Hello, I don't know if if I hadn't read some of the topics here I would have started writing, but I see that the forum calls things by their real names and that makes me very happy :) I have a case that I think is partly clarified by the title of the topic. My friend (who we have been together for about a year and a half) really wants to do 3ka with another man, the so-called "sandwich". I will not go into details about how long we talked about it with him, how many things I read and how I wander between "for" and "against". The problem is that I can't decide (and at the same time I'm interested), over time the topic disappears between us, but then I find that he not only thinks about it but also has created a profile in a sex dating site (bg-sex or something like that) and is looking for mostly men (explaining that he is engaged, hetero and thinks about 3ka with his girlfriend). Where out of anger, where out of fear (that he will cheat on me at some point), where out of weakness - I showed him that I'm not ok with this site, we talked (in general, our relationship is quite strained at the moment). I would like to ask mostly women (of course, a male opinion is welcome :)) who have done it or practice it with their partners - how is it, how do you fight with yourself a stranger or one to whom you have no attraction, to you touches; how do you see things at all? Thank you very much in advance for your help. Greetings S., 30 years old. I would like to ask mostly women (of course, a male opinion is welcome :)) who have done it or practice it with their partners - how is it, how do you fight with yourself a stranger or one to whom you have no attraction, to you touches; how do you see things at all? Thank you very much in advance for your help. Greetings S., 30 years old. I would like to ask mostly women (of course, a male opinion is welcome :)) who have done it or practice it with their partners - how is it, how do you fight with yourself a stranger or one to whom you have no attraction, to you touches; how do you see things at all? Thank you very much in advance for your help. Greetings S., 30 years old.
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This is disgusting!
I can tell you that if you want to do it too. The pleasure is indescribable. I am a man of 34 and my partner is 29 and is a great babe. As long as you're not just jealous. That if it's better, don't do it. Only if you are liberated and trust yourself otherwise you will not do it will harm you. The partners, ie the third one, choose it carefully so that it does not become a blunder. We also tried on this dating site, but apart from Lada and perverts and chikidzhii who, apart from showing themselves naked, they did not have the courage to do anything. Try a man you like and you know he's capable of that kind of sex. Otherwise, I personally like my partner, even if he is with the other only without a sandwich, it's also cool. I also trust him and I know that after he lets him go he will come to me again later. The sandwich is just incredibly cool, performs repeatedly straight is great for her this experience. Do it and then you will be satisfied and both believe me.
If you don't want to, it won't happen. But I guess you want to. Many women have told me that this is their fantasy, but few have come to fruition. From the first time it is almost certain that it will not happen, but it is important to be sure that you want it. Then he let the man choose someone. It is not appropriate to be a friend because complications will arise. But you also have to approve it. Then you try to enjoy the max. The double pleasure is double. I have participated in three of them. I had a mistress who was eager to try and twice it turned out very well. She was able to enjoy the situation. But if you can't relax with a stranger, it will be a little difficult. Women find it difficult to separate sex from feelings and this is a problem. If you show it you can block it. But I recommend you relax and have fun. Make the most of the situation. Fight your resistance first. Then you will only see what fun is for two. Success Ash 53
I don't think he loves you when he wants something like that.
My wife and I recently tried a sandwich with a man .... he was in the way and I in the ass ... I finished very quickly, obviously the excitement that there are 2 members in it affected me a lot ... For some women it's a great experience - to feel 2 in them at the same time. In porn movies, there may no longer be a scene without 2 men in 1 woman ... I am adamant that the woman wants to ... and relax because not all women feel pleasure when they are fucked in the pussy and ass. Just more lubricant and excitement and you'll be ready. Good luck
Once your relationship is strained don't do it. Then he'll take you out, I don't know what he's up to, and you'll break up.
Fuck your mother. I would never share the woman I love with another. Close for this joker.
This pervert dumped him. If anyone else touches my girlfriend, I'll strangle him with the sheet. When you love someone, you don't share them with others. Think about it. Why do decent chicks always fall into such selfish types? Don't let yourself become a toy of dissatisfied perverted complexes.
Well, that's clear. Your friend is bi ... and he doesn't dare tell you straight.
He can't love you and want something like that from you. M 25
What your friend wants is just NOT normal. He either doesn't love you or I don't know. If you have dignity, don't do it for God. My advice is to either dump him or somehow convince him that he doesn't want to have a threesome. If he loves you, he won't want another man to have sex with you at all. If you have dignity, if you respect yourself, if you are smart - you will not let him. Ranjan
Can anyone in a serious relationship explain to me what love is? I do not accept it as normal. I have had a serious relationship for almost 3 years and by no means do I see myself in this situation. Before I knew him, I had done something like this, but with people I had no feelings for, we were just friends who had fun with each other and there was never so much talk about love. When I met my current boyfriend, I knew he was the man I wanted and I didn't even look at other men in any way. I'm 90 percent sure you don't want that, and you don't have to do it to please him. Once your relationship is strained now it will get worse. This man doesn't love you from experience I tell you. A person he loves does not do that.
