Hi, I am 26 years old and I have a serious friend of 8 years. He is everything to me and I love him terribly. I have a problem .... I have no desire for sex! As we go to do, the desire comes, but I do not show initiative. It's been like that for 5-6 years, maybe. Advise how I could increase my libido Exclude the option to change partners! DEFINITELY Thank you in advance!
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Maybe you have some kind of trauma (someone raped you, harassed you, tried you, said something disgusting)? Or did you have sex with someone who disgusted you? Or maybe you're just asexual. There are millions of people around the world who do not like / hate sex, respectively, do not do and live wonderfully. Sex is not vital, in fact it is not important at all, so you have no reason to worry.
Training - sports, strength, aerobics ...
Give it to his anus. Your libido will jump like a young stick.
Hormone tests, etc. You have a gynecologist, he is asked the answer, it will be much clearer and more accurate than here. And if everything is fine, then the problem is psychological.
Is there anything that burdens you in your life? For example, I suffer from anxiety and when I am tense it is very difficult for me to switch (and some time ago I had a desire absolutely every day) ...
To number 7: from the age of 19 I have to deal with many things alone that people aged 30-40 face. Due to stress I gained about 40 kg in just one year .. maybe this led to this problem, I know