Hello, I write my problems here very often and I see that it is useful. So it's not exactly my problem, but I feel obligated to share it with you and hear your opinions. I'm 13 years old, I have girlfriends, maybe not many, but there are. So one of my friends lives in a fictional world. She was caught on facebook, more precisely on the fake profiles there. She keeps making fake profiles and chatting with strangers, making +50 likes on photos and statuses. I also hinted not to deal with these fake profiles, but to enter hers. She just forgets herself with this facebook, she forgets us (her friends). When we were little, there were no such Facebooks and similar nonsense. I want us to be like we used to write and talk, not for this friend to talk about her fake profiles, how many likes there are in the photo and the like. I don't know how to get her out of this fictional world. I have a feeling she doesn't have a life of her own. Please give me advice on how to get her out of there and stop dealing with fake profiles.
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Don't worry, you're still young. Very soon she will get bored and start dealing with real things.
You can report her profiles as fake if you really care about what she does.
Now the problem is only expressed in these fake profiles, but the root is different. Find out why he does it and what he aims for. I would assume that such behavior would have an insecure person with a narrow social circle, who accordingly realizes his fantasies through these profiles. Or a person who has no special power over his life and when they injure systematically (at home, at school - physically or mentally) and tries to regain power and "revenge" in this way. In any case, these profiles are just the face of the problem - to remove it, you need to dig deeper. Find out what's wrong and help her fix it.
make yourself a fake profile of a man and write something there you can think of to startle and stop dealing :)
The plan I will share with you is secure and flawless. I think this girl should spend some time without the internet! Go to them and ask her to bring you some juice, food to get her out of the room. Then cut or disconnect the internet cable, but it should still be invisible! If it can't be seen, it will take them a long time to find the damage! Then this girl will realize!
And cut the cable for the net? To introduce myself to a man with a fake profile ?? What's wrong with you people, the girl has no problem. Just enjoying the internet. It is normal at this age for everyone to experience their periods. Some become metalheads for a while, others refuse to study, and your girlfriend is addicted to a site. It will pass in time, nothing. The girl has no problem, you have, dear author. You're selfish because you want to have fun going out with her and having fun as before, but you don't think about what your girlfriend wants. Let her be who she wants to be and do what she enjoys, even though they're fake profiles in facebook.