My husband and I have been together for 19 years. He was my first love. I love him very much now but he doesn't want to have sex with me. This makes me very sad. I feel neglected. He prefers to be complacent and rarely does with me. I tried everything. He won't let me near him. My friends advise me to get a lover. I don't want to cheat on him. I tried with a man, nothing worked. I suffer a lot and I don't know what to do.
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Tell him that you are leaving him because of his sexual cooling to you and if he pretends not to care then this man has already crossed you in his thoughts and has another muse and his imagination is directed to another woman who helps him to satisfy himself through presence in his mind!
Try with others until it works.
There is nothing you can do. Girlfriends advise you to catch a lover, but know this is not for everyone. And my husband doesn't pay attention to me, but let me tell you, I'm used to it. I don't want to look for a lover either, because I've told myself that I have to be madly in love to have sex with another man. That's right, you should know that their love for us no longer exists, if it ever existed.
Did you talk about the problem? Although, rare sexual intercourse is not without anything. Isn't he tired from work and work problems? Why do I have the feeling that you are pissed that you married your first love? Don't, don't screw up. And it will pass. Do you know how much more serious problems you will have as a family. Me, bolder!
I'm number 3, I turn to number 4. Let's stop justifying these men, oh dear, how tired we women are because we are not at all. When a man goes to work, when he comes back, he sits either in front of the computer or in front of the TV, and what do I do when I come back, I clean, cook, wash, look at the children and while I go to bed I keep working. What's wrong if the woman is married for the first love, then if the man does not get up and the tenth is still the same. There is a joke about all men who are supposedly tired of the crappy rocket of space and interfere.
Did you talk about the problem? This was the dumbest thing I've read so far, and there's nothing to advise a woman, you better not write anything.
If you do not have children or have grown up, it is better to find another. Try and succeed!
To numbers 5 and 6 - you are the author of the letter, aren't you? Why did she gather so much malice towards her husband? Think hard, because if this person sleeps with another, it may be that his rocket is not so shoddy.
Many women seem to suffer from the neglect and mistreatment of their husbands. To number 8. I love my husband and if I didn't care I would be with someone else. I don't look bad at all and I'm young. I hold on to him and I respect him.
At number eight, your clairvoyant abilities are at level zero. Unfortunately, I am not the author of the letter, but I have the same problems with a shoddy rocket. If I had to write a letter, I would write the same. Why are we so offended that you are obviously one of those with the shoddy rocket? And on the question that he could sleep with another, I don't care ........ I can't write it in language, he remembered what heh, heh, heh. Sincerely, Ana.
I am M and at home the opposite problem is, if I don't pray as a child every three months they will think of me once. And I have received various piquancy only in alternative connections, to say the least. Where you were insatiable women when I was looking for you, it is the fault of us sufferers as we believed that everything would be fine, and we did not go to the right place on time. Numbers with the mistress is not a job. I've tried but it's still at the expense of something. Who asked why the infidelities.
well done Anna. I fully support you. As long as we justify the shoddy missiles. Well, aren't we tired? They poor only work. Hahaha. I have a lover and I don't care at all about his wife's needs. I look after my life and I'm fine. And he is always muttering, whining, tired, dissatisfied .... safe. Good luck to all the chicks with such whining men at home.
Thanks, №12! I'm a wife with a shoddy rocket, but :) I'm also looking at my life
Mine was always tired, unhappy, dissatisfied, muttering, I was always to blame for something. Because, as I later found out, he was knocking left and right outside. It was ridiculous that he had infected me with a venereal disease, so I found out. And now what - I alternate two of them for revenge, they are not bad, but when I think of him - I take revenge on the whole male tribe. No feelings, these freaks only need to take the money, but they are still either poor or poor. I'm perverted, I know that, I hope no one blames me.
I'm very offended, too, but reading the other comments is obviously natural. It is bad that there is no way out. I have been harassing and suffering for 7 months now. Why are these men doing this to us?