Monogamy is unnatural to mammals and a relatively new phenomenon that emerged in the Victorian era. If you feel comfortable, do not lie to your partner and do not hurt him, there is no reason not to indulge in such pleasures. Discretion is advised so that you do not fall into unnecessary social conflicts. The above has already recommended careful selection of third parties. It is mandatory to use a condom, at least for the third. Set clear rules at the beginning. Eg. : Can he kiss you, where is he allowed to penetrate, etc. In no case do not become emotionally attached to the third. He is in bed for your carnal pleasure. Number 6, would you share, why do you think so? Number 10, would you explain this statement: "When you love someone, you don't share it with others."? If you love someone, wouldn't you do EVERYTHING, to give him pleasure? If the answer is no, you need to think about how far the concept of "love" extends to you. Number 12, the only thing clear in your comment is that you are not aware at all. Number 13, ask yourself the question I asked number 10. Ranjan, define "normal" for me. Grandpa Torbalan
Everything with your friend is normal. Congested and petrified complexes with the thinking inherent in the 1500s as much as you want. Just don't listen to them :) I tried with two and it was great. My husband doesn't like it and I don't practice it anymore because of him. If one day he offers it to me, I will gladly agree. It's just that he is one of the men with insufficient numbers - respectively low self-esteem, jealousy and big complexes, but I love him and comply with him :) Men with more experience and self-confidence are drawn to these things because they know how much they cost and do not worry to experiment. They just know that they are real men who no longer need to measure their instruments with others and compete over who is the bigger man. Rejoice that yours is one of them! My advice is if this would excite you to give it a try. It is foolish not to enjoy your life just because of prejudice. See, if the event itself doesn't look good to you and you don't think it would give you pleasure, then don't do it. Sex is good only when all the participants like it. F29
some weird guy gives downsides to normal comments, but I think if he loves you he won't share you. I am a 24 year old man with a 3 year relationship. This is for people with MASSIVE experience, as you can see, those who encourage you are 30/40/50 years old and have probably been married for at least 20 years. Another insignificant fact - because I have HPV and there is no cure for it, just use Google and see what damage it can cause in women. I'm telling you because the guys will have fun, but don't take it away in the end. If you have dirt, that's another thing. It's exciting when you think about it, but it's one thing in your thoughts, another in reality. Everyone is very different, and will give you different advice.
Yes, if you want to be a sex toy, you can satisfy someone's sexual fantasies. Apparently you gave him a reason, you were too good with him, or maybe you were just unreasonable enough to be his boyfriend.
From the Author of the topic to number 2, I am so jealous of him that he does not do something behind my back, and when I say no to something to listen to and possibly look for other options. I can't say that jealousy is completely absent in our relationship, but it is more at the level of emotions and feelings (such as not enjoying communicating with the ex sometimes, and I get angry by mentioning with admiration my ex, who definitely she is not at my level, but she did not have any barriers in sex). I know it's all a double-edged sword, especially with someone you're building a serious relationship with and planning a marriage and kids, but I think about it often now (especially considering we plan to try for a kid soon, it's dumb yes I have not made a living before :)). And yet, where does my insecurity come from?
Act boldly! And my friend and I are going to give it a try! Don't listen to what they tell you, don't do it, this is your life, if you like it, try it, there's nothing wrong with that. I give an example, if you were with two women, you would not think it was perverted .... I'm tired of reading such prejudices ....
Hello. I will share too ... The finest thing in this world (and in the other) is consciousness. It is the most important thing. The various kinds of activities in the material world influence it, which is carried out by the mind and the senses. The fine-tuning of consciousness becomes extremely difficult and very long, and human life is destined for just that. There are other dimensions of existence - higher and lower for the same consciousness and a person is given a choice - to elevate his consciousness or to lower it. When choosing activities that contradict the spiritual norms and laws, suffering automatically follows, because suffering is a corrector for a person to give up this path - degradation. When a person degrades, he causes degradation for his heirs as well. Any activity performed in contradiction with the spiritual instructions is a lowering of the mind to the level of the corresponding lower energy and thus the mind makes a bridge to the respective levels of vibration in these lower levels. That is, you hook up like a rope with a board for a board, and then even if you stop the given activity, you have to endure the consequences of the same, because you are no longer able to unhook this hook. This is called destiny. Sexual energy is black energy. But within marriage it has no fateful / black / consequences, because it is under the protection of spiritual laws. Outside of marriage, sexual energy can ruin you not only in this life, but in other dimensions of a person's consciousness. Sexual energy, which is purely material and has nothing to do with pure love, has the ability to create an impression and a sense of sweetness, which is the biggest trap. The topic is many. big ... Porn is extremely influenced by this black energy and it ruins a person's future. The mind must beware of it, because it degrades intelligence ... and so on.
