Hi, I've come across a lot of stories, but I want to share mine. My husband and I have been living together for 7 years and we have 2 children, we also have our own business, which he completely stopped doing and transferred all responsibilities to me. He drinks all the time, quarrels with me, insults me, attacks me, he is downright disgusting. I told him I would leave him, but he was threatening to kill me. I have a place to go and someone to help me, but I'm worried about him not doing something to my loved ones and especially to the children. I wanted him to disappear and never see him again. I don't know what to do ...
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Do you know why it attacks you? Because this is the only way to be stronger than you, obviously not even in words. A complete wretched man and a real weakling, he uses the means of manipulation and threat. I think you are a strong and aware woman, I even think that you have already made the decision, you just want to hear from the side if it is right. Yes, that's right! Act, there is nothing and he can't do to you, at most to get even more drunk and to get stuck somewhere. Bad
Your husband is obviously quite a big complex, people like him are very clear to me, they drink, beat their wives and that makes them feel strong. I think your husband is a great coward and will hardly dare to do anything to your loved ones. Therefore, act boldly, divorce, take your children with you, and this complex to drink and break your head when she knows a lot and do not worry, you are neither the first nor the last woman who will raise her children alone. Rebel
We are not married, I don't know if it's good or bad, but I'm determined to leave. thanks for the support
Do not procrastinate, but act. The longer you wait, the worse for you and the children. Once you have a place to go even better. You say that you also have a business, so you manage financially. You hire a lawyer and offer him in a civilized way to separate by mutual consent. If it doesn't, then the hard way is coming, but you will have a great chance to take everything from him. * Syndrome
I don't want his business at all, he is his, the fact that I took him completely is my fault, the question is that at the moment he can't handle it alone, and I don't worry financially because both mother and father and my grandmothers have their own funds and apartments. The thing is, I never want to see him again.
Consult an attorney if you can. Obviously your family won't be.
Well, I'm 13 and you're unlikely to listen to a child, but I'll tell you that divorce is the best solution .. don't be afraid of him .. he threatens you just so you don't leave believe me I know from personal experience it was the same with ours but divorced and now we are fine I see my father again but he no longer drinks which is very good .. he threatened mom they were offended and it was only because he drank a lot .. divorce him take your children and go where you want ... as I said he only threatens you with me was the same story .. :) .. and you can also report to the police do not be afraid of anything choose or stay to touch you .. to insult and threaten you or you get a divorce and you will be calm and not every day to think what will happen when he comes home drunk :) I hope I helped .. :) in your place I would do it :) good luck
Hello The decision has been made, as far as I understand he is not your husband and only a roommate you do not need a divorce to leave. You are afraid that he will do something to the children, this is stupid of you, he is their father, he is certainly aware that the children are not to blame for your separation, so there is no need to physically hurt them. You will save them from mental injuries only if you have brought them up well, so that they do not think about the words of an angry person, but it depends on how big they are. There is nothing to share with him just one case for guardians of the children and everything is fine.
I also agree with the others. Think of your children first. Get rid of him, what's wrong with you? Are you going to make a pickle out of it, give him a red card and that's it. ^^^^ CRAZY
You have a place to go, you're not married ... why the hell are you still with him when he doesn't care about you? !! You take your children when he's gone so he doesn't do something stupid, if you have a close friend you take him with you, just in case, you send the children to the new place first and leave ... it just doesn't make sense, so you and they suffer . As wise people say, something that happened once may not happen again, but something that happened a second time ... will not stop. So get out while it's time.