My Husband And I Don't Have Sex - A Health Problem

   Drop it .... there is no way to fix it ... Run while it's time.

   Oh, and I have a girlfriend whose husband doesn't have sex with her for a number of reasons. We have an extremely good time with her! I'm even starting to worry about whether I'm going to make a serious connection with our little secrets in the foreseeable future, because the current situation suits me perfectly - both I have a wife, and to the max, and I don't have any snotty and eternally dissatisfied creature on my head. he sees me as a self-propelled piggy bank and the main reason for all his troubles in life.

   You will have to bother for a long time. There are several options: - you take toys; - you find a lover; - you dump the man and explain to him that you can't live like this - you wait a little longer and if he doesn't manage you you dump him

   Only you are the specialist! You seem to be a good woman (if the story is not made up), and only you can get him out of this state. But not with the methods you list, clothes, hints and more. will not help, forced beauty does not happen. If he is afraid to lie down together, then there is some hope. Start very far, not directly. As soon as he cares about you and is ready to help you, invite him when you enter the bathroom, wipe your back, saponify him and massage you. Naturally, you have to demonstrate how much you enjoy it, if you have to make sounds of pleasure, twist your body, be alive and happy. In this situation, if he is a normal man, he should be aroused. If you don't get aroused, you better separate! If he gives in, ask him to do the same, soap him, start massaging him, if he is already aroused, while you soap him from behind, put your hands on his ass, let them go slightly forward and slightly around his penis, watching my reaction. If he calms down and doesn't move, then he's fine. Then you can act bolder, you can cover his penis, start a massage there as well. If his excitement grows, there is hope, but if he does not react, I see no hope!

   The same thing happened to me. But I couldn't stand it. I have slept with many men and it is clear to me that if a man behaves like a virgin, then he simply does not fit. Your boyfriend is completely impotent. No matter what I tell you. And he told me it was out of worry. Finally we tried Levitra. Sex is disgusting with him. He rubbed between me and the sheet and didn't know that he wasn't in me at all, when you set him up, he blew up and he fell again ..... he wondered what to do, he thought ... then a virgin man would manage -Good. I was madly in love, I thought he was the man of my life. Handsome, muscular ... he's also very talented, but he can't. After the first month without sex, I started cheating on him. I literally hated him and with each passing time I began to feel disgust for him and the torment he was subjecting me to. It ruined my birthday. I didn't want to see you then, I thought he would explode again, but he insisted. I also went to a sexologist. Only I gave my money. He told me that it would not happen without Levitra. He accused me of cheating on him. He was giving me stupid advice on how to keep a stupid relationship. You don't have a child from him to stay tied up. As my mother told me, if you had a child, I would advise you to get a lover. In this case, I don't know what you're struggling with. Apparently, even a woman like you who isn't sexual can't stand it. I'm sorry to be with such a man for two years ... are you frigid? To catch a frigid woman like him and torture her. What bothers you. This is not his love but despair. And you are his savior and mother. This is not a normal relationship. that I am cheating on him. He was giving me stupid advice on how to keep a stupid relationship. You don't have a child from him to stay tied up. As my mother told me, if you had a child, I would advise you to get a lover. In this case, I don't know what you're struggling with. Apparently, even a woman like you who isn't sexual can't stand it. I'm sorry to be with such a man for two years ... are you frigid? To catch a frigid woman like him and torture her. What bothers you. This is not his love but despair. And you are his savior and mother. This is not a normal relationship. that I am cheating on him. He was giving me stupid advice on how to keep a stupid relationship. You don't have a child from him to stay tied up. As my mother told me, if you had a child, I would advise you to get a lover. In this case, I don't know what you're struggling with. Apparently, even a woman like you who isn't sexual can't stand it. I'm sorry to be with such a man for two years ... are you frigid? To catch a frigid woman like him and torture her. What bothers you. This is not his love but despair. And you are his savior and mother. This is not a normal relationship. can't stand it. I'm sorry to be with such a man for two years ... are you frigid? To catch a frigid woman like him and torture her. What bothers you. This is not his love but despair. And you are his savior and mother. This is not a normal relationship. can't stand it. I'm sorry to be with such a man for two years ... are you frigid? To catch a frigid woman like him and torture her. What bothers you. This is not his love but despair. And you are his savior and mother. This is not a normal relationship.

