Hello people. I want advice. My friend rarely smokes weed and generally rarely takes amphetamines, but lately he's starting to do so more and more often. When he takes it, he becomes a radically different person. He becomes much more sensitive and becomes terribly rude to me. When he was on amphetamines and arguing, he insulted my mother and all sorts of other insults. When he is on amphetamines and I want to stay with them, he chases me. He wants to be alone, he stays up all night. He had also written to a girl and they saw each other (I rummaged in his phone) and after their meeting they obviously wrote each other things and their chat was deleted and even she did not answer when he wrote something to him. If something happened then is he sorry Lately, I often ask myself whether to dump him ... friends say that we have no future together and that this man was terrible. He has a big ego and has never apologized after a scandal. And I forgot to add
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Addicts drag not only themselves but also their loved ones to the bottom. If you have any instinct for self-preservation, run away!
Run! It will be worse.
Are you sure he loves you? Think about the good and bad things he has done and think for yourself if you have a future. At 22, it's like a 16-year-old pickle, well, do you want that kind of person for your kids? Taka de, drug addict, egoist, ligle, pickle, pishleme .. DefendSofia
It's a complicated topic. In general, drugs change the way you perceive happiness from a biological point of view. Once you start, the things that generally make you happy (people, moments, things you love) do not bring you the same happiness. But drugs are a personal choice, you can't influence him with words if he doesn't decide he wants to stop them. It is very important to know that it is not your fault that he is taking drugs. Do not become a victim and do not justify it. Pray for him. And when you know that he took drugs on the day, do not go out with him, you do not need to obey bad treatment. If you want to break up with him, you are also right.
Едно нещо ще ти кажа, хората не се променят. Не можеш да ги моделираш така, както на теб ти се иска. Нито можеш да ги накараш да те обичат и уважават. Те са такива, каквито са. Или ги харесваш такива, каквито са, или се махаш от тях.
Drop it right away !! I was in the same situation. The second year of the relationship he would go to Sofia to study ... But you know how it is there .. The student town is full of drug addicts .. Before he left he had smoked only weed, and only once every few months .. And as he went there was a period to smoke several times a day and he fucked me, he didn't care at all .. Then he got a little better, but then he started amphetamines. As if only today, only this time, I promise that there will be no more .... Well, THERE WAS !! . I was even very angry that we had gathered with his company and I left the room for 10 minutes and when I came back there were amphetamines on my nose and on top of that he shouted I don't know what it is ... He made me stupid .. And then quo ... I understand that he started selling .. I endured 1-2 days and tried to explain the consequences to him, he did not. I finally broke up with him. I'm currently with a man who hates drugs.
In my opinion, the fact that a person takes drugs should not be discarded, because it means that there is a problem deep inside him. He needs help. Talk to him first, because if you break him he will feel much worse and will do something stupid. My personal opinion is that it should reduce amphetamines ... anything in large quantities is harmful. But it's still not good for you. Choose a time when he is sober and talk to him. You can threaten him that you can't stand this thing anymore and that if he wants to stay with him he has to control himself and reduce them. If he really loves you, he will get in your way.
Change it. It will not work.
If he didn't take drugs, you wouldn't have met him at all ... he would be boring and uninteresting and there would be no thrill for you. ;)