Hello friends, I am writing to you here to pour out my grief and see the difference. opinions my story is the following we are with her for almost a year as she follows in England we see each other vacations now all summer we are together she is a very smart girl educated and ambitious, educated everything is ok but before she was addicted to grass she said she stopped while is in England does not smoke but when he comes he starts again ... I am a 22 year old boy I have been training actively for 7 years fitness and I am against these things I smoke very rarely 2-3 times a year and it starts to drive me very often to smoke ... how to make her stop I love her maybe the problem is in me I'm too serious and I can't relax ???
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The problem is not in you, but in her - she is obviously still addicted. And it definitely affects you badly, since it insists that you smoke too. In your place, I would talk to her more seriously. It also depends on how serious your attitude towards her is. I personally would not tolerate such a person, but it is a matter of perspective.
Abe, there is nothing reprehensible about smoking weed. It's really bad if she can't take the measure herself! You know - everything has to be in moderation. Because for a moment it helps, and from then on it starts to interfere. The dose makes the drug poison and vice versa ... If you can't understand this issue, maybe it's better to separate - neither you will change it, nor it will change you ... You just have to judge very well - whether you want to go the same way at the cost of compromises on both sides, or to separate and everyone to look for their own kind ... I wish you success to both - as a couple, or separately.
Stand up for yourself and don't smoke for her sake, but really talk very seriously, because at some point if she sinks, she will never be able to save herself, and it hurts the most to watch your loved one fall to your eyes. If she loves you too, at least for you she would try not to smoke and give up weed.
If you do not want to smoke - do not. As for the girl - if you don't like how she behaves under the influence of the herb - and say that you just don't like her when she's drunk. If you like it anyway, I don't see what the problem is - let her smoke, she'll get bored one day
My friend of 2 months also smoked more before, but now very rarely. The other day I caught him arranging the evening with friends in the chat and I was angry because I thought he had stopped ... I didn't like it and I told him he was a little upset, but he immediately refused everyone and said not to look for him anymore for such things. He would do anything for me, I told him that I might even be uncomfortable, I just want to know, but he said he was giving up. :) Your love should be more important to her if you tell her you don't like her.
It is very difficult to change it, there is almost no chance. Once it has started, it is unlikely to stop. She has to go to the drug commune and be treated, but if you tell her she will say she is not a drug addict and you will be more angry. You claim that when he is in England and does not smoke, just to ask you, were you there to see? I think he does it there too, even more regularly. I want to tell you that I have a hell of a lot of such acquaintances and the grass for them is the least. My thought is that she will smoke now, but the day will come when the effect will not be the same, it will be weak and insignificant, she will want something stronger, then she starts snoring, then swallowing pills and in the final phase it is the stinging, so enjoy it while it is smoking, if it starts snoring, then it is there, it becomes a wreck.
I agree with 6
Up to number 6 - the effect of smoking weed does not weaken over time, unlike other drugs. Just because she smokes weed doesn't mean that over time the effect will weaken and she will switch to a heavier drug. And he doesn't have to go to the drug commune. It is different for each person. Based on what I've written, she doesn't seem addicted to me. I personally know people like her who smoke weed relatively often, but they can stop it whenever they want. They just have a good time that way. If she doesn't smoke in England, I think that makes her part of that type of people. Maybe while she's in England she's under pressure and now she wants to relax and have fun, if in time she will follow again.