   It won't work. Run!

   From the author: Don't you think there is a chance to get better?

   Share it with him as well as with us. Open, detailed and honest. If you've been together for so long, you should be able to talk about everything, and there's no room for anger in love. Be honest with him, tell him that you love him and that you will support him for everything and seek help. It is best to seek advice from your GP, he will guide you the most. Success!

   Do you try to meet him completely naked at least once - in the hallway or under the covers? Or you rely on your underwear to drive him crazy.

   In my opinion, a good psychologist could help him, the other option is a sexologist. It is also important not to be ashamed of your condition and to be able to talk about it. For starters, you can be the person to listen to him, don't force him to have sex. Try lightly with kisses, ask him if he would do French for you, then if he would like you to do it for him, he should gradually relax and get to what you want. It may not work the first time, but after a few days it doesn't stop you from trying, just don't rush.

   And what is his real problem? It was not understood ... "the doctors told him that there would be problems with sex up to that point. There is no solution ..." - which doctors? what is your husband's case anyway?

   Very good idea, but very inappropriate. Your thinking would be great if your friend's problem wasn't defined as an emotional illness. In other words, you think like a person whose emotional problems are of a completely different nature. If your man was like you, everything would be right and the underwear would work. Well, you're lucky, I work with the psyche and I can give you advice. I will not talk much about specialists, but about the issue of sexologist and psychologist. The first will bother him seriously, will cause him discomfort. The second is possible to help, as long as it is readable. Emotional problems are a very serious thing, for the sufferer they are on the agenda. A person who is bothered by such things is a person whose thinking is different from the usual. Such people have a habit of putting everything in their mind and heart, they are anxious. For every small problem, they freak out at the thought of depriving their loved ones of being an obstacle and nothing happens to them. When you put on sexy lingerie and organize a romantic evening, he worries that he will not give you what you want. He worries that he can't, and the worry itself stops him. Anxiety is so devastating that it makes you crash on the spot, block, and from there you can only betray the situation. You, because you do not have such problems, must have experienced the same under severe stress. It won't happen to you often, but I'll give you a simple comparison - you're afraid of bugs, and the person next to you is holding a bug in his hand. That is, forget about sexy lingerie, it will come into use later in time. I will offer you something strange. But it will really seem strange to you, so prepare yourself mentally. For starters, start sleeping naked. I tell you to sleep, nothing more. Have a quiet evening and ask your friend to undress. Lie down, cuddle and watch a movie. It's like an ordinary evening, you're just close to each other and you're naked. Tell him you like his body, that you enjoy being close. Explain to him that sex is a kind of intimacy, but you are happy to receive that intimacy in other ways, that the only important thing is to get intimacy from him. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Believe it or not, when a person is physically naked and relaxed, he tends to expose his soul. Sex will happen, but let it be gradual. Let your man get a new perspective on sex, accept it as intimacy and love, as something right and normal. Kiss him and caress him while he is naked, avoiding erogenous zones. To make him understand that you are not only interested in the physical, but in him on an emotional level. Talk a lot. This simple task will help him trust you. I mean, he will trust you, that you like him and his body, that you want and love him, but not only physically. Meet again, never rush the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. This simple task will help him trust you. I mean, he will trust you, that you like him and his body, that you want and love him, but not only physically. Meet again, never hurry with the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. This simple task will help him trust you. I mean, he will trust you, that you like him and his body, that you want and love him, but not only physically. Meet again, never hurry with the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. that he will trust you, that you like him and his body, that you want and love him, but not only physically. Meet again, never rush the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. that he will trust you, that you like him and his body, that you want and love him, but not only physically. Meet again, never rush the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. Meet again, never hurry with the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. Meet again, never hurry with the actual sexual act. Play, get to know your bodies. It will take time. He will never be as sexually active as any other person. Let's say that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and possible. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and powerful. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way. that 2 times a week is something that is completely satisfying and powerful. Your man has an emotional problem, not a health or sexual problem. Emotional- emotion. This is the root, this is what you need to work on. And in order to have an effect, you have to mix the emotional with the physical so well that they merge into one. Give this man time to relax, give him time to learn not to blame himself and not to feel guilty for hurting you in any way.

