My Husband Insults Me

   Honey, this man doesn't want your child or you. How smart did you keep him and are you still with this man? He insults you and hits you to leave him, because he obviously can't tell you that he doesn't want to be with you, nor does he want children. All I see in all his behavior is that he wants to get rid of you, that's my personal opinion, I'm sorry if it hurts. I think that once you are in the 4th month, you cannot remove the child, but in my opinion, even after he is born, the insults and reproaches on his part will continue because he does not want to be married. In the next insult on his part, I would advise you to leave him. Let him look for you if he feels obligated.

   Take matters into your own hands, discard this nothingness, fix your life so that you don't regret it while you're alive. It was really better to terminate this pregnancy. But if you can't, at least get rid of this monster.

   I advise you to leave your husband. Not only does he not love you, but he does not respect you. That's not enough, but from now on he hates your child. You don't have a rosy future with this person, and I don't think about the child's future if you stay together. One thing is not clear to me, you say that he is your husband, so you have a marriage ... the marriage is concluded for the purpose of creating a family, ie children, and this child does not happen with custody, ie he consciously has created, and now why doesn't he want it? This thing doesn't matter to me. But anyway, he doesn't want it, and believe me - he doesn't want you either, when he talks to you and behaves like that. If you stay with him and "paint" his unwanted child, then all three of you will be unhappy. You choose for yourself whether to be unhappy with this person, but for the child, if you are a conscientious person, you will not allow it. Better to grow up loved by his mother, without a father, than with one who hates him even before he is born. Moreover, he will always attribute his failures to you and the child you kept against his will. This will crush you day after day, you will ruin yourself, the child along this whole story too. Eventually, in a few years, you will probably realize that it makes no sense and leave it, but then the child will have seen enough of everything I describe, and maybe I miss a lot of unpleasant things that he will witness .. This will leave a lasting impression on his fragile psyche. Think about whether it's worth doing to him. Tell your parents about what is happening to you, they are experienced people, and at least they did not find you on the street - they will support you and give you the best advice. I only advise you not to do nonsense (abortion) - you will never forgive yourself, and you're already late this month. The child will give meaning to your life, and you are not small. Not being the right person doesn't make you a bad mother, but remember that you already have to think about two - think about the baby, his peace now in your womb and in the future - when he is born. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. The child will give meaning to your life, and you are not small. Not being the right person doesn't make you a bad mother, but remember that you already have to think about two - think about the baby, his peace now in your womb and in the future - when he is born. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. The child will give meaning to your life, and you are not small. Not being the right person doesn't make you a bad mother, but remember that you already have to think about two - think about the baby, his peace now in your womb and in the future - when he is born. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. that you haven't met the right person doesn't make you a bad mother, but don't forget that you have to think about two people now - think about the child, about his peace now in your womb and in the future - when he is born. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. that you haven't met the right person doesn't make you a bad mother, but don't forget that you have to think about two people now - think about the child, about his peace now in your womb and in the future - when he is born. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. It will not be easy for you alone, but if you continue like this it will be much harder for you. You love your baby and you don't want him to be unhappy, do you? You love this ungrateful man, too, your husband - let him be happy without you and his already unborn child. Let him find the master, a successful woman, who will tell him the game. He deserves it. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him. Good luck and write what happened. I'm with you. PS - There is nothing more beautiful than the smile on your baby's face when he hears your voice speaking softly to him.

   Hello, I'm 26 years old too, but they carry me in their arms. Leave him alone. It's obviously rubbish. You have no place next to him. You are young and now is the time to live. Indeed, if you stay with him you are nothing ... it is difficult, but it is more difficult if he leaves you or replaces you with another. You will grieve for 1-2 months and then you will laugh for that moment ....

   ole, dear girl, go to the doctor and try to have an abortion, I tell you this man does not love you, does not want a child, you will look after him alone if you give birth to him. It's a very bad story, I just got sick, the child is not guilty, but it's your fault that you will keep him without this man wanting him ... you will sacrifice your life and you have to look for another man to look after him

   Get away from this man. One should strive for happiness, not run away from it. You will never be happy with this person. Talk to yours. Good luck :)

   "It all started before I got pregnant - sometimes he just insulted me, then he started attacking me ..." Girl, girl ... do you have a mind? Or make sure you don't stay unmarried, so that the neighborhood gossips don't point fingers at you. And how did you decide to get pregnant after he had already started insulting and beating you? !! What can I tell you - it's hard for you now, but it will be even harder. No one will put their hands in the abortion and have an abortion. Even if you give birth to him, you will struggle, as a sinful devil, to connect the two ends on your own. Parents and help - it will be time. Giving it home - all your life you will always think about it and wonder where it is and what it is. The best option is for God to have mercy on you and have a miscarriage. Know that you have the right to sue him for maintenance, once you are married, the children are automatically recognized as spouses, even if the child is born 9 months. after the date of the official divorce. If you still give birth to him and keep him - seek your rights, do not be a sheep!