I have been married for a year, but I already have such problems. Already tired, always looking for flaws, I'm tired of pleasing him. He does not want to touch me at all, even to hug me sometimes .. Sometimes we have sex, but it is rare and intimacy ends with that. Many times I asked him why he married me when he didn't like me enough, I told him that I would file for divorce because he was very passive sexually and I was tired of reminding him about it. I was very brave to think that things will get better somehow .. Yes, it's true that I don't look like a model, but I'm not a freak either ... although I'm already starting to feel that way ..
Hello, I read most of the topics on this site and I come to the conclusion that both women and men have similar problems caused by their partners. Honestly, I fall into this group and I'm tired of listening: now I can't, I'm tired, I'm sleepy, etc. I'm sorry that most of us are driven to infidelity, but obviously this is a solution!
I have the author's problem. I put up with it and keep shouting, normal, children, the house is spinning, each other, etc. Although I'm not a drone either, I help with whatever stretching, cleaning, tidying, etc. I can. I will not list. I'm not good at cooking, a fact, but I'm aware of the rest. I work, I earn well, I treat her more than well, I don't drink, I don't watch football and Formula 1 (she's in this part) I'm sure I'm not the man of my dreams, but I think I'm adequate enough to my family commitments, especially at against the background of most men I know who are talked about a lot. And yet sex is a direct force twice a month, and we are 30, it is normal to want more often. Not to mention that these two have happened lately is not true. I must be the attacking party and what I see as a reaction is something like "
Whores! How are you not ashamed?
I'm crying people! We have been married for a year and a half and things have changed :-) I always wanted to have the perfect family! It should always be fixed in us, there should be two dishes, the table should be beautifully arranged before sitting on it .......... I try to make everything good. I gave up all my desires because of his, change me as he sees fit. Gradually it became hell! When he comes home from work, he doesn't want me to ask him anything about his day. If this happens, he starts shouting. We don't talk anymore. He is still bored in us, he doesn't even pay attention to the child. We rarely do it. .WHAT ATTACKS HE BEATS ME. I feel like nothingness. I try to explain what is happening, but I can't. Would anyone with more experience say what could be the reason for this? I was sick! He became radically different!
The first letter was as if I had written it. I have been married for almost 13 years, at the age of 36, with two children, my husband is 42. I love my husband madly, but for us sex has long been a rarity. It happened once a month, it didn't..And it's always at my insistence-I'm very humiliated already..And I cried and I begged..things change briefly and then there is no one again ... it's a pity that I love my husband too much, and I'm the type of woman that in order to sleep with someone I have to be madly in love with him ... otherwise I've found a lover by now ... I don't want to break up my family, because my husband is good, we live well and he is an ideal father ..But the lack of a regular sex life led me to hormonal problems ... I go crazy. He always falls asleep at night, his children disturb us, he needed to watch certain movies to tune in (I don't mind, but it's not always possible), or he wants in the morning when I sleep .. He annoys me the most by asking us to have sex, but he knows that I am in a cycle (he does it because he knows in advance that I will refuse him, or when the children are awake in the next room .. ) Then he calls me-Here I wanted, and you did not want ... Just call the number .. I spotted him masturbating in the bathroom in the morning ... I'm terribly offended..and in extramarital affairs I suspected him, but for some I have time at home, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I always look around and suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . He annoys me the most by asking us to have sex, but he knows that I'm in a cycle (he does it because he knows in advance that I will refuse him, or when the children are awake in the next room ..) Then he calls me - Here I wanted, and you didn't want to ... Just call the number .. I spotted him masturbating in the bathroom in the morning ... I'm terribly offended .. and in extramarital affairs I suspected him, but I've been home for a while, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I keep looking around and I suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . He annoys me the most by asking us to have sex, but he knows that I'm in a cycle (he does it because he knows in advance that I will refuse him, or when the children are awake in the next room ..) Then he calls me - Here I wanted, and you didn't want to ... Just call the number .. I spotted him masturbating in the bathroom in the morning ... I'm terribly offended .. and in extramarital affairs I suspected him, but I've been home for a while, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I keep looking around and I suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . or when the children are awake in the next room ..) Then he calls me-Here I wanted, and you did not want ... Just to call the number .. I spotted him masturbating in the morning in the bathroom ... I'm terribly offended .. and in extramarital affairs I suspected him, but I have been at home for some time, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I always look around and suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . or when the children are awake in the next room ..) Then he calls me-Here I wanted, and you did not want ... Just to call the number .. I spotted him masturbating in the morning in the bathroom ... I'm terribly offended .. and in extramarital affairs I suspected him, but I have been at home for some time, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I always look around and suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . but I've been at home for a while, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I keep looking around and I suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL . but I've been at home for a while, and he also works at home and I see that there is no such thing ... But, I keep looking around and I suspect - does he just not want me anymore, is there another? At one time we commented on going to the doctor..he wanted me to seduce him..everything is only for a short time and then the old song in a new voice .. MEN LOVE YOUR WIVES AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM REGULARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE WE FEEL AND FEEL .