   It's good that at least the Internet gives you some anonymity to show what kind of product you are. Especially the first two - you will probably dump your halves at the slightest problem encountered, be it financial, household, health or whatever. People like you should stand alone, after looking only at their own pleasure and you do not care a gram for the person next to you. Your wife has explained to you that this is a serious problem and she obviously loves her husband, so it never crossed her mind to leave him. You give great opinions and recommendations, sorry for the "lucky ones" who are or will be your spouses at some point.

   You find a lover, this is the solution if you want to be with him and accordingly sex that he does not give you.

   14, isn't it even better to find a man she wants to be with and have sex with at the same time? How long do you think that lovers will drive her like that? If he doesn't want to leave it so much, I think the vibrator is the solution. But this with the lover is just burying his head in the sand and a time bomb, but not a real long-term solution, and it is not very correct. If she was going to do such things, it was better to separate, but at least she was correct. I look at her as a bitch and a decent woman.

   Unfortunately, I don't think there is a chance for him to recover, mine and I have been like this for 15 years. He does, but he doesn't have sex. Why I suffer is another question, but I went through in the beginning and through these self-destructive thoughts that I do not get up. You are ok and you should not doubt it. But you can't live without sex. The relationship itself is gone, if the sexual disappears, then a person gradually stops caring so much about the other and everything becomes a nuisance. Not to mention that we get nervous about the very lack of sex. It's also up to date with the toys. Everyone needs to be wanted. So until you wither, take from life what you can. And I'm for a lover. It is not easy to find, but if you have a case - do not miss.

   Am I the only one who doesn't understand what a "rare emotional illness" is? Because there is no way to give adequate advice with such a vague wording. What does this emotional illness manifest itself in, does it affect you physically? If a man gets an erection, there is hope. Another question is how patient you are and whether he has the will and desire to deal with the problem. Grandpa Torbalan

   farted cause is your job ...

   From the author: I'm starting to respond to comments: To number 4: That's what we do, of course. And not only. He does not refuse me, there is no problem with the erection. Yes, he will come to the bathroom with me, he will have sex with me sometimes. But by obligation. There is no desire on his part. To number 8: Of course, we have spoken openly. And he openly told me he didn't need sex. To number 9: Of course I met him naked in bed. He almost never refuses me, but sex is not his pleasure, but his duty. And when I met him, it was even worse, because the obligation is even more obligatory. He can't refuse, but no, because he can't resist me. To number 12: First of all, thank you very much for the advice! Not only does it not seem strange to me, but I have taken similar steps. I often sleep naked because I'm more comfortable, and, because really emotionally I really like that very touch you're talking about. I shared it with him, too. The problem is that it's not comfortable for him to lie naked next to me just like that. I've also tried conversations that have nothing to do with sex, but have to do with emotion. It is possible that the method works, but I fail to predispose it. I'm trying! But it doesn't happen and it doesn't happen. The things I have listed in the topic are a small part of my experiments. Of course, I've tried conversations, tenderness and just physical contact without sexual intercourse. It's like it's hard for him to relax ... I don't know. Grandpa Torbalan, let me tell you what it is, you haven't heard it for sure, and it will be very specific, and the idea is to remain anonymous. Otherwise, yes, it affects physically, but in other forms, not in the form of impotence. To everyone else who has commented or will comment. No, he's not impotent (not that I didn't think so either), I guarantee him not because he told me he wasn't, but because he's fine. If I tell him "Come on, let's have sex!", In 90% of cases we will, but that's not the point, it's that it's like work. As if he doesn't enjoy it. As if there is no need for physical contact. The problem is not that it does not work for him, but that if I do not take the initiative for sure, he will not take it in three months. Also, when not at work we are always together. We even bathe together, but while we're in the bathroom we don't have sex, either. Because of this I am sure not only that there is no other, but also that she does not masturbate (there may be some exceptions once a month, but hardly ...). I hope you understand the situation even better! Regarding comments about dumping, etc. are extremely inappropriate. My question is not whether our relationship has a future,

