Hello! I am a boy of 19 and I have a ball coming up. I am already preparing for it, choosing a suit, a photographer, a restaurant where we will be with the class and everything looks great. But my lady does not want to attend the prom night. I live in a city where, traditionally, the balls do not start with shiny cars, with columns of cars kilometers long, but start from the park and walk along the entire pedestrian promenade, to the city center. My lady, who is a relative of mine, not a friend, agreed when I offered her to be my lady at the ball, but only to walk with me on the pedestrian promenade in the city. Once we get to the center, the photographer took pictures of us, she wants to leave and not be present at the prom, because she thinks that this prom is for graduation. I agree with her to some extent, but the other ladies of my classmates will be present at the ball night, because I hear they collect a deposit for them too. It's kind of weird for all the classmates with the ladies at the prom to suddenly be at the restaurant and, like I was with the lady, go in alone. Please someone tell me in this situation how it is more correct, whether to attend the ball night or to walk only on the pedestrian alley and there.
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Why do you want to be present when he's not even your boyfriend? I don't understand it with this dragging of ladies and gentlemen who have nothing in common. Evening is the last night of your class. People should not be hanging out of the way. At least for your classmates it is not pleasant to wonder what these strangers are in the photos and in the video. Personal opinion I graduated 7 years ago and we had agreed who will be with whom before that. Two boys who didn't have a lady had caught the class and it was super cool.
Don't push her to come. The prom night is a "last" meeting with the class. Most high school seniors who have a lady / gentleman are torn in two between the class and the other person. Not to mention that your lady will surely be bored and will have the feeling that she is out of place among your classmates. If she changes her mind, take her, but if she doesn't want to, don't bother her to come.
Hello Friend. :) I finished school three years ago. In my hometown, this is also the case with ladies and gentlemen who are not part of the class. The evening itself is at the prom and outsiders are not present. But it's obviously different for you. By the way, I was the gentleman at the classroom and at the dinner itself, and then I was also practically alone, because the teachers (the class and the invited teachers) sit at separate tables. I can tell you it's not a big drama. With us, most "couples" didn't even sit together. Most of the little ones gathered in the usual groups. You are with her class, and you can always invite a girl to a dance. Whatever happens, he doesn't think much of it. After all, this is your night and you will have a good time. Come success exams and successful and cheerful completion. :)
Haha, yes I have your problems. How many people without ladies and gentlemen were at their balls and came to life again.
Invite a classmate! The ball is really for graduation!
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Well, talk to her, explain things to her. We are not allowed to take our gentlemen and ladies to the restaurant on the first prom night, which is stupid, but because of the graduation.
I suggest you dump her as a lady at all! I was alone the whole time and no one did anything to me. I even arranged to dance with one of the beautiful ladies several times, because her gentleman was extremely uninterested in dancing, and she was dancing. If he's going to sulk even if he's your relative, it doesn't make sense! We suffer enough whims from others, and even from our own.
I don't see anything embarrassing if you don't have a boyfriend to go alone. you invited your relative and she is uncomfortable sitting among the others as if she were your boyfriend, I don't know how you don't get involved.
From the author: Numbers 1 and 2, I don't press her to come, she wants a lot, but she is not comfortable, because the ball is for graduation Number 3: I can only thank you for your wishes, there must be such people who are positive :) Number 5 and 6: He graduates, and the school is only for boys, our school is technical, there are no girls, this is one of the reasons I am with a lady. Number 7: Thank you, at the end of the comment I will write what happened Number 8: It's too rude for a girl I treat like my little sister Number 9: Like I said, she wants, she's just not comfortable Thank you to all about the positive comments, I talked to her and she agreed, I also told the person responsible for determining the number and paying for the envelope. I wish everyone all the best!
I was also without a lady at my prom, but I know that I had a great time, today I am almost 25 years old