Hello, my story will probably sound quite funny and even exaggerated, but I just have no one to share it with ... So. Due to the circumstances, we have to live with my grandparents. Me, my father and my brother. You must be wondering what the problem is? well the problem is that they don't really want us. They didn't tell us, but of course. I heard them talking behind our backs and then pretending that nothing had happened. My grandfather is constantly arguing with my grandmother. I can't sleep because in the evening they inflate the TV and in the morning they start shouting without caring about others. we are constantly getting fat, but then they make us feel good. I've always been scolded for not reading. Well, I sat down and started reading. I asked them to turn down the TV and they did, but I heard them say I was a dictator and things like that. There is never peace in the strong. There are constant screams, shouts, etc. I can't even study properly. You may think it's a dumb problem, but believe me, if you live 6 years under constant stress and you feel that way. I know there is nothing to help me, but I just wanted to share somewhere with someone. I forgot to say that they are terribly annoying, I heard my grandfather say that they should not accept us (to live with them).
Grandpa also has the feeling that he has mental problems. As he sits he goes to the front door, opens it and slams it. He walks around the house and growls. It seems like a pretty funny story. BUT THIS IS 6 YEARS WITH DAILY STRESS. that there was nothing to help me, but I just wanted to share somewhere with someone. I forgot to say that they are terribly annoying, I heard my grandfather say that they should not accept us (to live with them). Grandpa also has the feeling that he has mental problems. As he sits he goes to the front door, opens it and slams it. He walks around the house and growls. It seems like a pretty funny story. BUT THIS IS 6 YEARS WITH DAILY STRESS. that there was nothing to help me, but I just wanted to share somewhere with someone. I forgot to say that they are terribly annoying, I heard my grandfather say that they should not accept us (to live with them). Grandpa also has the feeling that he has mental problems. As he sits he goes to the front door, opens it and slams it. He walks around the house and growls. It seems like a pretty funny story. BUT THIS IS 6 YEARS WITH DAILY STRESS.
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First of all, I don't think it's funny or exaggerated, but at the same time I think my grandparents are right. After all, you are the ones who have moved into their home, and on top of that you are left with the impression that they have to consider you, how loudly they turn on their TV and how to talk in their home instead of you. you first consider that they are your elderly grandparents and it is normal for their age to have a hearing loss, then that they have accepted you in their home and you do not have to live more miserably with a small part of your father's salary, if he for example, you paid for accommodation, you would save on electricity, food, clothes, you would have little or no pocket money, etc. So be more grateful to these people, stop looking for their mental illnesses, and try to be useful to them at least in cleaning the house, washing dishes,
Three generations under one roof is a test for everyone, no matter where you look at it. Either you pass somehow (with a lot of compromises on your part) or look for an option to move out.
From the Author to Number 1 There are things I forgot. I actually LOVE THEM AWFULLY and appreciate what they do for us and I am very grateful to them. The purpose of this post was to share with someone the stress I go through every day. Because there is no one with. It's just that sometimes these events make me very bored. There are even things that happen that I haven't mentioned. It's just that no matter how much I love them, sometimes these things come to me more because they happen every day.
Author, do you think that for your grandparents your presence in their home is not a daily stress, not a boredom, do you think that they do not feel more or that they are not angry with you, but precisely because of the fact that you are terribly love they tolerate you. Almost all elderly people have hearing loss, so they speak loudly and increase the volume of the TV, they need to go much more often on a small need, that is, they need a constantly free toilet, they have diseases and they need more peace, every little worry raises blood pressure to a level dangerous to their health, all adults have trouble sleeping and sleep much less hours and many other problems but they have accepted and tolerated you. To quarrel because they also have family problems, most likely your grandmother is protecting you, and your grandfather is muttering to her about the inconveniences caused by your presence, it takes on the negatives. You can of course take earplugs for BGN 1 from the pharmacy and sleep as long as you want and read as much as you need, but you have decided to knock and demand that they comply with you, not to speak loudly when you sleep or to they don't listen to TV when you read, you're probably left with the impression that the world revolves around you, but it's time to land and realize that nothing in this world comes for free and every action or inaction in your life you will pay for it one or another way. Now, with your patience as an adult, you pay for more pocket money, most likely your grandmother cooks and cleans sometimes, if you were in the apartment you would almost always do the housework, etc. So sit down, make your judgment and realize that you have rather benefit than negatives from living with them. You can of course take earplugs for BGN 1 from the pharmacy and sleep as long as you want and read as much as you need, but you have decided to knock and demand that they comply with you, not to speak loudly when you sleep or to they don't listen to TV when you read, you're probably left with the impression that the world revolves around you, but it's time to land and realize that nothing in this world comes for free and every action or inaction in your life you will pay for it one or another way. Now, with your patience as an adult, you pay for more pocket money, most likely your grandmother cooks and cleans sometimes, if you were in the apartment you would almost always do the housework, etc. So sit down, make your judgment and realize that you have rather a benefit than a negative of living with them. You can of course take earplugs for BGN 1 from the pharmacy and sleep as long as you want and read as much as you need, but you have decided to knock and demand that they comply with you, not to speak loudly when you sleep or to they don't listen to TV when you read, you're probably left with the impression that the world revolves around you, but it's time to land and realize that nothing in this world comes for free and every action or inaction in your life you will pay for it one or another way. Now, with your patience as an adult, you pay for more pocket money, most likely your grandmother cooks and cleans sometimes, if you were in the apartment you would almost always do the housework, etc. So sit down, make your judgment and realize that you have rather a benefit than a negative of living with them.