Act boldly ... don't listen to the traffic jams on this site where their wife is like a thing ... it's a great pleasure for the woman- 1 life we live and it's short- enjoy it with all your might and anyway -0 I'm aiming without drugs and the like and with things that are fun and safe ... make a sandwich .. you may like it a lot and want it again and again and again .... I've tried and I was very much - I'm a man .. but also the woman was not bad to feel 2 members in her
I could not say whether this was normal or abnormal. The fact is, however, that it's abnormal for him to insist and make you do something you obviously don't want to do. The question here for me is not whether he wants you to have sex with another man or to go to Greece for example. The point is that he should respect your opinion, comply with it and make sure that he and you enjoy it. Now he just wants to impose himself without thinking about what you think, how you feel, how you perceive him, whether you will enjoy being with two men. There must be some tolerance - it is not bad to remind you for a while and ask if you have not changed your mind, but to get angry and your relationship is strained because of this is not normal. And if he can't swallow the fact that you're not saying 3, maybe you don't fit. He needs someone more relaxed, and you need someone to listen to what you tell him and care about that thing. It is true that sex is important, but if I have to compare a 3 with a man or a woman and the respect and feelings of my partner, I would choose the latter. Ana
What does it mean "it's stupid that I haven't made a living before :))", why don't you try to get drunk, or have sex with an animal, or ... do I know what else ?? !! ?? The difference is not life, is it? Woe to us who have not made a living!
Of course, there is nothing wrong. Call someone else to make it a pocket, and you will experience the bad word after hearing it a thousand times.
Number 22, except that I didn't understand anything from all this writing, I have nothing else to say. To number 16 If you love someone, wouldn't you do EVERYTHING to give them pleasure? If the answer is no, you need to think about how far the concept of "love" extends to you. -I do not agree- the author's husband next time may want not 3, but to ask Gangbang (for those who do not know what it is -sex between a woman and many men more than 2 -5-6- 10, that she can do more) and she still has to agree because she loves him and wants to give him pleasure, right, and will this still be love? Can she ask for some sadomasochism and does she still agree in the name of love? Would you be so kind as to explain to me what the concept of love is? The author (especially considering that we plan to try for a child soon, it's stupid that I haven't made a living before. This make-up you mention is not normal for me. It is normal to want to live, but for me it is not normal with the father of your children. People do such things before talking about children at all, much less about love. They do things with people they're sure they won't start a family with. Apparently you are one of the women who do not have enough numbers and experience with men and you are wondering now what it will be. I would say that I have made a living, but notice only when I got tired of doing some strange things, only then I embarked on a serious relationship, in connection with love and future. I had enough numbers and enough experiences to finally decide to focus on someone. And your job is a bit the other way around. I think things will change a lot if you try something like this, but only time can tell whether for better or for worse. I tell you again, I wouldn't try, have you thought about what you will teach your children? Anyway, I'm not trying to get you to influence your decision, but I'm telling you I wouldn't. I would do such a thing, if I didn't have a husband, to be completely free and not have any feelings for anyone, but just sex, for pleasure. Not in a serious relationship. And yet, where does my insecurity come from? Well, because you love him and you know it won't be the same later. If you didn't love him, you wouldn't even think about it, you wouldn't care about it later and you've already done 3. to be completely free and not have any feelings for anyone, but just sex, for pleasure. Not in a serious relationship. And yet, where does my insecurity come from? Well, because you love him and you know it won't be the same later. If you didn't love him, you wouldn't even think about it, you wouldn't care about it later and you've already done 3. to be completely free and not have any feelings for anyone, but just sex, for pleasure. Not in a serious relationship. And yet, where does my insecurity come from? Well, because you love him and you know it won't be the same later. If you didn't love him, you wouldn't even think about it, you wouldn't care about it later and you've already done 3.
Number 17, you mean in 1500 people didn't do threes ??? Number 21, not all people with a sexual fantasy other than yours have prejudices. And the others who resent you from the "traffic jams" ... Do you even realize what you are saying. How can you call a congested person who doesn't like threesomes? For example, number 233, how did you determine who is overweight from just one comment? To say that someone is a traffic jam, you have to know them well.