HELLO, AND I WANT TO EXPRESS MY OPINION, THAT IS, I LEAVE A DRUNK MAN OF 35 YEARS OF LOVE, I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MAN OF 42 YEARS OLD, HE WAS WEARING THE FAMOUSNESS OF A WOMAN, ... BOTH FROM WOMEN AND MEN, TERRIBLY GOOD, RESPONSIBLE, KIND, GENTLE, NOBLE, LOVES INTELLIGENT WOMEN WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR, LOOK AT THE APPEARANCE OF NEDA VANAT NAJAN. WIDELY TAILORED, PASSIVE AND TERRIBLY, THE WOMAN IS ENJOYED TO BE ACTIVE TO HIM. THIS IS THE SAME WITH ALL MEN. THEY GO CRAZY WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE POCKING THEM. THEY WILL RETURN TWICE MORE. THEY LOVE INTELLIGENT WOMEN WITH WHOM THEY ARE NOT BORED. FOR MEN, IT'S NOT ENOUGH, JUST COOKING FOR THEM, ETC., PLAY DOMINO, CARDS, DON'T BE ANGRY MAN, YOU HAVE TO DO SO THAT YOU DON'T BORROW.
Dear women, Mimi GIRLS LOVE OF MEN pass through the stomach does not like to be denied sex pretext: My head hurts, children are not sleeping, PARENTS WILL hear us, make sure that, that is convenient for both of you . DO NOT LOOK FOR EXCUSES, BE MORE FREED, MEN ARE LOOKING OUTSIDE FOR WHAT THEY ARE LACKING AT HOME.
I AM 247, DOES ANYONE HAVE AN OPINION ON THE QUESTION
LOVER, NO, IT WORKS IF YOU TALK TO EACH OTHER WHAT'S HAPPENING TO YOU AND WHO NEEDS WHAT
WITH RESPECT TO THE EDITOR, WHEN WILL I BE ABLE TO SEE MY COMMENTS?
I AM TERRIBLY SAD AND PAINFUL THAT I AM EVEN AFRAID, ?????????? YOUNG PEOPLE SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX REGULARLY? THIS IS SCARY !!! WITH MY SECOND MAN, AS I MENTION ABOVE, WE DID IT IN THE MORNING, LUNCH, EVENING, EVERY DAY. I WAS 35 YEARS OLD, AND HE WAS 42 YEARS OLD, THE SAME TODAY. I AM THE HAPPIEST WOMAN AND HE IS THE HAPPIEST MAN, ??? YOU WILL ASK WHY? WE LOVE OURSELVES MORE AND MORE, OUR DESIRE DOES NOT STOP, AND AS HE SAYS, AND I AM OF THE SAME OPINION "EVERY TIME IS DIFFERENT WITH YOU, WE STILL DO IT IN OUR WAY. IN THIS, NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I NOW UNDERSTAND THAT I LOVE THE RIGHT WOMAN AS WELL. " THAT IS CORRECT, BUT THE FACT IS THAT HE WANTS TO BE CONTINUOUSLY TOGETHER, IT'S THE SAME WITH ME. MANY PEOPLE ENVY US, BUT WE ARE NOT GUILTY, INTELLIGENT, WIDELY TAILORED, WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR, WE HAVE FOUND OURSELVES, AND I HAVE NOTICED IT SO MUCH AND I HAVE NOTICED IT. NOW HE CAN'T BREATHE WITHOUT ME. I WISH EVERYONE SUCH LOVE. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND A FRIENDLY SOUL. HE REPEATS IT CONSTANTLY, AND SHOWS IT: DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU? EXACTLY AS VESO SAID TO ELI !!!! AND WE ARE WITH HER OF THE SAME ZODIAC: CANCER / THE BEST MOTHERS, WIVES, WITH AN APOLOGY AND THE BEST KU * YOU IN THE BED. HE TELLS ME THAT HE DON'T EVEN THINK OF IT. I WISH EVERYONE SUCH LOVE. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND A SOUL SOUL. HE REPEATS IT CONSTANTLY, AND SHOWS IT: DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU? EXACTLY AS VESO SAID TO ELI !!!! AND WE ARE WITH HER OF THE SAME ZODIAC: CANCER / THE BEST MOTHERS, WIVES, WITH AN APOLOGY AND THE BEST KU * VE LEGOVA IN THE BED. HE TELLS ME THAT HE DON'T EVEN THINK OF IT. I WISH EVERYONE SUCH LOVE. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND A FRIENDLY SOUL. HE REPEATS CONSTANTLY, AND SHOWS IT: DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU? EXACTLY AS VESO SAID TO ELI !!!! AND WE ARE WITH HER OF THE SAME ZODIAC: CANCER / THE BEST MOTHERS, WIVES, WITH AN APOLOGY AND THE BEST KU * YOU IN THE BED. HE TELLS ME THAT HE DON'T EVEN THINK OF IT.
