Hello now I will tell you my story. I have been married for 6 months, and we have been together for 2 years and 6 months. One night when we were talking, he told me that he had cheated on me once before we got married (we were away then). I want your opinion on how to proceed now. It hurt, but I don't know why I'm not so affected by it. I don't know how to react to forgive him or not
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Honey, just because he cheated on you doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore. If you were arguing then, then it's just that he was either very affected and decided to take revenge on you, or very wounded and decided to kill a little sadness from the dispute. And also, what he told you, I think is an eloquent enough fact that you should forgive him ...
This should enter the TOP10 of the stupidest "stories" on the site! Well done.
I think you should forgive him. After all, he was honest with you. You could never understand. And if he told you, then he sticks to you and maybe it won't happen again. And if you don't feel hurt by it. After all, you are a family. Don't live with the past. Success!
Hi, I know it hurts, but I think you should swallow it, because men are like that, they need to feel wanted and it happened to me that we will not be the last or the last to talk about it upstairs, talk like big people without scandals you are still a young family. Success!
HELLO. What can I tell you, it really sucks, but if you think it won't happen again, stay with him. Although I don't believe he's loyal to you once he did. At least that's always the case. You know him best, so judge and listen to your intuition!
Darling, before marriage, everything is allowed, so don't be angry with him. The important thing is that you are his chosen one and he is happy with you. Rejoice that he confessed to you, he was honest. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. I've been married for 2 years, my husband also cheated on me, so things happened that I realized I didn't like it, but I would have felt better if he had told me himself, and I didn't take it in anyway. we have been together for 6 and a half years and we are very nice to each other. Don't ruin everything by being angry with him. There is a mistake, but there is also forgiveness. You know that a confessed sin is half a sin, give one half of yourself and fix things;) I wish you a lot of happiness and love, do not let the past hinder your future or present !!!
If he has shared this with you, then he repents. If he still married you, then he loves you. Forgive him. It is human to make mistakes. In my opinion, the chance of him cheating on you a second time is much smaller than if he hadn't confessed to you. Now he feels asshole and he won't hurt you a second time. If he hurts you, then he doesn't love you, but then he wouldn't marry you.
You cheated on him too! Justify yourself that you got sick !!! :)
hey 8, enough of her to become a whore just in case of his antics, is that how you advise her! Woman, keep one thing in mind, give yourself time, think, distance yourself, go somewhere alone with friends, cousins, away from him and explain to him that you need time! Follow his reaction, whether he will look for you, how much he cares, he was right, but as he says -7, he regrets, he could have kept quiet! Think and whatever you come up with, forgive him, don't break your marriage! However, keep him under pressure for a while, so that he will be insulted if he goes through his head again for infidelity! Say you'll talk to his mother, your mother, but don't! No one needs to know about things between you! And so there is no way. Every man cheats! And another to catch-one dol cornflowers are! Success!
Abe, both women and men are like that, everyone needs to be wanted or to get angry somewhere ... Once they have been quarreled, it may be out of anger.