My husband and I have been living together for 8 years without children. From the beginning, he hinted to me that he did not like to have sex. There was no reason in me, I was tight, he felt good, but he didn't like to do it. Or exactly what they praised him so much, maybe without him. When he was 12 to 17 years old, he was constantly doing it, but he had no one to talk to. Then there was, but his desire began to wane. He is now 33 years old and I think it is too early to stop doing it. Otherwise I do everything in bed and he to me, sex is great, but he has no desire often. In the evening, when we go to bed, he gets aroused with a kiss, but he turns around and doesn't want to. Some will say that there are others, but no, we work together, we have a common business, there is no other. And this is not from today. Quite often. until I wake up and mouse under the covers to wake him up with oral love, but he pushes me away again. Sometimes when we think about it, we have sex, and we both always end up, even a few times, but it bothers me from the inside that he doesn't want to. We do it once a week, sometimes every two weeks. I try to diversify things otherwise with anal, french everything. And we change places on countertops in the kitchen, on the ground, everywhere. When we do it is quality, but it is rare. And since I told him he didn't like it and couldn't stand my sexual desire, I've been feeling bad.
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And I'm at this age and I feel that I don't feel that way anymore and honestly I feel better that way. I used to be like a hot boar and I wanted every one I met, and when I couldn't have it, I was roaring with instinct. Now I feel more spiritual and blissful. I don't know if you know, but once upon a time the ancient Romans celebrated the onset of their impotence with tumultuous celebrations.
I think he's asexual
"In the evening, when we go to bed and with a kiss, he gets aroused, but he turns around and doesn't want to." Can't get aroused and get angry, and turn around and fall asleep !? At least make up these stories more sparingly.
I'm 41, we have children with the woman and I don't forget to slap her when and where I cook! My instinct is the same as at 17, it has not decreased at all!
And I don't feel like I used to, but I'm only 25, from 16 to 20 I could have sex 4-5 times a day without affecting my firmness and desire. Every woman I wanted, even uglier and fatter, but slowly began to reduce my desire. And I don't suffer from a lack of female attention, but somehow it's as if I don't care about having sex, it's very strange. I prefer to train, ride a motorcycle and various other hobbies. I thought I had a hormonal problem, but I didn't, I tested myself, and I don't have any problems when I have sex. If it comes to a woman going to touch me or make me French, as the author says, I get aroused for a second. It's just that now, when I'm standing, I have no desire for sex, and when I talk to women, it must have already come to sex itself and the woman should have been more assertive, so that a desire may appear to me. It became very confused, but it really shows my thoughts, also confused ...
"It used to be a rule, no longer" sounds like an endocrinological problem to me. The first step is to understand that there is a problem and you need a solution. Try a testosterone supplement.
I'm 25 again ... In fact, the internet, as well as the stories of friends and girlfriends, have a lot of influence, this site too. Not everyone has to have sex all the time, I don't know where this notion comes from that in a relationship you have to have sex all the time, not all people are that sexual. It is bad when one is and the other is not. I have acquaintances who try to do it every day, just because they have to ... it's funny. Everyone is free to do it as much as they want, I don't see why anyone is convicted, since they didn't want more sex than 1- 2 times a week. And next to the author, the simplest solution is, if you don't think you can adapt to his desire to separate, simple solutions are most appropriate sometimes. And if you don't have children, you may simply not be compatible to live together, if you complain here, you will hardly understand each other, it's only a matter of time before it starts to make you nervous. And you are right for yourself and he is right for him.
6 If it is not done to you, now the units will be imposed on you. Ganyo wants everyone to be sexually active. Hey, I, under number 1, had the imprudence to share that I don't have the same desire as before, and I immediately found a boss to put a unit on me. Your mother Ganyovska. You only understand from swearing.
isn't he gay too likely
And what have you been doing with him for 8 years then? As he told you in the beginning. We strangers to computers can't cure it.
From the Author: # 4 is not a fictional story, I would not bother to write. # 12 I'm just probing opinions, I'm not with him just for sex, he gets used to it over time, I just want to know if it's the same with others or the reason is in me
Nothing personal .... but you must be fat and your bacon hangs all over your body and you are not nimble in bed as you once were and therefore no longer wants you and does not want to have sex with you. It's a miracle that he hasn't found a mistress yet, try to make some change in your sexual and personal life, otherwise you will be a traveler soon.
No more nonsense, I'm 53 years old and I have sex, it's not every day, but I do, at least twice a week we do it, my wife is 45 years younger and she has a lot of sex. It is not normal for a 30-year-old man to have a sex life at the age of 60.
I just despair reading some of the comments. People, have sex! While you can, up to 50, 60 and up to 100 if you can! There is nothing better than sex and doing it with the person you really adore! Sex is an art and is something unique, it keeps you young, alive, energetic, happy. Especially for us women it is very important to be regular. I'm not saying it's not for men, but we give it more emotional meaning.
It has happened to me many times with my ex, but I suffer from tinnitus and chronic headaches. I got aroused very easily, but in the evening I preferred to rest than to have sex. I didn't care just because I wake up many times in the evening and I don't sleep well. I felt like it when I wasn't at work the next day. With my current girlfriend for now I am neither bored nor have a moment not to feel like it, but I still try to save energy and when it is during the week I watch for 5-10 minutes she will finish quickly and go to bed because I am tired and I do not sleep well and every second is important to me, otherwise I'm constantly aroused!