Hello. I'll start with the fact that I'm a 17-year-old girl. I will be very brief. Whenever he catches a boyfriend, none of my friends approve. When I caught a little younger than me two years ago, he was ugly, short, poor. When I caught someone bigger than me - he was short, ugly, they compared him to an animal, he was dark-skinned, we hadn't left. Then I was dealing with a boy who was older than me - he was like a drug addict, he was short, he was ugly. he had a horrible face, etc. And whenever we go out and it's about, for example, my boyfriend or the person I'm dealing with, an hour of commenting and insulting the person begins. I have a boyfriend recently, but I have no intention of telling them. They will start mocking and insulting him seriously. They have never had boyfriends and are unfamiliar with anything. They always look at the appearance of people, be it boys or girls. Even if they don't approve, they can at least greet and support me, not insult them. I've told them 100 times, but they know theirs. What do you think is the reason for this? Jealousy? Envy? Or something else?
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I don't think your friends are worth it. They don't have to like everyone, but I personally would never allow myself to offend a friend like that, whether for a boyfriend, interests or whatever. It takes a little politeness and tact.
Are you so bad that you can't understand that they envy you? They are not happy and because of that they do not want you to be happy and that is why they do so. The bad thing is that you've had a lot of boys so far.
Jealousy and envy. Nothing else.
Their opinion is not decisive for you and they should know it. Make sure they don't allow themselves to say a bad word about your friend in front of you or go out with him and ignore them. The important thing is that you like your boyfriends.