Obviously, the thought of the sandwich is unpleasant to you, so be firm and refuse it.
Number 28, please look carefully at what I wrote: DT: If you feel comfortable, do not lie to your partner and do not hurt him, there is no reason not to indulge in such pleasures. Now look at what the author wrote: Author: that's why I wander between "for" and "against". The problem is that I can't decide (and at the same time I'm interested. If one partner definitely doesn't want something, of course it doesn't force itself on him. Or if the desire is irresistible, an alternative and compromise are sought, and if it's so important, just If the author doesn't want gangbang, she won't, but the thought of the threesome isn't unpleasant. The same goes for sadomasochism. I couldn't define the term love in less than a hundred pages, but I can to tell you a very important characteristic of love: giving in. Satisfied? Grandpa Torbalan
Number 33, where did you see that the thought of the author's 3 is not unpleasant for her, I am not at all at lunch, on the contrary, it is evident from the strained relations between them. Let her do it, let her become someone's sex toy and she will feel very proud of herself. If she had felt comfortable with him, she would have done it a long time ago. I hope the author says what she decided?
If the author is still hesitant, let her not hurry ... I have also had a threesome with my wife, not with someone else, and several times and she told me that she feels amazing ... a woman with strong sexuality and enough responsibility! People are very different in their understandings and in sex, there is no universal rule. I admire the frankness of number 17, I do not share that sex takes you away from the spiritual, this is an old dogma from other times! I would be happy to talk to your friend, because I don't think he's asking the right question, there should be no tension between you ...
Woman of 39 We practice it regularly, it's great to be between two men. Of course you have to like it, if you don't have it, communication is not interesting. Keep in mind that most men, especially when it is their first time, do not.
From the Author: I cannot say at this stage what I have decided, as it will not be realistic, given that one day I am "for" and the next I am "against". The truth is that I feel very comfortable with my partner and that we experiment without feeling pressured or used. But at the moment, I have drawn the line here precisely because I do not do things under duress, but for my pleasure; I can't be obedient, silent or play the role of a sex doll (like in prono movies). Somewhere above I read a critique of our future plans for family and children, and of how experiments in bed are done when one does not like. Does a healthy person seriously think that children would have any access to their parents' sex lives? !! Are there normal parents, who calmly discuss or display to their generation what they do under the covers? !! There was a joke at the time "Parents are asexual beings" :), a very good wording for those who think that both things (children and sex) can be in one sentence. I am a supporter of love, in which you have no taboo topics, if everything is legal and does not bother anyone. In the end, this is supposed to be the person closest to you. It's only right for a person to be aware of themselves, and I'm not on that topic - that's what stops me. That's why I wanted opinions, words of experience. I am grateful to everyone who shared, even to those who criticize the topic in general. However, I wonder why I did not read a single opinion of a woman who tried and did not like it (it is clear that the men who tried it liked it a lot :)). It will be very useful for me if a lady who has been or is in a similar situation shares her experience and opinion. Greetings
From the Author to number 36: how did you choose the 3rd, in the sense that everything is safe? Did you have doubts the first time you did it?
Well, Aurorke - what are you wondering, I do not understand. You are either for it or you don't like it. I agree with the rest. Otherwise, it may be easier for you to try another woman first. Transfer the ball to your partner's garden and make this counter-offer. As for the threesome with a man - you have to decide. Especially if you're in love, you may not want to let someone else into your body. Women tend to be more monogamous and we don't like to do it just for sex with another man. An intermediate solution would be a threesome with a woman, and I don't know a man who doesn't want that. My husband and I have done it and we are often happy. The important thing is for you to choose the woman and best pay her. With a professional you know that tomorrow is not there and it is in your life. Otherwise, you can probably find enough men on the net, but if you have a drop of doubt - do not.
I don't know what to advise you. I have personally participated in such a thing, but I am a man and I cannot speak on behalf of the woman. My friends invited me, or rather they didn't invite me, but after one dinner, in the end, they just started fucking in front of me. Of course, I will not mention alcohol, I guess it goes without saying. At one point, I started to wonder what I was supposed to do while they were fucking, because it's not exactly like watching porn. In the end, I decided to sit quietly, smoke a cigarette, and drink while scratching my scabies. But at one point the woman turned and asked me if I would join. The man said - come on, there is one free space left, etc. I did not have a problem with the erection, as one of the participants in the discussion suggested. Only in front I was not allowed because the man said, that it was just for him. As for the woman and whether and how much she liked it, I don't know. But judging by the orgasms she started / I emphasize she started / she gets at one point or they have to give her an Oscar for leading female role or just at one point she didn't know where she was. Nothing has changed since then in the evening. Our relationship is as if it never happened. We have not spoken or raised the issue since. They know me as a person who knows how to keep his tongue behind his teeth. Maybe they wanted to try in front of another person or a threesome or who knows. I don't know. If you are afraid to try, you will understand. If not, nothing so bad or scary will happen. Maybe you can decide something else later. Everything is good, but when the time comes. I've noticed that with sex, like most things in life, if you start making plans and organizations, the probability of failure is huge. Especially when it comes to sex, things have to be impulsive to get it.
