Hello! My friend has been working in a disco for some time, she is not a waitress or a dancer, but like those girls whose restaurants pay to raise their reputation, a kind of pseudo-client. We have been together for more than half a year and I have long understood that she is one of the girls who constantly take them off. I understood it while fighting for it with many people. She chose me among all and wants to be only with me, I understand that and I am 100% sure of her fidelity to me. The problem is that there is a primary feeling that overwhelms me every time she tells me that someone has taken her down. A feeling that makes me show aggression towards the individual, and although for a short time, it worries me. I am not an aggressive person and I prefer when possible to resolve conflicts in a civilized way. I'm writing to you here because I'm trying to find out a little more about what's going on with the girls doing this at the discos. When security is needed, does it intervene, are there many unloaders, etc.? I'm also curious to hear from people whose girlfriends do the same, how do they deal with feelings of jealousy? I know that even if this doesn't work, there will always be individuals who will take her down, saying that if you don't want to take down your girlfriend, don't go with a beautiful girl! It's just that the fact that the number of people downloading it has increased dramatically is starting to affect me negatively.
I will be glad to hear your serious opinions on the matter? how do you deal with jealousy? I know that even if this doesn't work, there will always be individuals who will take her down, saying that if you don't want to take down your girlfriend, don't go with a beautiful girl! It's just that the fact that the number of people downloading it has increased dramatically is starting to affect me negatively. I will be glad to hear your serious opinions on the matter? how do you deal with jealousy? I know that even if this doesn't work, there will always be individuals who will take her down, saying that if you don't want to take down your girlfriend, don't go with a beautiful girl! It's just that the fact that the number of people downloading it has increased dramatically is starting to affect me negatively. I will be glad to hear your serious opinions on the matter?
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With so many downloaders, once she has chosen you, then you have nothing to worry about. Just don't be jealous of her, it will only push her away from you. M 26
Hey, I don't know why you're writing here at all! I mean ... if you really love your girlfriend and hold on to her, you need to trust her and judging by your words, and she has strong feelings for you. So ... if you've been together for so long, even though it's not really much, then she doesn't give in to intimate jokes, which can only make you happy :) and you know .... NO SHAMEFUL WORK :) SUCCESS BELLA
Yes, and my friend worked in a disco as a bartender while studying for 2 years. abroad. At least from that point of view, I was calm that she was in good hands, because her uncle was one of the owners of the restaurant. Otherwise, I know the man, it is unlikely that he will be overwhelmed by someone from a restaurant. I was more worried about something happening with someone from the university there. She told me that there were drunken tricks to try, but they were rather funny. The other thing is: I didn't feel a change in her attitude, and with Skype, Facebook we were almost as if together, 2-3 times a year she came home. Everything went well. I was a little worried though, but mine didn't give me any reason. I knew that if she misses me and I feel it well, things are ok. Here, however, in Bulgaria the simplicity is greater. If your girlfriend looks like a client, she will be more intrusive than if she were from the staff - you are fine. With diplomacy and over time, you can convince her to find a more prestigious occupation. No employer will be impressed by such previous work experience - and with that you can motivate her:]. And I don't know how your relationship is, but you can tell her outright that you don't like it and look for something else.
Usually light girls go to such places. Don't worry, not only she and all the other women are being teased. And no man will go to her unless she gives him a sign. She's looking for him. Only a normal lady would not agree to work in such a place.
The situation you are in is, I would say, unfortunate. Your friend works in a disco like a k *** and attracts customers, and you fight? Instead of fighting for her to find a normal job and explain to her that there is no prospect in such a thing - you are fighting. Don't ask the men here, they usually don't take such girls seriously, and such girls are usually alone. Look around, grow up.
H5 wrote it for you. There are all sorts of scoundrels at these discos and fat uncles (mutters of all breeds and beyond) pay well. Talk to her about changing jobs and see how she reacts.
It is better to find another job. Otherwise, you will be constantly annoyed by the thought that some men are constantly staring at her and she is smiling at them.
