Hello! I'm a girl of 17, I have a friend who is 2 years older and fortunately (or at least to my joy), he is already quite experienced in bed, while he was mine (and still is). the first. I can't even call it a problem, but I can't help but notice that the bed is quiet, unlike me. I really can't be quiet, even when I try not to moan or make any noises, I'm breathing hard again and I can't hide how good I am with him. He told me that it gave him extra pleasure, but nevertheless I never forced myself, because excessive shouting was always disgusting and unnatural to me, I just can't hide the moans, they come from inside me. On the other hand, he is quiet and like me - even when he finishes. The only thing I can sense is heavy breathing. I'm far from thinking he doesn't like it because he's always looking for it. I am also aware that each man is individually responsible for himself, but are there other girls / women whose partners are quiet in bed?
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Well, the sounds that a person makes in bed are information about the other, a kind of non-verbal communication about how good he is, whether things are going in the right direction, etc. Sometimes a person does not come from inside to make some sounds, other times he comes to scream, and sometimes he needs time (for example 10-15 meetings) to relax. Don't stop, don't force yourself - whoever is well. There are people who as a child have slept with their parents in the same room and are accordingly accustomed (involuntarily) to be suppressed, and do not make any sounds. But whatever it is - it is not fatal. In time, you will find the right formula. Do not think about it!
I'm a girl and I'm very quiet. It doesn't come from inside me, and I can't force myself to put on porn star-style performances. It just sounds fake and funny when it's not sincere. I guess your friend doesn't come from inside either. I know, it sucks, and for me as a woman the male sounds are very arousing, as for most of them ours are arousing, but ... For me most of all, when I finish, a barely perceptible "mmmmm" or sigh slips away, and that is generally. : D
I'm in exactly the same situation - down to the smallest detail, except that it doesn't stop my friend from being quiet. I don't feel uncomfortable moaning as much as I want. When he finishes, he doesn't make a sound either, but I can read the pleasure in his eyes. In general, we obviously fit in - I'm a wall, he likes to listen to me. He is silent - I am not even impressed, and it does not matter to me. The important thing is to know that he is happy with you! I don't think you have anything to worry about.
In porn movies, it may be normal for them to roar like donkeys while they are cumming, but as practice has shown, the reality is different. Being quiet shouldn't bother you at all, the important thing is that the sex is good, that you get pleasure and love each other as much as possible;)
Quiet, Shumen ... the important thing is to do your job :)
This is a rhetorical question, my husband is not quiet, but there are many others who are, it depends individually on the person. Just as there are women who do not moan or make sounds, so do men. Don't look for a problem where it doesn't exist!
I'm very noisy, he is rarely heard. And it's better that if we were both so noisy ... No, I'm not overplaying or anything, I've bitten into a pillow to suppress a scream or a louder groan, but I choke and sometimes choke. Including once, I only had sex at my parents' house and I had bitten the boy's hand, clenching my teeth until a piece of skin was torn off. I never did again in my parents' home that I was ashamed to think that my father could hear me. It's not something I can control. Otherwise, the boy in some rare cases growls louder, he groans, but it's best for me (rarely, unfortunately, I hear him) when he shouts / roars like an animal :) It gives me great pleasure to hear his pleasure.
They didn't shout at the men I was with, like in porn, but they were gifted. I'm like you, complete silence during sex is naughty. It's like putting a baby to sleep. Vicki
I am a man who is quiet in sex. I don't moan, I don't shout. However, I have a lot of fun. I fill the sex itself with kisses on my partner's lips and body and I don't even have time to groan (not that I want to). There are just different people.
I've always been with quiet men and I only like them! Frequent breathing and a quiet moan in the sublime moment, that's it! I don't need more to know that he is good with me and in me! While I was definitely moaning, I wanted to shout, but not always! Everyone is individual, let's accept the person next to us as he is!
Better quiet than roaring like a wild boar and snoring like a hippopotamus ...