I found the almost perfect man for me, after so many lies, infidelities and nightmarish relationships with men who disrespected me for nothing. He is kind, gentle, considerate, foresighted, smart, with his own home, which he soon made major repairs. He has a good job, he earns about BGN 1,000, which I think is great for our small town, he also has a nice car, he loves children, he cooks great, he plays football ... maybe the only drawback is his appearance. At first I pulled away, but then I started to realize how great a person he is, and that I can really trust him for everything, and I started to like him, at some point his short stature, big nose, glasses and crooked teeth stopped impressing me. . He himself often jokes with his appearance. We recently watched Ratatouille with him :-) and he said he looked like a rat under a hat cooking. I'm ashamed to admit it anywhere, but I've been thinking for a while that if I have children from this man, they won't be very beautiful either. Maybe I don't deserve the person next to me, because I obviously don't fully appreciate him, given the thoughts that creep in and I feel guilty about it. I don't know how to shake off the nonsense in my head, but I still imagine the daughter or the son with the big snub nose and I get depressed. I'm a complete idiot ..
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Hmmm yes, nose plastic surgery takes less than an hour nowadays. What do you think so much. Plus, the odds are 50 to 50 on your or his nose.
If you are beautiful, there is a good chance that children will look like you. Will you leave the perfect man just because of his appearance. What do you prefer - children models and evil as vipers or normal people with a heart of gold? The choice is yours!
Your last sentence summarizes things and I personally have nothing more to say. I'm just sorry that your husband doesn't know what (your self-determination here) is in the house, that he even posted a topic. Which is quite eloquent. If I were him, I would calmly ask you to leave my house and look for the handsome man to make you beautiful children.
It will be interesting to know how he sees you ....
Run after a handsome man and grab him. You can't think of anything to do.
He does not deserve you! Tear it up and find someone beautiful! He had earned some euros 1,000. and what? This is no excuse to doom your children to a miserable and ugly life.
Well, catch a handsome man to crush you, to make your children beautiful, but to dump you for someone even more beautiful! You're so limited ... I'm sure he doesn't deserve you!
Sometimes ugly parents give birth to beautiful children and vice versa. I have seen examples of both. And the child can take more than your features. And my husband is not very handsome, but I, like you, have appreciated other things in him and I do not worry about what our children will look like one day. About 10 years ago, I looked at my appearance and chose boyfriends according to my appearance criteria, who later turned out to be complete idiots who could not be relied on. After a while I started looking for other qualities in men and that's how I met my husband. In my opinion, you should not miss a valuable, good and stable man because of such fears. Even if your children are not the most beautiful in the world, you will not love them less.
I know ugly parents with beautiful children, as well as many beautiful parents (both), but with ugly children. They are not things that can be predicted. Glad you found the right person, that you understand each other and you are happy. Everything will be fine.
Haha. I was also compared to a mouse at the beginning of high school - with glasses, hunchbacked, hairy. What happened 2 years later - I put on lenses, started playing sports and supporting myself, and hop suddenly the girls started offering themselves to me.
"Maybe I don't deserve the man next to me" "I'm a complete idiot" We came to our word. He's ugly, you idiot. There is nothing wrong, a new breed of orcs will lay.
I did not know that one could accurately predict the appearance of one's unborn children. This is a gene, it is not known what and from whom the child will take. The combination of the features of the mother and the father can be any, the child can have beautiful parents, but the combination of their features should be such that it does not have a symmetrical face. There are dominant genes, for example brown eyes are such a gene. Yes, but my friend was born with his father's blue eyes, even more saturated, like his grandfather's. I, on the other hand, am such a mixture of my mother and father that I look completely like myself and no one can judge who I have thrown myself at more. Accept it, you can't predict the appearance of your children. There are many probabilities, you can calculate them if you have the necessary knowledge, but nowhere in the accounts you will not have 100%.
If you love him, don't leave him because he's ugly. There is another good feature. Children take the best features from their parents. It is important to be able to look after you and be a stable man you can count on. There is no use of a poor handsome man. A man must be able to look after his family. When a child is born, a woman usually cannot work for a long time and if you do not have money, your heart will break as you cannot give him anything. For your future child, you will always be the most beautiful in the world.
Come on, that troll with the fictional themes, stop!
You don't love him. When you love, you sometimes see him as ugly, even if in fact he is. What is this connection since there is no physical attraction that even repulses you? And by the way, you don't have to blame yourself for not liking his appearance. I was rather bothered by these things that you listed: I took 1000 BGN, I had a car, I'm sorry, but they are a bit funny to me. Are these your criteria for the person next to you? But maybe his criteria are just to find a wife so that he is not alone and give birth to children, so that he does not care much how you see him, I know.
In fact, whether your children will be beautiful or not depends on many factors. It also depends on you and his parents, etc., and subsequently depends on the child (sports or not).
A fictional theme by an ugly virgin man.
Ugliness is the most disgusting vice on Earth! Get rid of this ugly watermelon rat-like scarecrow and look for children with a nice looking man. The majority of Bulgarian women are quite ugly, not as ugly as Turks and Gypsies, but compared to even Romanians they are uglier, but if you are not ugly in no way make the fatal mistake of giving birth to ugly offspring from such an ugly ugly, for some big salary ...
See what his sister / brother or parents look like. In children, the genes of uncles / aunts, grandparents are more pronounced. But one day there will be more danger for your grandchildren. There is something else called diet and personal charm - children may be prone to gaining weight, but with proper diet and upbringing, as well as sports, to their normal. The nose, as you were told, is easy to fix. I don't think it's fatal. My cousins, two sisters - one slender, with blue eyes, blond hair, took a man - handsome and he was white, light-eyed, but their children have impersonal features and brown eyes. The other, a darker, less attractive one, met a similar man. The children have bright eyes and both are white, they are just beautiful. It's like a sister gave birth to them. So genetics is a strange thing, but the truth is, that it is up to the person to change his appearance for the better with a proper diet, clothes, hairstyle. As long as he wants to.
Hey, right? You are not an idiot. You are a decline. Tell me now, what do you give in relation to this man? Did we find out that you don't cook, you don't make money, you don't have a share in the apartment? Maybe you think you're beautiful (which is a pretty stretchy concept). You know, I'm ugly too, but unlike your friend, I have the dignity of not getting involved with such primitive primates as you, who have nothing but expectations of the person next to them. you are. It's best to whine yourself, at least not to hurt the man, please!
You're not an idiot. , and realistic. Do not condemn your children to suffering, they will be ridiculed at school and beyond. And a salary of 1000 levs, even in the small town, is not enough to support children and families. If there are no ambitions, nothing good awaits you. Run with 300.
Up to 25 I consider it to leave my children in an environment in which they will make someone suffer, just because of their appearance, a far worse punishment than not being beautiful ...
He is ugly, his wife is dumb, crazy, rude, and a peasant. That's right, children will suffer - they really hit zero in the genetic lottery. You better deal with someone of your caliber, a brazier.