Bullshit! NO SHAMEFUL WORK! Not only light girls work in discos! There may be no other alternative at the moment, she likes the pay (I've heard it's good for young people) and so on, BUT I don't agree with number 4 that she's looking for it! I am a woman and when we gather with my friends in a restaurant just to have a drink (all tied up) they come at least 2-3 times without provoking them! So don't worry, she's light and she's looking for him .. As for jealousy, I also want to learn something more, because my friend works as a security guard in a disco again ... As there are male intruders, there are also the so-called LIGHT WOMEN, which are also offered to men. I will follow the topic. Greetings!
You don't have to care much. Mine is also super cool and they take it off all the time. I got annoyed at one time and then started doing something else. I deliberately make her walk naked, provocative, with very short skirts, etc. Even more, they rush like that, but somehow she started pulling and looking for me, jealous of me. Because she thinks I don't care, and when a woman feels that her partner isn't jealous of her, she starts to be jealous of him. Otherwise you are an out brother. And if you don't have self-confidence, there the customers are a kind of whiner, if she searches she will find you and there is nothing you can do. It's not up to the job he's doing, it's up to his mind. If he wants to sit behind a desk, he can still run into some. So don't be too jealous and don't care. There are as many women as you want, if it's not for you, it will show.
My advice is without her knowing sometimes to go and watch her from afar while someone takes her down, but be very careful not to see you, go a few times and you will find out for yourself if this jealousy is worth it. There is an option only for men to talk dirty to her, to draw her and for her to laugh, and there is also an option for her to let her hands go and for her to put her hand on their pants and then in the kenef and give them a whistle, just watch her reactions at every dump, but even if you see something you don't want, don't get nervous and don't go scandalize her, because she'll be angry that you're watching her, you just tear her up the next day when you see her kissing someone else, not her say a reason, just fuck her, and if you see she's right then be with her.
Hello, your girlfriend has a very strange profession and in the interest of the truth I had never thought about this and the so-called fictitious customers, standing in restaurants only to attract additional customers with their appearance. First I want to reassure you for a moment that while she is still telling you about all these dumps, at first glance this should mean that she trusts you and has full confidence in you and therefore nothing has happened, otherwise it would not you said. Another issue, however, is that the more time she works in such a place, the more people will try to take her down. In time, everyone has a moment of weakness and sometimes makes mistakes (I'm not saying that your girlfriend will do it), but no one knows what can happen when you have been together for a long time and your relationship will be over. from the phase " what is your opinion about things and most of all how do you feel. I tend to think that if she loves you so much and believes in your common future, then she would not cause you to suffer mentally every day. As a not insignificant addition would be the fact that with such a profession in the resume, it is unlikely that many future employers would take her to a serious job, unless they have something else in mind. Success!
Better to find another job. In general, these girls are considered light, even if they do not prostitute. I was a bartender and I know how to look at them. A woman, no matter how beautiful, if she is on the same level and exudes respect, she will not have to deal with entanglements and failed types. Otherwise the work is sweet. You sit, have fun and get paid. But for how long? And do you have the confidence to say what you do? And do you have the confidence to tell your family what your girlfriend is doing? Your problem is much more serious than your jealousy.
In my opinion, 100% of the bartenders have already bitten her cheeks! Much more than once and her pussy lasts because a whisper of money is the best way to silence the conscience. Your lady, author, is a complete chanton girl!
Author: is my girlfriend no longer works this. It turned out that she was just doing this until she found something stable. Few people understood exactly what my problem was. I have known my girlfriend for about three years and the thought that she will cheat on me does not cross my mind, what irritates me are the men who take her down. Maybe in time I won't feel like breaking my head and breaking the caps of some of these guys. Anyway, they will always take it off, but people with similar experience have told me that over time it will stop bothering me.
"She chose me among all and wants to be alone with me, I understand that and I am 100% sure of her fidelity to me." Oh ... you will wear the horns of Aries with such thinking.