36, hey baby, give me the coordinates and just include me in the list as soon as that's the case!
If you don't have any reservations, just do it and then ask if it's cool. I am a woman of 27 and I have a man who is just as liberated. I can tell you that you are lucky with your partner and not every man would share you with another. The feeling for both of them is indescribable and do not listen to the village defenders who think that their halves are faithful and will not fuck with another only their presence, which is more shameful and nasty. Better with open cards and bodies than cheating and horns. For me personally, flowing sex is better than breaking up, which is more immoral towards the partner. Don't be selfish and give it back to him with another woman so that you are 1. 1. The result doesn't matter, but the gesture is more than trust combined with incredible pleasure for both of you. Try it and decide for yourself without listening to men's complex opinions that can only stop you from something that you will surely like.
From 22 to 28 I apologize for not being able to explain well ... I will try another language: Sex outside of marriage (normal, not homo marriage), ie with more than one partner (person or etc.), (for Muslims the exception is regulated), contradicts the originally established spiritual norms of behavior, which means that at some point, the one who crosses this limit will "eat the tree". This is because we as humans are allowed to act in a certain range of behaviors. He who transgresses the established limits will suffer the results of what he has done, ie he will suffer. Every action or word, even thought, has an impact in this world, and this impact manifests itself as a backlash, as a good or bad destiny. It is a complete illusion that human life does not obey certain laws. In the spiritual literature, the knowledge given there is categorical. For example, the Vedic literature explains in detail the conception (incarnation) of a living entity and its development in weeks and months. During sex, a living being with such qualities as the parents' consciousness at the same time is invited. (I abstract from "scientific" nonsense based on assumptions and mental speculation about the origin of life and creation). This living being can come from any planetary system (there are generally 3 species - lower, middle and higher). When children are conceived in violation of prescribed rules - generally speaking - moral norms, then here on Earth they give birth to beings from the lower planetary systems. Lower means hellish or demonic. Basically coming to Earth we all take on the "uniform" human body. How this happens is also explained. And that's why it happens, lately more and more often, that you look at a person standing in front of you, and he acts like a freak, and you can't assimilate why that's the case. And when they grow up, they are seen here as in heaven, and therefore "plow" on the heads of others for their own sensory pleasure by any means. Example - headlines in the daily press (or your personal experiences). This is one of the consequences. Another is: degradation of intelligence and consciousness (ie good qualities). However, this degradation is thousands of times less noticeable than the imperceptible movement of the clockwise. Third, exceeding the established tolerances in many cases leads to serious diseases (including chronic, ie incurable). Example - a day trip to hospitals. "Scientists" doctors have no idea about the real cause of the disease, and it is exceeding these permissible limits. When a person is healthy, he lives with the feeling that he is in control of things. But even if you don't want the diseases to come and then you realize that you are completely helpless and can't control anything. Spiritual principles today have been replaced by relativism, a philosophy based on personal perceptions of the world and freedom of action. That is why the situation is so tragic and continues to deteriorate. Our consciousness (our Self) is eternal and never dies, only the body dies. But the Self (the person in the body) can change the field of activities (accept another body) for better or worse (just like when we dream). It is said that the human form of life is very difficult to reach, in which consciousness can be most clearly manifested, that's why it's stupid to score an own goal yourself. Three categories of personalities are described: 1) Accepting knowledge from authority, which he applies in life, 2) Making a mistake, suffering and never repeating it, 3) Making a mistake, suffering and making the same mistake again, suffering again, and the same mistake again. The conclusion of the case: Sex outside of marriage is a mistake that will sooner or later manifest itself as suffering in two ways - personal and public. In public - society is filled with people with bad qualities, walking on the heads of others. Personally, as a child's attitude (for example, when as an adult parent they throw you into a private nursing home, where they can finish you off faster, having previously stolen your money and property). And that's if you skipped Tesla with some deadly disease or "better", severe long-term, incurable, bed pain. Therefore - abstinence! Only with the spouse. And all this is out of ignorance of how this world works and what the human being is. The idea of "trying everything because you live once" comes from ignorance. The elements of Hell and Heaven, ie the planets with heavier and better life, appear to some extent on Earth. Man is given a choice for his actions and through them we program our future. For example, if you insult someone, the result of this will be a negative attitude, which will happen to you whenever you happen to be in contact, and even the result is manifested remotely, from a distance. All the mistakes we make work in a similar way. The elements of Hell and Heaven, ie the planets with heavier and better life, appear to some extent on Earth. Man is given a choice for his actions and through them we program our future. For example, if you insult someone, the result of this will be a negative attitude, which will happen to you whenever you happen to be in contact, and even the result is manifested remotely, from a distance. All the mistakes we make work in a similar way. The elements of Hell and Heaven, ie the planets with heavier and better life, appear to some extent on Earth. Man is given a choice for his actions and through them we program our future. For example, if you insult someone, the result of this will be a negative attitude, which will happen to you whenever you happen to be in contact, and even the result is manifested remotely, from a distance. All the mistakes we make work in a similar way.