let me tell you, I'm a super woman - I'm beautiful, intelligent (I even write textbooks when I'm not working), I cook every day and it's delicious ... but foreign men look at me, but mine don't! I am 24 years old, he is 30 years old, we have been together for 7 years and the problem is solved once a month. I really don't know !!! It's not about cooking, it's not about relaxation, it's not about beauty, mind and family games ... understand, I have no remark ... we lack nothing but interest
Oh, how familiar - not so much for sex, it was relatively ok, but for the lack of interest even to talk, to have common activities and interests ... And I talked, and I threatened to separate. Nothing. Finally, when I got tired and we really broke up, then he remembered. He thought that I was just talking to myself, that I had no choice but to put up with him behaving as he saw fit and to put up with it, even though the feeling that I was missing something had poisoned me and he had seen it ... Amy now really wants to come back, she shows me attention in every way, but why should it happen when it's too late, I've made a decision and I'm on a completely different wave ?!
Hello girls! And I join the team of frustrated and rejected women. This is my first time writing in a forum, but I no longer know where to look for solace and I am somewhat reassured by the thought that I am not the only one. I am 23, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and something, he is 24. A year ago he finished his education and started working as an accountant, and since then things have been getting worse. He was still rotten, he still didn't get enough sleep, he didn't have time to eat, he felt tired, he didn't have libido. I have always tried to understand him, to support him, to make things easier for him. I try not to engage him with anything at home, I do everything myself - it's always cooked, I've always washed, ironed, at the same time I try to be beautiful and diverse, I wear sexy lingerie. He treats me very well, but when we go to bed it's like a defensive reaction to say "I'm dying for sleep" or "my back hurts" or something like that, to kiss me quickly, "good night" and before I know it he's turned and asleep. This, as you remember, is even more insulting and frustrating to me and I am very sad ... When I ask him what the problem is, he promises me that he is from work, that he is really rotten (he really works a lot), but I can't do anything. imagine how it is possible that there is no desire for sex. I'm sure there is no other, I am also very good looking, with a nice body and it is not fair that I do not stop looking for the problem in myself. We have sex once a month, if not less often. I've tried to be active, to seduce him with sexy lingerie, and he tells me "please don't do it now, you know I'm screwed and I'm not in such a mood"
Dear girls, from what I have read, I am very sad. Everything is so familiar to me. I'm 40, but I look very good, you see, I'm starting to defend myself, I really don't find fault in myself, because I'm neglected and untouched. It is humiliating to always beg or cry. I love him very much and I don't want another man, I just want his lips, skin, hands, for me he is the most beautiful, as I write this, I cry. I only received attention from him while I was pregnant with our first child, it was a wonderful month, I have never been so happy. For me, this time is priceless. Is there really no way out? ...
