such situations. What fool doesn't rub porn or the search engine? This and the paws of 11-12 know it. I do not agree that the woman must endure everything so as not to leave the prince. That time is long gone. Author, you sit down and talk. Normal, big people should be able to talk calmly about their problems, their expectations, even about sex. You can't make someone honest with you, but at least it's an experience. And don't tie yourself to pacifiers with viruses, hacks, etc. - men's favorite excuse, as they can't think of anything else. Male lies are not so many and are rarely original. Well, 1,000,000 percent are lying to you.
Drop this one. To find a grandmother to serve him. There are so many normal guys, why is he a pervert or a liar? What future awaits you with such?
I also like uncles, but since I am a woman, everyone will say that I am perverted and I need to be treated, right? Hahahahahahahah, crazy people
When a man is guilty or cheating, he looks for mistakes in his wife. This is so unfortunate, so weak. Girl, lose it, in this connection you will only get angry. Kerry
He is not a pervert, but a thug thinking about the future. In ten years, she will receive her grandmother's pension and a personal assistant
I read so many funny posts here ... Do you people distinguish between fantasy and reality? Porn is actually a visual fantasy. I am a woman and I also watch sometimes. Of course, so does my husband. Sometimes we play something spicy together. We like older couples or triplets because there is no silicone on them and everything is natural. And what? Girl, don't burden your young head with nonsense. Your friend is neither perverted nor crazy. I'm only worried about having sex once a month. At your age, it is normal to be every day. We are people in their 40s and we don't do it only if someone is dead tired from work or the other is on a business trip, otherwise it is every night, and very often - in the morning again.
... Today's girls for money are ready to do anything with men no matter how old the man is .... That's right, muffins are much more perverted because they are offered for money, and a young man who wants to sleep with an aunt does it only out of passion, there is also a Lada, but they are rare. I am 52 years old and also as a teenager I liked older women because they are mature, have pronounced genital scars, large breasts, buttocks, lush thighs, good hair, and also experienced, without restraint. If two naked women stand in front of me, one at the age of 20 ideally epilated and skinny according to your stupid notions of beauty, and the other over 50 - natural, juicy, plump and hairy, I will without hesitation choose the second, and the first will not even impress me .