   Grandpa Torbalane, it is not clear to anyone how bad the psyche of this boy is, even the author, so he consults. I suggested to her, the easiest and most painless method, to go into the bathroom in order to bathe each other, and in the trance, the author would test him for arousal, without being intrusive, without straining and harassing him. №12, supposedly done by a psychologist, but offers stressful methods for the boy. As the author describes it, if the boy is seen naked outside the bathroom, he will panic, and here they give advice for more radical actions. I am convinced that the test in the bathroom is appropriate enough to understand whether the boy is physically healthy and whether there is any chance of success. When he is in the bathroom, the boy will not be tense, because he will know that they are there to take a bath and he will relax as much as possible. And the hot water per shower, the girl's closeness to him, and even more so the touch will be a sufficient stimulus for arousal. If in such a pleasant and calm atmosphere he does not get aroused, it means that it is not only the emotionally anxious situation. The next step is another sexologist, once the girl holds on to this boy! And above, some sent the author to a bull, apparently such women seek only sex, but not love. No one's life is insured, how will those women who send the author to a lover feel if fate serves them something that has confused their sex life? How will they feel if their husbands dump them or go to other women? as soon as the girl holds on to this boy! And above, some sent the author to the bull, apparently such women seek only sex, but not love. No one's life is insured, how will those women who send the author to a lover feel if fate serves them something that has confused their sex life? How will they feel if their husbands dump them or go to other women? as soon as the girl holds on to this boy! And above, some sent the author to the bull, apparently such women seek only sex, but not love. No one's life is insured, how will those women who send the author to a lover feel if fate serves them something that has confused their sex life? How will they feel if their husbands dump them or go to other women?

   I would advise you to shake yourself about the phenomenon of Porn induced erectile dysfunction. Since the advent of high-speed Internet, many men can now get an erection from just pixels. If you are curious, read my story http://spodeli.net/1/story-92656.html When I find the time, I will update it. Although I had some improvements, I was left alone for a long time and I am still in the same place. To get and maintain an erection I have to scroll between 5 and 10 virtual beauties. Without virtual stimulation, nothing happens. Viagra, Cialis, even injections do not work. And according to many sources, this is normal because the problem is in the head and not under the belt. Talk to your friend and see if he suffers from the same. If we can fix it. He must forget not only about porn, but also about all kinds of virtual stimulation and sexting.

   the only benefit of such a relationship is for others - a valuable lesson is to see in practice that romance is romance, but e wants adventure :)

   Number 20, I immediately advise against the bath, for the simple reason that warm water can lead to erection problems of a purely physiological nature. But there is a reason in your idea to present sex in a more non-committal and optional form. Author, have you tried to give him a blowjob, without anything else, just to please him? Or should he make oral love to you, knowing that after that he won't have to "fight" with a sequel? Does he not accept sex as an obligation and that it evokes negative emotions? If so, try to turn it into a simple pleasure that has no requirements. I will repeat, there is no way to give the right advice with the information presented in this way. Because the right decision may be the complete opposite. Namely, aggressively, to make him jealous and out of his comfort zone. To have to compete. It seems to me that there is a possibility that the man has buried some "shameful" fetish, maybe if you dig it up, you will unlock his sexuality. Of course, you have to be prepared for something really shocking. In an appropriate setting, if the "disease" allows him to drink alcohol ... many truths come to light, it is no coincidence that the ancients said - in vino veritas. Anyway, your desire to find a solution is an example, I wish you success. Grandpa Torbalan Anyway, your desire to find a solution is an example, I wish you success. Grandpa Torbalan Anyway, your desire to find a solution is an example, I wish you success. Grandpa Torbalan