Hello girls, everything is so familiar to me, I look very good but I am neglected and untouched. I'm tired of humiliating him begging and crying. I can safely say that if I have had sex, I have reminded him imperceptibly. I think every woman wants the initiator to be the man, so we feel wanted, confident and loved. I love him terribly and I don't want another man, I want his lips, his skin, his hands. As I write these things, I cry. I received attention from him only during the months I was pregnant with our first child, this is the happiest time I have. He always turns his back and the only kisses I get are goodbye and hello. And how can I just wait for him to come home ... Is there really no way out? ...
hello they have the problem of most of you. my husband and I have been together for 7 years out of 4 we hardly have sex. I will only add that for the last year we have done it only 4 times, I am 24 and he is 27 to date. I'm starting to think that there is another place to go because he is young and doesn't have any health problems like me. he says he's tired of just wanting beans and some lentils. We have talked about this topic many times and every time I understand the same, they will change until then. we've only done it once since the beginning of the year, and neither he nor I have made it to the end. he ended up in the bathroom on hand. you can imagine for yourself how I felt. please if you can help me. I forgot to say that I have from sexy to sexy white which he does not even notice turns in bed and falls asleep. is there another? ? ? does he love me or he is with me only because of our son who is 6 years old. I don't look bad at all, even our acquaintances tell me that I look like a model, but on his part NO attention. I'm just crying; (what should I do ???
It may sound a bit vulgar, but here's an unusual suggestion - masturbation, then a light touch on the wrists with the separated brain instead of perfume or in addition to it ... It is filled with female fluids, which should act as an aphrodisiac for men, at least according to the natural laws, according to which the dispersed female attracts the male with her scent ...
I wiped away my tears and decided to look for a way out ... now I am even more hopeless after reading everything you have written so far. it seems as if there is no solution to the problem. I hope one of us finds it and shares it ... I hope ...
I CAN NOT BELIEVE!!! I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME! NOW I CALM DOWN! IT IS OBVIOUSLY AN EPIDEMIC!
I want to share and if anyone can ... I know, .. I don't know what to do .. I was in the same situation as you and it's still like that at home, ie everything else is supposed to be fine, but sex is the most 2 times a month and it doesn't pay me enough attention to .. well, to play, damn it, to feel wanted .. THIS IS ABOUT ABOUT 5 YEARS. Well, I couldn't stand it, maybe because of the need, the attention, is it fate, I don't know either, I've been seeing another man for 3, 5 years, he's married and 1-2 times a week we're together, we have great sex, a lot is gentle, we talk, we share, we laugh .. I have feelings for him, I'm sure he for me too, but we never talk about these things, I don't know, maybe because it doesn't make sense, because we will never be really together .. And so .. I have a lump in my soul, I have never had such another relationship, I have not cheated, I have been married for 14 years,
I did not understand something - you are 32, married for 14 years - that how old did you get married? and I don't understand anything else, why are you with your husband at all? Nothing is holding you back, you are young - you can start fresh.
I'm 32-I got married early, yes, we loved each other, he was with me while I was studying at SF, we lived together as a family without marriage for about 3 years and then we got married and everything was fine until one time ... I understand good with my husband, we support each other .... but I love him as much as I love my sister ... I love the other man, but even if I dump mine, I won't be with him again, because I don't think he will divorce and what. .. I will not be able to look at another as I love him and I will always wait for him and I will hope for the next meeting and my life will pass ...
I wanted to specify - I am 37, not 32
say something please: (((
To number 3, where he was number 5 :))) You seem to forget something very ESSENTIAL. You may be tired, but you open your legs and you're ready, and your husband needs a break to LIFT HIM, even if he has no erection problems in general. It sounds very easy to "invent", but purely physiologically you can't imagine how different men and women are, eh?
Infidelity is not the answer! In my opinion, if the problem is really as serious as you get it out of - the lack of physical intimacy just speaks to the lack of any mental one. Look deeper into the answers to your problems, instead of in your sexual dissatisfaction. Lack of sexual interest indicates a deep insult or dissatisfaction with your partner and your relationship.
