I live in a small town where we all know each other, but he was a man I didn't know. He passed by thousands of times at home, but I hadn't noticed him until then. We started writing on a dating site, where we both didn't have pictures. He was married and I had a long relationship. We started seeing each other, our meetings were wonderful, sex too, but suddenly he started entering the site less and less often. Then he stopped calling, and I was crazy. I wanted to be with him and a year later I got him back, but he still calls in a month or two ... Today I am alone and he is still married, but his feelings remain :( Please tell me how to forget everything
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You can't forget it ...... It was wrong anyway ...
Find someone else, don't hurt yourself with a committed man who won't leave his wife.
Whether it is right or wrong is not the question, but the problem is that you have not been on an equal footing. You had a relationship, but he's still married and probably has children, and things get definitely complicated. Your expectations, even if you don't admit it, were higher, and he was obviously looking for variety. Because it's one thing when two people meet by chance and even though they are engaged, feelings flare up, and it's another thing to visit a dating site. But anyway. The problem is that obviously you put in feelings, and he, as I can roughly put it, appears when something itches him .... I'm sorry, but don't your feelings get cold, considering how much and why does he remember you and he's also married? Sorry if what you wrote sounds offensive, but I have a girlfriend who literally went through hell with such a relationship - she is divorced and in love, and someone who is married and uses it for relaxation after conflicts at home. And this - 15 years! Only now did she realize how humiliating it was, for example, to receive him and sleep with him, when he hadn't called for several months, and even suddenly he appeared and she forgot everything. Judge for yourself, but my advice is to drop it.
Today you are alone and you will stay that way, he is still married and he will stay that way. You have both ignored unwritten moral rules, but for him there will eventually be a guilty conscience, and for you loneliness and empty hopes - the feelings that are left, are unlikely to warm you in bed. Winnie the Pooh
To spit on your invented moral rules! you go against nature and delude yourself that it elevates you.
HAS HE LEFT HIS WIFE BECAUSE OF YOU? NO !!! WHAT ELSE DO YOU HOPE FOR ??? WELL, PUT YOURSELF IN ITS PLACE AND THEN WRITE !!! AMAN FROM SUCH GIRLS LIKE YOU !!! THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF FREE BOYS, I KNOW, YOU WILL SAY THAT HE IS IN YOUR HEART, BUT, UNDERSTAND, THERE IS NO MUTUAL LOVE BETWEEN YOU, JUST USE YOU AND ASK HIM FOR IT. IN THE OPINION OF ME, HE KEEPS HIS WIFE, AND IS SURE WITH YOU FOR ENTERTAINMENT ??? SPECIFY THIS WITH HIM. DON'T LET YOU LOSE YOUR GOOD YEARS !!!
Number 6. When you started criticizing, did you wonder why I went into his arms? And when you encounter pain at every good word, wouldn't you go into the arms of someone who understands you? 90% of the families today live together not because they understand each other, but because of their children and he stayed with her, because of them. I hope your husband does not cheat on you and that you have the perfect relationship! Good luck.
TO THE AUTHOR: I HAVE A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP with my second husband ... HE DIDN'T STAY WITH HIS EXE ... because of the children .... AND GATHERED WITH ME ..... WE HAVE 16 YEARS MORE THAN A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. .... We have: passion, love .... and all together ... Our people are HAPPY .... And I wish you success !!!