   Hello! The child gives meaning to everyone's life! (without oligophrenics like your husband) You better not have an abortion. In my opinion, this is a great sin ... (I hope I don't have to) Watch your child alone, And you are young, you will find the right person sooner or later. Share with your parents. And to comment number 5 .... Do you have a soul and conscience, you were a man !!!

   Run. Fast. You must have disappeared before you gave birth. Please do it. A 13-year-old child is asking you. I beg you, run. I was born in a terrible environment. For as long as I can remember, my father has been drinking. There were a lot of ... ugly scenes unfolding before my eyes - my father attacking my mother, my mother shouting at me to run and lock myself ... when we moved he was waiting for us at the door, lurking. Every time I went to him, quarrels and ugly talk started about my mother. At least now we are in a new place and everything is fine. And he's fine so far, he's not behaving so badly, he hasn't drunk in a month. But still, because of these disgusting events, I have a mental problem. Depression. For your own good and for the good of your child, I ask you to leave him. I don't think it's love.

   Apparently he can't find another one abroad and that's why he's angry that he's stuck with you. There's definitely a reason for that - I guess he knows you've been with someone else. Don't tell me you're a faithful wife, pregnant, and this man you used to like has now become an animal for no reason. Whatever the reason, the child is in 1st place. Such a furious man will be a huge mental burden for your future child - Alone or with a new one - but not with him ... my father was like that and he is still ... I speak from experience. I tell you this as a man of a woman - once we catch you, then whatever we tell you you are nothing to us, everything else is a lie - including attempts to start anew. I guess if you catch yours, you think the same way, but for one reason or another you're fooling yourself. Once you make a mistake, there will be a second.

   № 10, your comment is idiotic and I don't know why the moderators, who are supposed to be so precise that there are no "offensive and illiterately written comments", have published it. And also go and learn the Bulgarian alphabet - the letters "ъ" and "ь" are TWO DIFFERENT LETTERS WITH DIFFERENT MEANING AND PRONUNCIATION. Recently, you have been struggling with your brilliant "thought" on this site, but you are hellishly recognizable - first in your spelling and second in your flat-minded judgments. / Moderator7 - I don't think we have an explanation. Comment №10 is approved because it is clear to all of us that the author wants to write "ъ". And he is definitely not illiterate for that reason. The comment is useful, expresses a clear position on the topic and is not offensive in nature, unlike yours. Writing things like "your comment is idiotic" and "your flat-minded judgments" are insults directed directly at the author of comment 10 and have nothing to do with the topic. Which is a warning to you. It is right, when you accuse another of lack of education, to at least demonstrate such. Moreover, if all comments were deleted with spelling mistakes, there will be almost none. The forum is not for spelling, but it is desirable to write competently.

   Dear girl ... Don't call him a husband - you are actually separated. To behave in this way - has seriously changed his plans and there is no going back. He told you in plain text and showed that he had left you. But don't care! You have to agree that no one is insured against scoundrels. They exist and you came across one of the lowest ones by all means ... Be sure to keep your child, and without that nowadays most children have one parent, don't think about it at all, but watch it and love it. Children are the MOST VALUABLE. They do not deserve to see their mothers humiliated and crushed, they must see them shining with tenderness and serenity. Seek the support of your loved ones for the first few years, and then take your life in hand, motherhood gives great strength, you will see. And you will not be without love, I promise you.

   Run! Run without turning! Worse, it will happen. Eli.