If you do not have problems in your relationship, the problem should be sought in our busy daily lives, times change, stress speaks for itself, insomnia too. It doesn't cost a woman anything to open her legs, but for a man an erection and libido are a very complicated system. In other words, a woman can have sex while sleeping, but a man can't. And the women who haven't had sex ... They are very strange to me. It seems to me like a system and a method of manipulation. Or deep insult and disgust at something.
Oh, this cooling is present in many families. and my husband is cold, what did I try, how could I not ask him for tenderness, but ... I have not shared this with anyone, I am not wanted, he prefers to sleep in the kitchen in front of the TV than in the bedroom with me. We have been married for 2 years. we have a 4th month baby, he is nice to him, and to me, but just not to have sex. I don't know what to do, I think he loves me, but I don't know why I'm forcing him to do it
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This is called sexual anorexia in modern men. I am a 39-year-old man and I really have no desire for caresses, but I love my wife and I can't do without her. Maybe the reason lies in the nudity all around us and the internet and men get pleasure from it and not from physical intimacy
47, I'm sorry, but it's not normal 39 and it's not any sexual anorexia, just look at your hormones - specifically testosterone! If you feel without mood, without strength, this will be it. At 39 you would otherwise have to boil with sexual energy. If you ejaculate infrequently, it further causes your body to produce less and less testosterone. Otherwise, the eroticism in the media should have been more stimulating. See the sex life with your wife, take care of more frequent sex, it's good for both of you. If you give up sex now, the likelihood of prostate cancer and other diseases increases. You will most likely be among the men with the so-called "male critical". 30% of men aged 40+ suffer from this disease, produce very little testosterone, age prematurely, gain weight, are not sexual at all and have no desire. You decide for yourself if you want to end up like this,
I'm hyperactive, but don't be in a hurry to envy me. We have sex almost every day, I don't refuse him, I love him, he always satisfies me, I want him, nooo ... he cheats on me. I dream a lot, but not about sex, but about love. Can anyone advise me something? F40
Empty work. Whatever you discuss, it is clear that with time comes boredom and sexual boredom. For some faster for some slow. It depends on the sexuality of the two and how important sex is for them. It is no coincidence that there is a parable in which a man tells how a man had the most beautiful and amazing woman, but he never touched her again. The other men envied him and wondered how it was possible. And he replied, if you eat your favorite food every day for years, you will lose all interest in it and you will want something else. Everything is so simple. Read on the Internet, scientists have found how falling in love and the power of sexual desire is in the first 2-3 years. Then the hormones decrease dramatically. The desire decreases and the pink glasses fall off. The only way hormones can clog up again is with a new partner. Read on the topic on the Internet " love lasts 2-3 years ". Do you think that you will be as in love pigeons forever as you were in the beginning. How naive. This sexual boredom is a genetic program embedded in each of us, because we are polygamous and thus nature makes us We are not like the monogamous animals that have been with one partner all their lives. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist it for a long time. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a piggy bank on a coin when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out on a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the piggy bank. This is the case with man and other polygamous beings. The exceptions confirm the rule. that you will be as doves in love forever as you were in the beginning. How naive. This sexual boredom is a genetic program embedded in each of us, because we are polygamous and thus nature makes us look for the next partner. We are not like monogamous animals who have been with one partner all their lives. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule. that you will be as doves in love forever as you were in the beginning. How naive. This sexual boredom is a genetic program embedded in each of us, because we are polygamous and thus nature makes us look for the next partner. We are not like monogamous animals who have been with one partner all their lives. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule. This sexual boredom is a genetic program embedded in each of us, because we are polygamous and thus nature makes us look for the next partner. We are not like monogamous animals who have been with one partner all their lives. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule. This sexual boredom is a genetic program embedded in each of us, because we are polygamous and thus nature makes us look for the next partner. We are not like monogamous animals who have been with one partner all their lives. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule. They have a different genetic program. Nature, you can't resist her for long. A clever thought from the professional experience of a sexologist - "In the first 3 years, if a couple puts in a money box when they have sex and after the 3rd year takes out a coin when they have sex, then the coins will never run out in the money box. So this is the case with humans and other polygamous beings, and the exceptions confirm the rule.