   "The problem is not that it doesn't work for him, but that if I don't take the initiative for sure, he won't take it in three months." So why didn't you start with that? What do you want, like a rooster to chase you all day? Look at nature, it is not by chance that the females there are the most refined, the most colorful, the most chirping, they do everything possible to be noticed by the males. Only the human female wants the man to be like a robot, to click his button and for him to work immediately !? If he is 90% ready to have sex at any moment, what more do you want from a man? In order to receive, you have to give, even if you give. You probably look like a wooden one to him, so the boy doesn't like it. The love game is more important than the sex itself! Is there a game, it inevitably ends with sex!

   There is no "rare emotional illness." Your husband is a homosexual who pretends to be normal.

   Find someone else and don't waste your years in vain ... how come you don't have sex with someone else ... I would have gone crazy a long time ago and I would have gone crazy.

   24, you are not aware at all. In nature, males are colorful, chirping, etc., females are often frankly unattractive. Male peacocks only have a huge beautiful tail, lions have manes, etc .... Do not scatter minds, as you do not know. For the rest you are right otherwise, it's not cool as the woman stands like a board, I don't understand it at all, it's much cooler for me when I have sex to be proactive and watch him barely restrain himself ..

   From the author: Grandpa Torbalan, that's exactly it! That's what I say. Sex is his duty. Yes. I tried to give pleasure only to him. I don't know if he understood that this was my idea, but he pushed me away. I don't know if you realize, but it's not just my patience in the end. It doesn't work, my self-esteem is crushed, so I can't try again. It's awful for them to wean you off tactfully and push you away, and when they "wind up" to fantasize that the other person is happy, but to know that he really isn't. It happened that I cried during sex understood). I feel hellishly unwanted. Yes, and I thought there was a fetish. But it's not. I have fetishes myself. There is nothing in sex that can startle me. Even the more brutal, the better. We talked about it. No. The answer is "For me, sex just isn't that important." It wasn't even a direct conversation for us. I started the topic from where, what story I heard or read. That he was gay, of course I suspected him. But that's not it. I guess it's my fault. I've always been with them. They still don't have sex, they are still not ready, they always want to talk and cuddle. I don't know anymore. Otherwise I want everything. Really everything. But I can't tell him. He often tells me in disgust about acquaintances that they had sex outside. I thought he was trying me. I told him I would like it, but no, he didn't try me! He really responds. I'm dying for anal, if he wants a threesome - there will be it, toys, non-standard places ... I used to go to strip clubs, prostitutes, we went to massages with a happy ending together. I have no reservations. Just to say, and he just has no desire and that's it! Not to mention that, when we have sex (understand no more than a minute), it doesn't even undress me. Myself, too. I'm ashamed to undress in front of him. I feel so repulsed in sex. Someone had written in the comments about French ... Abe, people, what kind of French is chasing you? !! Do you read my topic at all? !! I can't imagine him ever licking me. Completely inadequate. He doesn't undress me, what do you suggest? !! Otherwise ... The advice so far is good at first glance, but I've done it all ... There is a result, but by obligation, as I have said many times. No desire, no excitement. It's just like that. For a lover and not a word! I don't have the confidence to sleep with anyone else (at least at this stage), nor is it the idea of ​​relationships after all. I feel so repulsed in sex. Someone had written in the comments about French ... Abe, people, what kind of French is chasing you? !! Do you read my topic at all? !! I can't imagine him ever licking me. Completely inadequate. He doesn't undress me, what do you suggest? !! Otherwise ... The advice so far is good at first glance, but I've done it all ... There is a result, but by obligation, as I have said many times. No desire, no excitement. It's just like that. Not a word for a lover! I don't have the confidence to sleep with anyone else (at least at this stage), nor is it the idea of ​​relationships after all. I feel so repulsed in sex. Someone had written in the comments about French ... Abe, people, what kind of French is chasing you? !! Do you read my topic at all? !! I can't imagine him ever licking me. Completely inadequate. He doesn't undress me, what do you suggest? !! Otherwise ... The advice so far is good at first glance, but I've done it all ... There is a result, but by obligation, as I have said many times. No desire, no excitement. It's just like that. Not a word for a lover! I don't have the confidence to sleep with anyone else (at least at this stage), nor is it the idea of ​​relationships after all. what things do you offer? !! Otherwise ... The advice so far is good at first glance, but I've done it all ... There is a result, but by obligation, as I have said many times. No desire, no excitement. It's just like that. For a lover and not a word! I don't have the confidence to sleep with anyone else (at least at this stage), nor is it the idea of ​​relationships after all. what things do you offer? !! Otherwise ... The advice so far is good at first glance, but I've done it all ... There is a result, but by obligation, as I have said many times. No desire, no excitement. It's just like that. Not a word for a lover! I don't have the confidence to sleep with anyone else (at least at this stage), nor is it the idea of ​​relationships after all.