   You will not remove this child! This idiot your husband - he apologizes for leaving you don't take the child away hold him

   Girl, save yourself !!! AND BE SURE TO SHARE WITH YOUR PARENTS. If they are normal and decent people, they will support you and help you end the relationship with this bully and abuser. Divorce until he is born, so that he doesn't think of seeking parental rights later! It is better to look after your child alone than to be trampled by some complex abuser. I speak from OWN EXPERIENCE - as I grew up in such an environment (father with problems with alcohol and aggression). Do not assume at all that you are nothing, it's just an effect of the naughty attitude of an unfortunate person. If you stay with him, it will deepen and one day you will feel that you have ruined your life and self-esteem because of some complex bastard!

   I don't know exactly what to tell you. I think your husband is a typical IDIOT, and I want to tease you for being nice to him. Fuck him and sign his divorce papers and let him be ... is in d h. You have nothing to do with an IDIOT like this. He is not human. It's shaky.

   The solution to your problem is only one - divorce. There is no way to change such a person, and even if you succeed - it will be temporary. Do not risk being beaten and insulted without support in a foreign country. Share with your parents and start your life from scratch. It will not be easy, because you will be alone with a child, but I believe that you will meet the right person for you.

   Abe, the people who said to remove the child - are they crazy! This is a gift from God and no one has the right to interfere in his affairs!

   Abe, 23, get out of junior high school first, then say it so emphatically. Will God pay her the electricity bill or buy her diapers? When she gives birth - what - she will be miserable and will suffer, and the child will be miserable with her. Or she will be financially dependent on her parents, which will undoubtedly have a "super" effect on her personal self-esteem. I beg you 12-year-olds not to take a stand on adult topics! You have a "Teen Stories" section.

   leave as fast as you can !!! Besides, you will find love again, and after a man attacks and insults you now that you are pregnant, what will he do in years to come when you will not be so young !!! Leave now to be happy again !! One will find oneself to love both you and your child !!

   Moderator 7 /, on the one hand you don't think you owe an explanation, but on the other hand you explain. Could you tell me, if you like, with what, the comment under number 10 is useful for the author? And I will tell her to take her life in her hands and continue on her own. Your priority, dear girl, is now the little man in your womb. Don't put up with this stress anymore, at least because of your child. I don't know why, but I think this man continues to be your husband, solely out of obligation because of your pregnancy. I also think that it was his parents who advised him to stay with you for this very reason. At the same time, I wonder how, after he touched you (you, with your heads, you will forgive me, but they are stupid excuses), you continued to be with him. What kind of masochism haunts most modern women, I can not understand! File for divorce and don't deal with this person anymore! I wish you a light and trouble-free pregnancy!

   Hello, I am writing, who wrote and wrote my complaint. Since we are separated - he lives in another country, there have been no cases of physical violence, but the harassment continues ... I am separated from my friends, I live separately from my parents (the reason is partly that I do not want them to be harassed) I am no longer impressed by any of his words or insults. The constant threats of divorce continue, and to be honest, I think it's only a matter of time. I do not have the strength to turn to anyone, I constantly think that I am to blame for everything. In the end, I got contractions at a very early stage and I think they are mainly due to his constant bad attitude. At the same time, when he is in the mood, things look great, he is a loving husband who does everything for me, but under this mask lies a fear of not repeating it all. I am honestly afraid that when we live together things will get worse. This is the main reason why I don't want to go to him, I'm just afraid that separated from my relatives I won't have protection from anywhere and I don't know how far I can go. He does not admit his guilt and suggests to me that I am to blame for everything that is the first sign of the victim. I don't have the strength to see anyone because I don't have eyes to look at them and say I'm not happy. Everything goes to the usual family problems, but I don't think they can be normal. that I am to blame for everything that is the first sign of the victim. I don't have the strength to see anyone because I don't have eyes to look at them and say I'm not happy. Everything goes to the usual family problems, but I don't think they can be normal. that I am to blame for everything that is the first sign of the victim. I don't have the strength to see anyone because I don't have eyes to look at them and say I'm not happy. Everything goes to the usual family problems, but I don't think they can be normal.

   And I experienced such horrors on the part of my father, with whom I no longer see and we live with my mother, I am 21, she is 45 and my two sisters are 10 and 11 years old.

   I really hate someone when they post a topic and people want to help, and he / she just dumps it without bothering to let someone know how things went. I know no one is obligated, but it would be right. This child should have been born by now, but we will never understand the development of this story :(

   I beg you 12-year-olds not to take a stand on adult topics! You have a "Teen Stories" section. hello 24 number be careful