However, I wonder why I did not read a single opinion of a woman who tried and did not like it - The author is not like that, nothing is like porn movies in such a situation, the third person is likely to only ruin the job. There is a possibility that one will not succeed or it will end very quickly and still not happen. to be complex, and it is unlikely that both men can do it well - it is possible that one of the two is not good and everything goes wrong. And there is another possibility that you will like the other man more than your husband and again things will go wrong because your relationship with your husband will not be the same. When I tried, but to be honest with one, I liked it more than with the other and more than with both. Otherwise there is a thrill, but if you have doubts do not. I think you will regret it later.
Number 22/43, of course you realize that your conclusions are valid only for people who share your religious views? For all other 99% visitors to spodeli. net - Christians, Muslims, agnostics, etc., what you write is based solely on your bare statements. Grandpa Torbalan
from number 28 to 43 Sex outside of marriage is a mistake that will sooner or later manifest itself as suffering in two planes - personal and social. If you imagine what you are saying, then you think at least 70-80% of people should suffer, because most people have sex before marriage with more than one person. What are the consequences of having sex with someone if you are not married and do not hurt anyone with it. Not to mention how many couples have children and do not have a formal marriage, what do they cause suffering to themselves and others? Please shut up!
I support number 42 and still understand the Author's hesitations. Understand that not every woman can just let another man into her body because of sex. I'm happy that my husband doesn't offer me such a thing because I had to deny him something in bed for the first time. I otherwise agree with number 42 and we often do a threesome, but with a different woman. Sometimes it was good for me, sometimes not so much - it also depends on the situation, on the other woman, on the mood, but I honestly admit - I can't just be with another man. I do not find it immoral if it is as number 42 says with the desire of the partner, but I can not with another man and point. I need feelings and trust to sleep with a man. Otherwise, I share the experience of 44 - it often happened to us that the second woman just bothered us and stood for the interior and decoration. Not everyone has the same temperament and desires in bed. It even happened to me that the woman liked me more and my husband felt superfluous. It even happened to me that we had a story with the other woman and we wanted to go to a coffee shop together. It even happened to us that the story before sex was so cool and then we remembered for a while what we had gathered for. Sometimes fantasy is better than reality. This definitely applies to threesomes. It used to be nice, but that's the exception. in 2/3 of the cases you are disappointed. As for people like number 43 - I do not think they have anything to share on the topic "The conclusion of the case: Sex outside of marriage is a mistake that will sooner or later manifest itself as suffering in two ways - personal and public. "Well, according to your logic, 2/3 of Bulgarians live in error and sin. What world do you live in? Today, 9/10 of couples live without marriage, and most children are born into such families. For example, we lived as a family for 10 years before we got married. Yes, I have your stupid prejudices. 42 said it very well: "Don't listen to the village defenders who think that their halves are faithful and will not fuck with anyone but their presence, which is more shameful and nasty. Better with open cards and bodies than cheating and horns. "Safe from false moralists who cheat on the corners for the world, but in society pretend to be goddesses. 42 said it very well: "Don't listen to the village defenders who think that their halves are faithful and will not fuck with anyone but their presence, which is more shameful and nasty. Better with open cards and bodies than cheating and horns. "Safe from false moralists who cheat on the corners for the world, but in society pretend to be goddesses. 42 said it very well: "Don't listen to the village defenders who think that their halves are faithful and will not fuck with anyone but their presence, which is more shameful and nasty. Better with open cards and bodies than cheating and horns. "Safe from false moralists who cheat on the corners for the world, but in society they pretend to be goddesses.