   You don't attract him sexually. As long as he justifies himself with something else. Compare your body with the bodies of top lingerie models. Compare your face with super models. Would you fuck? You should then be able to answer the question.

   Woman, you scare him! You need a hero over heroes, and he is sitting with a bear to eat honey: D! He knows that you are a bait, and he does not have enough experience and works some kind of defense mechanism. "I'm not that I can't do it, but for me it's dirt!" By the way, is it possible that he has some kind of childhood trauma and / or religious views that put a barrier in his way? Grandpa Torbalan

   Look now, he's the way he is. You closed your eyes at first, but that's not how the problem went away, is it? Separate, you are obviously incompatible. How can you have relationships with bad or no sex ?! Understand, sex is at the heart of the relationship between a man and a woman. Otherwise it's about a deal, friendship and everything else, but not love and relationship. It's simple, but many people don't like it.

   Grandpa Torbalan, I don't think I'm scaring him because I've never told him anything about my desires, preferences, etc. So I shouldn't. Trauma, I thought. He thinks he's not good at these things. He mentioned to me that a previous one of his had told him that he kissed badly, which is not true. It is possible that the same one told him that sex does not work. But I've always told him many times that I like everything he does and I'm not lying. I definitely like it! For religious views, no. He is a definite atheist. But look, maybe I should focus on the other maybe? :)

   I am a doctor, there is no such "emotional" disease! The doctors told him what kind of doctors, it is absolutely irresponsible if a colleague told him this nonsense to get rid of him, from his office. If there is a problem with the erection, if he is self-satisfied because the eye does not do it, there will definitely be pollution during sleep (I am erotic accompanied by orgasm and ejaculation). Your man has a mental problem, probably some unpleasant experience related to sex, the first time he slept with a woman he died and from there he filled his complexes. In practice, my advice is to go to a psychologist, not a psychiatrist, but a good psychologist, because the treatment will be long. If you care about him so much, if not, find a normal man.

   Could you explain in more detail what this "rare emotional illness" is? Does the symptoms, the reasons for it, affect his physical condition? What is the name of this disease in general? I have some doubts about this whole thing, I think your husband is either gay or asexual. In the comments you claim that you do some things in the shower, that if you make him have sex, he will agree (although he does not like it), but at the same time at the beginning of the story you wrote that you do not have any sex. ... which of the two is in the end? I couldn't figure out if he was a virgin at all? Did he have contacts with his previous relationships, if any? It is best to have a serious and decisive conversation. Get him to tell you about all the relationships he had, all his sexual experiences, ask him very seriously if he is gay and if he loves you, tell him to answer you completely honestly, because there is no room for secrets in a relationship. Maybe his problem is rooted in some childhood trauma, as number 35 said, some unpleasant experience with sex - he had a failure with a girl, she told him that nothing was happening and from there he was complex and now he is not can be revealed to anyone. Good luck. F20