Hello, my girlfriend and I have been together for five years. We had both good and bad moments. Four months ago, I was constantly annoyed and one day I decided to sit down and talk. She cried and told me she had feelings for someone else. Of course I was very sick. I asked her if this was the end and she said I don't know. I asked her what she wanted. I knew it was a temporary hobby and would pass. I also said that I would not leave her and we would go through this together. Everything passed and she became very happy and even hated the man she had fallen in love with. Until a week ago. She wanted us to go to Pamporovo with their parents and I told her we would go. Unfortunately, I was not fired and I told her to go without me. He also became dumb because he wanted us to get away from the city. She came back, but she wasn't the same, she was very depressed. I asked her what was going on, but she did not want to tell me or passed by the excuse that she hated the whole world. When you go out with a girl, she's having fun. We broke up, but I love her so much and I went to her with flowers and explained that I can't do without her, she is happy. The next day she was sad again I asked what she wanted us to do and she said she wanted to be left alone for a while. What to do?
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Give him time to think, don't rush. When she is ready, talk to her. There is nothing to lose
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Look maniac, you did what you could. Leave her alone, but don't really look for her! I've been in your situation, I know it's not a cool feeling, but there's no way. After a while and they look for you, this is your girl, if not just boldly going forward, but don't be a man for two cents clench your teeth and go on! The other thing I will give you as advice may be option A, but never be option B! Success ! Hexa
She loves you because you've been together for a long time, but she's probably eaten something new, and now she's thinking about whether to go back to the nursery or go scratch with the stranger. Leave her and whatever she decides - that's it. Bro.
Absolutely nothing. You have a better chance of coming back to you if you don't pray to her. Go out with others, let her know that you are not her reserve and you will not wait for her to play you until she decides what she wants.
Wow, you're a great person. I can't believe she's being so stupid and hurting you, and you've been so dignified. You are definitely not a complex who seeks to satisfy his ego by returning it to the other. I'm impressed, I hope to meet people like you. Otherwise you don't need our advice. you're doing well enough in life. In your place, I would have sex with other women, so your feelings will pass and you will recover faster from separation. And accordingly, you will meet a woman who deserves you :) In the meantime, you can continue to drag on with this one, but in general it is good to break away from her emotionally first. Then you can dump it when you feel ready for it.
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Error after error dude. First, you had to talk to her in the beginning as if you saw that something was not right, second, when she told you that she had feelings for another, you had to separate for a second, you suffocated her and made things go in agony.
I know this feeling, I am experiencing it at the moment. I ended a relationship I started another and it doesn't work. I have no feelings for the person in question at all, something could happen but it will not happen in the near future! They are not the only ones to blame when they turn her head. I think talk again and wait a while or she has not fallen out of love with the other or she is dumb that it happened, but if she chooses the other be sure that one day she will regret it, but if you make some effort to return her feelings to you she will forget about anyone. I hope I was helpful with something!
You're a bastard fool brother. She's fucked this guy a lot of times to get some feelings for you and to tell you, and you're going after your ass. It is sad not because you are missing, but because the other is missing.
He ended his relationship with her immediately. It will be hard for you because you are used to it, but it is necessary to do it. Tell her that you also have feelings for each other and want to separate. A real man should never, under any circumstances, take on the role of a second violin. Even if your girlfriend ends her relationship with "that one", for her you are already a man without authority. He will be at your mercy and will always think what it would be like with the other. Then another "other" will appear ... Cut to the bone and find another woman.
I wonder what else you're doing with her, given that they left you a second violin. You are young, you are right, life goes on! You're probably naughty, but for me the pain they do to a monkey would be much greater than some unshared feelings ...