from number 44 to 47 in 2/3 of the cases you are disappointed - unfortunately it happens. I only disagree with one thing, your husband fucks another woman, but you can't and why? You are very unfair to yourself in this case. If he can, you should too. It's not too bad with another man either, as long as you're lucky and the other man is experienced, it's not like the above situation I've described. Congratulations on trusting your husband so much that you allow him to do the same to another woman. But he must also trust you, and in the end it's all just sex and pleasure. Anyway, from my experience, I can only say that I would not do such things now, and maybe now with this mind, if I could, I would go back a lot. I wasn't so happy with 3 with two men that I wanted to now. And now I love a lot of the person I'm with and I wouldn't want anything between us to be just for sex. Good luck to others with new experiences. I lived when I was 18-19, I'm already 22 and I think in a completely different way and I think I'm ready to live my life with only one man.
to 48/44 You didn't understand something - I have the bus stop. I just can not. Everyone is different. I can't let another man into my body. Even outside, otherwise nice men do not attract me and I feel sick at the very thought of being with someone else. That's what I meant - I understand the Author and I myself would probably either refuse or wander into some dilemmas and finally force myself for something I do not want. As for a threesome with a woman - I have no problem there, because it does not affect my body in any way. This woman can't penetrate me, be with me, and from a purely aesthetic point of view the female body is beautiful and elegant and at least, if nothing else, it can be an ornament for our bedroom, and I have often had time to spend well purely feminine with these women. I am not jealous of them at all, on the contrary. Somehow, after such a meeting, I am convinced once again, that I am number 1 for my husband. Like you, I want to live my life with only one man. I'm jealous of him for other things, not exactly threesome sex. I would rather be jealous of him if I feel that he has feelings for another, and this cannot happen to the women we honestly invite less and less to our bed. It's just frustrating for both of them in the end. It's as if someone is offering you a perfect-looking cake, and when you take a bite you feel that you don't like it, but you have to eat the whole piece. In a threesome with a woman, at least as a woman, you can be passive and withdraw slightly. In a threesome with two men, everything revolves around you and you can't say "well, sorry, but I thought about it and I'm not in the mood now or ... wow, what kind of hair does this guy have or I don't like his scent". not exactly from threesome sex. I would rather be jealous of him if I feel that he has feelings for another, and this cannot happen to the women we honestly invite to our bed less and less. It's just frustrating for both of them in the end. It's as if someone offers you a perfect-looking cake, and when you bite it, you feel that you don't like it, but you have to eat the whole piece. In a threesome with a woman, at least as a woman, you can be passive and withdraw slightly. In a threesome with two men, everything revolves around you and you can't say "well, sorry, but I thought about it and I'm not in the mood now or ... wow, what kind of hair does this guy have or I don't like his scent". not exactly from threesome sex. I would rather be jealous of him if I feel that he has feelings for another, and this cannot happen to the women we honestly invite to our bed less and less. It's just frustrating for both of them in the end. It's as if someone offers you a perfect-looking cake, and when you bite it, you feel that you don't like it, but you have to eat the whole piece. In a threesome with a woman, at least as a woman, you can be passive and withdraw slightly. In a threesome with two men, everything revolves around you and you can't say "well, sorry, but I thought about it and I'm not in the mood now or ... wow, what kind of hair does this guy have or I don't like his scent." It's as if someone offers you a perfect-looking cake, and when you bite it, you feel that you don't like it, but you have to eat the whole piece. In a threesome with a woman, at least as a woman, you can be passive and withdraw slightly. In a threesome with two men, everything revolves around you and you can't say "well, sorry, but I thought about it and I'm not in the mood now or ... wow, what kind of hair does this guy have or I don't like his scent." It's as if someone is offering you a perfect-looking cake, and when you take a bite you feel that you don't like it, but you have to eat the whole piece. In a threesome with a woman, at least as a woman, you can be passive and withdraw slightly. In a threesome with two men, everything revolves around you and you can't say "well, sorry, but I thought about it and I'm not in the mood now or ... wow, what kind of hair does this guy have or I don't like his scent."
From 36 to the author Of course I had doubts the first time, but I was curious. My first time was in a large group. And how I choose people, we have not only men, but women and couples. It's different every time. Well, sometimes I've had shoots. :))). For moralists here, I don't know how many men and women I've had sex with. They are a lot. This does not make me unhappy or spiritually burdened. On the contrary, I am rarely a happy person. Sex is a great force. It's all sex. If people had more sex, the world would be better.
49. to 48/44, I understand you completely, you can very rarely find a third person with whom to have a cool time, it's a pity that we can't contact each other in person to have fun.
Number 50, even if everything is sex, you exaggerate a bit.
From (22/43) to 46 I have given the answers, and for example you can read the post "Stupid act". Life is able to give you not millions, but billions of teslas, which your imagination cannot create. I joined the topic only to share that there is a great danger of some of our actions. When it comes to sex, you can hardly surprise me with something I don't know. The idea is actually the other point of view - the higher one, and it is more difficult to achieve. When a pig has sex, it feels the same pleasure as us. The idea is that there is a higher category of enjoyment to which our spiritual being belongs. Spiritual human nature is like a delicate flower and requires a lot of effort and care to grow. Wrong material activities destroy this flower. Up to 45. What I have said is not religion, but science (knowledge). In the spiritual books, knowledge is given within our capacity for understanding and beyond our capabilities. The rational person checks whether the available knowledge is true and if so, begins to develop his spiritual vision in order to reach the unattainable knowledge of the mind and senses at the moment. When someone wants to get married, he always finds an excuse for it. The only thing I share is that if you make a mistake, you will suffer, and if you look around you will notice it. The fact is that the generation that has come in the last 25 years has shown disgusting qualities, and no leader or scholar can say why, because they are not interested in knowing the spirit. to reach the knowledge that is unattainable by the mind and the senses at the moment. When someone wants to get married, he always finds an excuse for it. The only thing I share is that if you make a mistake, you will suffer, and if you look around you will notice it. The fact is that the generation that has come in the last 25 years has shown disgusting qualities, and no leader or scholar can say why, because they are not interested in knowing the spirit. to reach the knowledge that is unattainable by the mind and the senses at the moment. When someone wants to get married, he always finds an excuse for it. The only thing I share is that if you make a mistake, you will suffer, and if you look around you will notice it. The fact is that the generation that has come in the last 25 years has shown disgusting qualities, and no leader or scholar can say why, because they are not interested in knowing the spirit.
Number 53, your answer, raises two main questions:
1. What is this "science" called and in which schools is it studied? (Because the word "science" has a definition)
2. Which spiritual books are you talking about, because I have knowledge of different spiritual texts, of different religions. They contradict each other not only, but often with themselves. My question is, should I follow the spiritual guidance of the Aztecs or is it better to trust Snora Edda? And in this context, how is the truth checked, according to your ... heh "science"?
Number 53: The fact is that the generation that has come in the last 25 years has shown disgusting qualities, and no leader or scholar can say why, because they are not interested in the knowledge of the spirit. DT: The fact is that the generation of the last 25 years is doing the same banalities, which generations have done for the last 100,000 years. The only difference is in the scale, but it is easily explained by the proportion of the population.
Number 53, you only talk general stories, if you want to be taken seriously, use facts, cite recognized sources, etc. Grandpa Torbalan
Act. It will make you as happy as possible. M36
From (22/43/53) to 54 Tell you what, I didn't bother to look at someone's speculation about the definition of "science". Science means "knowledge" - that is, I know, not guess. For example, the presence of gravity has been detected and this is a finding. But where this energy comes from, who is the source - is unknown. So finding gravity is not a science. Or some philosophy sucked out of mental speculation with the claim and hope that it will become universal for all mankind. But all such are being refuted by time. Etc. The discovery of the properties and laws of matter is a finding. Science means knowledge of the source and cause of things. Spiritual authoritative books contain science because they give knowledge of the source and cause. An authoritative spiritual book is one that which contains universal, eternal principles for all people and gives knowledge of the spirit. Thus, such a book corresponds to the corresponding type of consciousness and intelligence (ability to judge). For example, such books tell you "don't steal". And you can check if this is a good instruction - you go, break the glass of a shop window, take the goods displayed on it and as a result you will know if the instruction is true or someone is bothering you. This is science, because the result is always the same for everyone. That is, these principles are eternal. If one wants to trust the Aztecs, the Comanches, or whomever he wants, it is a matter of his mind, judgment, and intelligence. If there are no authoritative principles, suffering automatically follows - you are given the opportunity to choose for yourself. There are two types of vibrations in this world - favorable and unfavorable (for consciousness). Authoritative written spiritual instructions are a favorable materialized vibration. If, for example, someone is a fan and listens to underground music (metal, heavy, trance, etc.) after the "fun on Earth" is over, he goes to a place with a similar kind of vibration. Science means, for example, understanding what is the cause of your material body. Science means how to solve the problem of suffering and death. And there is nowhere else to learn it, except from an authoritative source who says that the source of this is your consciousness. And your consciousness is influenced by your actions. How this happens is also said there. As if your mother said to you, "This is your father," this is science, she has the knowledge. You yourself are not able to understand who your father is if they do not tell you. Authoritative spiritual books are the Qur'an, the Old Testament, the New Testament, Buddhism, the Bagavat Gita, Srimad Bagavatam and others. Spiritually, there is no contradiction in these books. There is a difference in material plan determined by place, time, and circumstances. To the extent that one sees a difference or contradiction, it is due to the initial stage of understanding the science of the spirit.